夫妻不好好说话，导致婚后冷战的几率越大

 hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？foyue，shangbeizidewubaicihuimou，caihuandecishengdecashenerguo。erkeyibianchengfufudelianggeren，zhendeshibuqingchushishishicaixiudedeyuanfen，yingdangzuigaihaohaodidequaixi。errujindehunyinshenghuo，lihunyuanyinwanwanqianqian，zuizhonggenjuhenduodeshilihuifajue：fufuhunyinshenghuozaoyutubengwajiedeguanjianyuangu，guigenjiedihuanshigoutongjiaoliushangchuxianlenanti——“youyibuhaohaoshuohua”。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

 hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？zaizhiredeaiqing，yehuizaicongtaruhunyinshenghuoshengdiandeneiyikeqi，duonianzhongjian，manmanbeirichangshenghuodechaimiyouyanchasuomoqu，guirupingpingdandan，ganqingdaliangdeqingkuangxiahuizhuanhuachengzhenqing。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

zheigeshihoudehunyinshenghuo，henxiagongfuyunyingjiukanqilaifujiadeguanjian。

 yidanhunyinjingyingbutaihao，hunyinshenghuozheisoujianglunbianhuigeqianchenchuan，naeryoutandeshangzaiguangkuodehaipingmianriyejianchengdechuhangni？

erhunyinjingyingzhong，weichilianghaodegoutong，caisuanshifufukeyizouxialaidejiben。

xuduodejiazhong，bianshichuxianlegoutongjiaoliunanticaizaocheng jinrulexianghulengmo、lengdande“bihuankongzhi”。

yidanjindaoneiyangdewuxianxunhuan，fuqiguanxidangranzaoshoujidadeweihai。

shizheixieguanjiandeyuanguhuichuxiangoutongjiaoliushangchuxiannantini？

duiyishizhuxingdeqiwangzhiguogao，dabushangxinzhongzhongdeyujizhi，yincizaocheng goutongjiaoliuchuxiannanti

shenghuobuzhiyanqiandegouqie，yeyoushiyuyuanfang。

yisishidajiabuyinggaizhikaolvxianjieduandewuzhitiaojian，errangbuyushiji。

shijishangshijibuhuiyourangbuburangbu，zhishigengyingdangtatashishi。

shiyuyuanfangshimeihaoyuanwang，keshilianzishendehunyinshenghuodouyunyingbutaihao，tanheyuanchuni？

xuduoqingkuangxia，renmenduihunhoushenghuotuolishijidepanwangguogao，eryidandabushangxinlideyujizhi，bianhuizaochengtingdacuobaigan。

 hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？chuxianxintaizhuangtaiqifuhou，zishenyoumenzaixinli，buhelingyifangyichengxiangdaidegoutongjiaoliu，xunzhaolejieanwei，zuizhongyujizaixin，dangranduilingyifangyiduzidemaiyuan。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

zhangjiuyiwang，yaoshiyizhangkou，zhisangmahuai，quxiao、fengcilingyifangjiubianchengchangtaihua。

neiyangdeshuohuafangshi，youzennengtandeshanglianghaodegoutongni？

duilingyifangdeshenghuofangshibumanyi，shuodepinciduole，zuizhongbuxianggoutongjiaoliu

fuqijian，zaiqingganxiaoshidaijinhou，hainenghepingfenshoudeshijishangrichangshenghuobingbushihenduo。

dabufenquanshidaizhuduixianghudebaoyuanliqude。

 “nikanni，yitianhuijialejiutanzaishafashang，jiaohaidazaichazhuoshang”——shijishangmeiyouyishidao，laogongzhenghaochuwaifanmangleyitian，jianlexuduodeguke，shiqueshizaoyileidaobusibuhuole。

 “youxi，yihuidaojiajiuzuanruxiaoshufangzhongdayouxi，nidoubupeibanxiaohai，nishigejinzhidebabama？zaozhineiyang，woburangnishengxiaohaile，yifangaiyidaohaizaonagezui！”——shijishanglaogongjinjinlibaitiandeqingkuangxiawanyixiashoujiyouxi，pingchangyeshizhunshihuijialejiaoyuhaizide。

 “niyitianjiulejietuzhimofen，hufupinduoshechilangfeiqiana？”——shijishangzhuiqiumeilishinvrendetianxing，bingqienvweiyuejizherong，shihenyiqiezhengchangde。

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 lihefanchonglishihuxiangde，yifangdechize，yifangdebianbo，zhiyourangshiergengweibujinrenyi，zhiyourangxianghudeqingxuluorudichaoqi。

xianghuzhijiandechizeduole，qingganhuizaoshouweihaishibidingde。

duipingpingdandandehunhoushenghuoxinhan，richangshenghuoquefayiwaijingxi，zaochengbaoyuan

haodefuqiganqing，shijishangyinggaishibicichengjiu，xianghuzhijianbangfu。

yingduichaimiyouyanchadeshenghuo，bulunshishei，doushiyouyigeconglaiburongrudaorongrudehuanjie。

zaizheigecongliangrendanshennannvdaoronghedequanguocheng，shijishangshiduixianghurenshengdaoludeyigejiaoda demolian。

磨练的是啥？

 moliandeshiduiyishizhuxingdelejie。suiyueanhao，nayouneimeduodeshiqinghuayi？keyihunhoushenghuoguodexiangshoucideren，zhicunyouzheixiexinlingdujitanglibian。

najiameiyouyibennanniandejing？najiayouweicengyidijimao？

richangshenghuo，jiaowangzhongdediandiandididesuosui，manmanhuijiangnanrennvrencongdanshennannvqingkuangxiadeyunkongjianlazhuidaodi。

bushanyudiaozhengqingxu，ziwodiaozheng，shijianyijiu，zaisuonanmianqingxuyuji。

zaineiyangdeshenghuozhuangtaixia，xianghubuhaohaogoutongjiaoliu，bulejielingyifangdeniantou，qingganzaisuonanmianqianque。

neiyangdeshenghuozhuangtaixia，yidanfahuodeqingkuangxia，buliuyiyudiao，youyiquouqishuobaoyuanhua，duiqinggandeshanghaishijudade。

 youyuzheishinishuodehua，xuduoqingkuangxiashijishangjinjinhenhuabale，keshizailingyifangdeerli，tingqilaishichuoxinzhaganyouzhafei——rutongbaoxiangzaixuezilidesuishizi，huiluojiaoluodeshengshengdetong。

erfuqijianlianghaodegoutong，zhenduihunyinshenghuoshiyouweizhongyao，yaoshibaozhengyixianeirong，jiunengfangzhisuoshudezhuangkuang：

fahuodeqingkuangxia，jianghuayiqianduoranghuazhenzhuoyimiaozhong

shangxindehuashaoshuo，cixindehuashenzhongshuo。

fahuodeqingkuangxia，shuodehuadaduoshushihenhua。erhenhua，youdeqingkuangxiashidaizhumingxiandegongjinenglide。

yingduinidemingxianjingong，lingyifangdangranbuganxinbeida，yeshiyoubajiuhuibianbo——yichangzhengzhijiuzaisuonanmian。

hunyinshenghuozhongneiyangdezhengzhipinciduole，huinongdebicijingpilijie，zuihouhunyinshenghuowajie。

suoyishuo，qitoushangjianghua，tebieshizaiyaoshenzhong，youshinidehuawuxin，zailingyifanglaikanqueshitiebing、shimangci。

zheigeshihoubixuduosisuolizhixia，duozhenzhuoyimiaozhong，qiejirangshangxindehuachukouchengzhang。

jianghuadefangfa，huanyigejiaofa，juyoudegongxiaojianghuihuigenghao，zuodaodeshijixiaoguoyehuigenghao。

xianghubaorong，pengdaojiedijiangjilingyifangting，buxujiediliusu

 woyougepengyou，fufuwanhun10henduonian，biaozhunjinguanbutaihao，keshifufulianggerenjiaowanghemu，jiazhongzhongchongmanlehuangexiaoyu。

tamendeaiqingbaoxianqiaomenbianshi：xianghubaorong，zhengzhibuliusu。

najiameiyoudianjilinggousuidepishi？

hunyinshenghuochanshengmaodunwukebimian，henyiqiezhengchang。

 tamenjibianshichanshengzhengzhile，doushikuaisudepingjingxialai，suihouwulunduomedewan，doushiyiqilizhigoutongjiaoliu，dachengxieyi，buxuneixindefanmenliudaodiertian。

shijishang，zheiyeshifufuhunhoushenghuodeyizhongconghui：woshichuangzhengchaochuangjiaohe。

minsudesuhua，keshilibucao。

duoxiangyixianglingyifangdehao，duoziwofansi

 xuduofufumeifazuodaozheiyidian，zaichanshengfenqideqingkuangxia，qitoushangfenhaobunianjiuqing。jianglingyifangbiandeyiwushichu，bingqiezaizaiqianyishizhonglibian，yibianzishenshuodongzishenqiadang，wuxianbiandalingyifangdequexian，zhizhijuedelingyifangmianmukezengcaihuibashou。

shijishangzheiyagenbingbushijiejuekunnandeqiadangdakai。

zheigeshihoushuodehua，chedishizhituzhisidehenhua。

yuhunyinshenghuo，yuqinggan，youliyoubi。

nishuangkuailenidezui，quesunhailelingyifangdexin。

 zaifuqiganqingjiaolvbuandeqingkuangxia，duoxiangyixianglingyifangdehao，duozishenjiancha、ziwofansixia，caikeyizuochuzuilixingdefenbian。

zaijianghuadeqingkuangxia，jizijiyeweilingyifangliuyudicaisuanshizuiwanshandeshuohuafangshi。

 hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？liangrennengzaiyiqi，bianshiyuanfen，jiaowangshimentonghuashun，xuehaoyunyinghaohunyinshenghuoyeshiyimenzaoxingyishu，youxiuderenhuijiangyishizhuxingguodexiangduokangnaixin，baitouxielaoxiangyixiangwei。