夫妻冷战怎么办？婚姻中出现这3个现象，应该如何维系婚姻

 zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？dabufenhunyinshenghuozaiyikaishideqingkuangxiaquanshitianmeihexingfukuailede，qidaihelianrendehunhoushenghuo，keshifufuzaihunhouhuiqinshenjinglihenduodongxi，budanbaohanyouyanjiangcu，haibaohanqinqipengyouzhongjiandexiangchudeng。hunyinzhongzaoyujiatingbaolizenmechulibijiaohao？lengbaolilihunhaiyouwanhuidejihuima？

 zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？worenwei，hunyinshenghuoshidabufenrendebixiukecheng，tabudanbaokuojichulilun，daliangdeshishijianhuodong，jieheshijitanqiufufu、poxizhijianhexiongmeizhongjiandejiaowangjiqiaodeng。hunyinzhongzaoyujiatingbaolizenmechulibijiaohao？lengbaolilihunhaiyouwanhuidejihuima？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？hunhoulengzhan，zhangfubuyaoyuqizi“jiangdaoli”

yiner，yibufenhunyinshibaijianghuishiyouyubukeyitanqiuchuhunyinshenghuozhongfufu、poxizhijian、xiongmeizhongjiandejiaowangfangshi 。

 ganqingnenggourangyiduanganqinggengweizhangqi，keshiyiduanhunyinshenghuobixudebujinshiganqing，jibiandajiadeganqingyiqianfenbugushen，youyuhunyinshenghuohaibixuliangrendexinlai、goutongjiaoliudengcaikeyihehemeimei，caikeyixiuchengzhengguo。

dangnidehunyinshenghuochuxianlexiabianzheisangezhuangkuang，yidingyaoxixinkaolvdaogaizenyangweichinidehunyinshenghuo？

1、欠缺信赖

 dzaiwanhunzhiqianshiyiweinvmote，mianrongjiaohao，shenxingyefeichanghao，shenpangyouhenduozhuiqiuwanmeitaderen，dangshitazhangfuzhuiletahaozhangshijiancaiqudechenggong。

 hunhou，dmeiyousheqizishendegongzuozhong，youshihuihepenyouchulaiwanle，youshihouhuihenvxingpengyouxiangchu，zheirangddezhangfuhenshifahuo，tazongganjuezheizhongnanshengduitaxifutumoubugui。

 ddezhangfuchongmanlecaiyi，huanjuhuashuoshiduitaxifubuxinren，tamenjingchangzhengchao。dganjuehenbiequ，zishenbenlaimeiyouzuolebaoqiantadeshi，danlaogongquebuxinrenta。

bukezhifou，xinlaizhenduihunyinshenghuoeryanyouweizhongyao，tajiangjuecedajiashibushikeyixieshoubingjiandaolao。

2、没法沟通交流

 zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？rhetazhangfujiehunshinianle，danshenxingyizhiweihubaoyangdefeichanghao，rdezhangfushiyijiashangshiqiyedeguanliceng，haizizaixuexiaoxuesinianji，rneiyangdejiazhongranghenduoren xianmubuyi。

 rhetazhangfudeguanlianbingbingbushifeichanghao，kenengshiherzhangfudegangweixiangguan，tazaijialishifengaoao、yizhizhigaoqiang，changchangjifengr，biru，nitashifurenzhijian；dajianvxingbumingbaijiububihushuobadao。hunyinzhongzaoyujiatingbaolizenmechulibijiaohao？lengbaolilihunhaiyouwanhuidejihuima？

 jiushizheiyangrifuyiri，rhetalaogongdeguanlianmanmanshengshu，rhelaogongdaizaiyiqishijuedeshifenyayigan，tabuqingchugairuhexiufutadehunyinshenghuo。

worenweiwulunshizaiyurenxiangchuzhong，huanshizaihunyinshenghuozhong，goutongjiaoliushiweichiqinggandegongluqiaoliang。

 jiaruoyifanggaoaohuoshilengdan，neilingyifangjiangmeibanfayunikaizhangoutongjiaoliu，dajiazhongjiandefenqiyejiuwufadedaochuli，yiyang，dajiadehunyinshenghuoyejiumeibanfaweichi。

3、长期性家庭冷暴力

jjiehunwunianle，zheiwunianlaitahezhangfudefenqiyulaiyuduo。

 jjinguanzaiwanhunzhiqianjiufajuenanyouyoushihouhuijiatinglengbaoli，meilita，keshijhenanpengyouliaolejihuiyihoujiumeiyouzaichuxianzheileizhuangkuang，yinci，jjiumeiyoutaizaihu。

 shubuzhi，jzaihunhouquefajuetazhangfudejiatinglengbaolizaiduxianchu，erqieyuelaiyueyuelaiyueyanzhong，henyoukenenghuiletadehunyinshenghuo。

 dangjhetazhangfuzhengchaoyihou，tajiuzishenzaidaketinglimeihua、yemeilisuoyouren。jweilebaobaoyujiating，meiyicidoulaxialianmianhelaogonggoutongjiaoliu，tazhangfucongyikaishidedafudaozhihoudebuhangsheng，zheirangjshifentongchu。

jdeyiqiangjiqingchangchangwufadedaozhangfudedafu，tadadonghenfali。

 jxiangzaiciweichihaozishendehunyinshenghuoyujiating，buyuanliyi，zhongjiutahelaogongshiyouganqingjichude，keshizhangfudejiatinglengbaolirangjbuqingchugaizaban。

 wojuedejiatinglengbaolishifensunhaifuqijiandeqinggan，youyuyifanghuiyouyuairendelengdanerpengdeyibizihui，meifagoutongjiaoliu。yinci，jiatinglengbaolihenyoukenenghuirangdajiadehunyinshenghuozoudaozuihou。

 jieshuyu：zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？dangnidehunyinshenghuochuxianlemeifagoutongjiaoliu、zhangqixingjiatinglengbaoliheqianquexinlaizheisangezhuangkuang，qingyidingyaoxixinkaolvdaogairuhejiejuezheizhongnanti，zenyangweichinidehunyinshenghuo。