夫妻婚后冷战，夫妻婚后有这几种感觉，说明婚姻出现问题

 hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？hunyinshenghuohuoxushirenjiaonanjiejuehaodeqingganqingkuangzhiyi，wanhunyihoufufuliangrenjiushizheigequanshijiezuiqinjinderenzhiyi，xuduorendaowanhunyiqiandouhenjiandingbuyidijuede：woyidingkeyiguohaozishendehunyinshenghuo。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

 danwanhunyihoucaifajue，zishendangshiyaneryouxindizheixieniantou，fangfotongtongbianchengleyichangkong。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？bieyiweinihenrenshizijidelaopo，bieyiweihenrenshizijidelaogong，shijishangdajiaduixianghudezhangwo，zhibuguobiaoceng；dangwanhunyihou，liangrendexinlingshenchudeyixiezhuanbian，caigangkaishimanmanshanguochuqu。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？queshibunengkuanrongma？

 jiaruniyaotonglezheizhong，nikeyilizailingyifangdeshijiaoqukaolvdaole，duojianlingyifangkaolvyixiadehua，neimaniyejiuchengcaileyixie。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

2、一个在自说自话，一个在熟视无睹

fuqixingshenghuozhong，haipadebianshiyilengbaolidefangfalaijiejuelingyifangdexuxutaotao。

laopozaiyibianshuogebuting，zaiyibianzhengshanzhexingzini，laogongqueyiranhenzhenjingdizaiyibiankandianshiju、wanyouxi。

zheiyangzidezuofa，xiangdangyushiduobifenqi，duobinanti，jijijiangdajiazhongjiandemaodunjiashenleyixie。

 nvxingzaiwanhunyihou，yizhihuiyuelaiyuexintaibianhuaduoduanbuwending，youqishiyunqishengxiaxiaohaihou，bujiubianchengmuqindenvxing，xintaihuigengweibuwending；zheigeshihou，tamenjinjinyalida，yaoxiangzhaoyigexuanxiekou；erjiaruzheishizuoweilaogongde，budanbudianjizhezenmeranglaoposhifangyali，fandaoyilengbaolidefangfadafulaopodexintai，neimazongshiranglaopoduinigengweixinhan。

解决方案：少一些冷暴力，多一些会话

dangdajiazhongjianchuxianlefenqihou，yidingyaoxiangqilijiqugoutongjiaoliu，erbushixiandianjizhelengbaoli。

 dabufenhunyinshenghuolibiandefenqi，quanshiyinweiquefalijigoutongjiaoliuerdaozhide，bianshiyouyudajiazhongjianquefalegoutongjiaoliu，quefalegoutongjiaoliuxinshengdexixin，yincicaihuirangfufufenqifachun，zhizhizuizhongyifabukeshoushi。

 yincia，heburangzishenzaizhuiyiyixia，dajialiangrenbujiuzaiyiqishidelanmanqingjing，xuehaojilingyifangduoyixieqingyi，bubisongxiehunyinshenghuo，yaocongrongyingduihunyinshenghuozhongjianghuichuxiandezhuduofenqi。

3、一个回家了倒床就睡，一个回家了忙个不停

yeyouxuduofufudefenqizaocheng，bianshiyouyubukeyixianghuqufentanrichangshenghuodemeirirenwu。

 lirufentanjiawuhuo，fentanzhaoliaoxiaohaideyiwu，fentanpeihulaorendeyiwu，fentandajiarichangshenghuojianghuipengdaodegezhonggeyangshier。

erdangdajiadehunyinshenghuozhongchuxianlezheileiqingkuang，neimafenqihuixunsuchuxian。

 laogongxiabanhuijiayihou，lijiwangshafashangtanzhekanshouji；laopoxiabanhuijiahou，youyaozhenglijiawuhuo，youyaozhufan，gaohaofanyihouyeyaozhaoliaoxiaohai......

yitianliangtiannenggou ，shijianzhangle，zenmekenenghuimeiyoufenqini？

 dangdajiadehunyinshenghuochuxianleneiyangdejuede，neimejiubiaomingqueshichuxianleweiji；niyizhizaimangdeqingkuangxia，taquexiangyige“xiaomianren”yiyangshenmeshimeiyou，nideneixinhaowuyiwenhuibupingheng，bupinghengyihou，haowuyiwenbianhuinaopiqi，erfaguoxingzi，neimafenqiyejiuzaochengle。

解决方案：认清婚姻生活，相互参加到婚后生活中去

 youguanzheiyifenqi，shijishangyehenhaochuli，neibianshifufuyaogaohaorichangshenghuogezhonggeyangjiawuhuodefenpai；liruyisanwunijiawulaodong，nizhufan；ersiliuyouwohuichengdan；laidaolibaitianneiyitian，liangrenyiqicanjiajiawuhuo。

jiarudajialiangrensheidoubuyuanyicanjiadaohunyinshenghuoshenghuozhonglai，neibubianshijijifangqilehunyinshenghuo？

 fufuliangren，zuiyingdangzuodebianshigongpinggongzheng，zaiyishizhuxingyuganqingzhongjianxunzhaoyigejunhengdian；zhinengcanyuxinggaoxiele，caikeyirangdajiadehunyinshenghuo、qingganyuelaiyuegengxingfu。

 shijishanghunyinshenghuolibianhaipadeyeyouyizhonghuanjue：laogongrenweizishenhenzhangwolaopo，laopoyerenweigentayiqishenghuohouhenrenshizijidelaogong。

 hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？bianshiyouyuzheileizigaozidadehenzhangwo，caihuirangdajiadexintaizhuangtaizaochengletingdadebianhua，yidanlingyifangzuodeshieryunixinliyugubuyiyang，niyejiuhuiduitajuededaoxinhan，xinhanzhihou，bianshifenqi。