冷战是什么意思？夫妻如果不跨过这些坎，婚姻很难幸福

 shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？yiqiedouzaizhuanbian，nimeifayuliaoxiayimiaohuichanshengnaxie，jibiannijianxindeshier，yehuigenggai。jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？meiyigerendaohunyinshenghuozhong，douxiangxinzishendehunyinshenghuo，yidingkeyiyishengyishi，tahuiainiyibeizi，zishenhuiaitayibeizi。danshijibingbushizheiyang，youhenduofufu，guodechengbuxiaqu，zaochengledichu。

 shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？zhongjiu，shenghuoshizaimeiyitian，laogonghelaopomeiyitiandoujiaowangzaiyiqi，yishizhuxingzaitongyiwuyanxia，dangranyeyouchixudemoca，chixudefashengzhengzhi，jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？hunyinshenghuoshishaoleyigelanman，dandaliangdeshiyouyanjiangcu，yincihunyinshenghuobibushangxiangxiangzhongdexingfu，yishengdehunyinshenghuoyeshishifenjiannande。

 fufuhelianrenduibi，budanjiehunzhengshuzheimejiandan，henduorenshashaderenwei，fufuhelianrenshiyiyangde，zhibuguoshiduoleyizhangjiehunzhengshu。shijishanghunhoushenghuoyuanbiqinglvdeyishizhuxingfanza，zaizaijialianggerenmeiridouhuitongyigewuyan，yulaiyulejie，zhujianshiqushenmiganhereqing，qingganyehuizaoyuxuduomolian。

shijishangfufudezheizhongzuai，jiaruguoqujiuyibeizi，danjiaruguoqu，bianhuishihunyinshenghuowanbideyunshi，yibushifufu。

结婚期的坎

 meirenshijizhide，suoyourenchangyouquexian，zaiqinglvdeqingkuangxia，jianghuiyouhenduoquexianmeiyoufajue，nenggou bianchengfufu，yishizhuxingzaiyiqihou，neimagerenquedianhequedian，jiumeiyoudiqunenggou yanzang，bianhuiyigegepuluchuqu，zheigeshihou，bixuliangrendemoheqi。

 xuduofufu，gangwanhunjigeyue，jiulilehun，juedaduoshudeyuangushimoheqibutaihao，xianghudexingqinghuoshibukeyijienalingyifangdequexian，bukeyikuanrong，yincibukeyizaici，zhiyouliqu。

 yinci，duifufueryan，diyigekunnanbianshi，jiehunqidemoheqi。nenggou jienalingyifangdeyouquehan，nenggou renshoulingyifangdequexian，zhengchao，xuduorenzhiqian，nenggou woshichuangzhengchaochuangjiaohe，neiyangdeyishizhuxingshi。danjiarubukeyizaiyouliangdeyunzuo，bukeyixiguanxing、bukeyijienalingyifangdequexian，meiyicitamenzhengchao，douchaozhelihunle，neimazaowanliyi，hennanguozaici。

 jiehunqinei，zhengchaodadepipipapadefufu，huiyizhizhengchaoxialai，jibianrujinbuliqu，yezaowanyouyitianhuiliqu，erbutaikenengyibeizi。

平淡期的坎

 zuorihetangdixianliao，tashuotadehaoduogepenyoudoulilehun，xihuanriyudiwendaoyuangu，tagenwoshuoshiyouyutadepenyouzhuandeqianshaole，bukeyijinvxingfuyoudeyishizhuxing，nvrenxuanzeleliyi。

 yikaishideqingkuangxia，woyebugaoqingchuweiheneixienvrenbaqiankandeneimaguanjian，meiqianjiuliyi。wohualezhengzhengdeyigezhongwucainonggaoqingchuweihe。shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？

 dangliangrengangwanhundeqingkuangxia，qingganshishenkede，wulunnanshengyoumuyouqian，nvxingdouxiangyaogensuita。yigeshixihuanzheigeren，lingyigeshihuaizheduizheigerendeqidai，juedejiyigerenliangniandeshijian，zheigerenjiuhuiyougongzuonengligenggaimuqiandeyishizhuxing，yejiukeyiweizijihaodeyishizhuxing。

 jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？liangnianyiwanghou，qingganyejinrulepingdanqi，lianggerenzhongjianzaoyimeileshenmigan，jiaruyigenanrenrangzishenxinhan，yerangzishendeyishizhuxingpinku，neimanvxingjiuburongyiyoumeihaodeshenghuodeqidai，huiganjue，jiaruzaicihezheigenanrenzaiyiqi，zongshiyulaiyuqiong。

 yiner，laogonghelaopodediergezuai，bianshipingdanqi，jiarunanshengbukeyi，jinvxingyigehaodeyishizhuxing，nvxingjianghuihuilikai，wanbihunyinshenghuo，zhongjiu，sheidoubuyuanyiguozhejiannandeyishizhuxing。keshijiarunanshengyougongzuonenglizhengqian，nenggou jinvxingyigehaodeyishizhuxing，huoshinvxingbufangannanshengpinkun，neimahunyinshenghuobianhuizaici。

中年期的坎

 dangdajiajindaozhonglaonian，jianggangkaishiyouzhongnianweiji，youqishizhenduinanshengeryan，yalizengda，yangfumu，xiaohaibaomingcanjiagongzuozhongwanhun，shieryuelaiyuedaliangle，yincigongzuoyalizainiderichangshenghuohuigengda，baohanquanburendeqingxuzhuanbian，erzheiyici，tamendehunyinshenghuojiangzaoshouweihai。

 jiazhongdeshierbijiaoduo，fuqijiandefenqibijiaoduo，bingqiexintaibutaihao，yincifenqimeibanfachuli，xuduozhongnianfuqitiaoxuanfenchuangshui，yinci，zaizheigeshihou，feichangrongyizizhanghunwailian。

 yinci，duifufueryan，disangezuaishizhonglaonianwaiyu。jiaruliangrennengdiaojiezishendexintai，nengguanshuzishen，nengzhongchenghunyinshenghuo，neimajiukefuzheiyizuai，nengguoyibeizi。keshijiaruliangrendiaojiebuhaodexintai，zizhilicha，bulijigoutongjiaoliu，bulijihuajiemaodun，zaifazhanqushihunwailianyihou，hunyinshenghuobianhuimingcunshijishang，zhongjiuhuiliyi。

 “bainianlaochuanbozhizaodu，qiannianxiuzhengongmian”，cishengnengbianchengfufu，shiyizhongyuanfen，yinciliangrenyingdangaixizheileiyuanfen。jiranjuecexieshouyisheng，jirantaruhunyinshenghuodeshengdian，jiuyingdanggengweiqinfenhunyinjingying，pinboyisheng。

 lengzhanshishenmeyisi？hunyinshenghuoshibuyide，yincijixianghuyixiebaorong，jixianghuyixielejie，daliangdilizailingyifangdeshijiaokaolvdao，buguanzhulingyifangdequexian，buzaiyiyaoduoshaoqian，lingwaichengdanwaibudeyinyou，yinernenggou yibeizi。