婚姻中，夫妻常遇见的3道坎，夫妻婚后冷战应该如何处理？

 lengbaolishishenmeyisi？dajiadouzhidao，fuqiguanxishirenjiguanxizhongzuizhongyaodeguanlianzhiyi，yeshiduibenrendeyishizhuxing、ganqingweihaijiaodadeguanlian。hunyinshenghuo，jibenshangmeigerendounenggoushuoshangjiju，danshizhenshikeyilejietadequequzhikeshu。youyulejiehunyinshenghuo，budanyaokaoconghui，yeyaokaoshanxinhexixin，ergengguanjiandeshishijian。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

 lengbaolishishenmeyisi？shubuzhizhenshidehunyinshenghuobingbingbushilaoyibeineibanjiangjiuguoyibeizi，zhishilianggerenrongweiyitiyimozouwanjinsheng，shijishangzhaoyigedonghunyinshenghuoderenyidinglejiehunyinshenghuoyeyouxuduokanyaoguo，birudajiachangguazaizuishangde，“sannianzhitong、wunianzhili、qinianzhiyang”，quchuzheizhong，shijishanghunyinshenghuozhongyeyouzheizuipubiandesangekan，80%defufudoushiyudaoguo！hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

第一个坎：信赖与真心实意

 hunhoushenghuozhongguanjiandeshi“xianghuzunzhong、kuanrong、zhongshi”，lengbaolishishenmeyisi？zheiqueshishihunhoushenghuoshifenguanjiandewupin，yaoshimeiyoulezheizhong，neimahunyinshenghuojiuzhishengyuyigekongqiaozile。hunyinshenghuokeyizhangqicunyou，shuangfangkeyixieshoubingjiandaolao，zuibixudebianshixianghudezhongshi，fufutanchengyidai。

 jiarupengdaoyifangwaiyu，hunyinshenghuozhongjianhaowuyiwenhuichuxianliefeng。zheiyebushizhongchenghunyinshenghuodezhuyaobiaoxian。ruguonvrenfajuenanrenaizhongchenghunyinshenghuo，haowuyiwenyeyouzaodongbuan，yuelaiyueminganduoyi。zuihounanrennvrenlianggerendexinlaichuxianweiji，qingganyezaoyuzhongzhongdefenqi，hunyinshenghuoyeshiweijisifu。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

第二个坎：钱

 zaizhongguogudai，fuqijianshimeiyouaiqingde。dingcengrenpeihunzhuzhongmenbudanghubudui，benzhishijiazuliyidexietong。xiayicengrenpeihun，zhuzhongdezeshilaodongzhegongzuonengli，kaolvdaodezhuyaoyaosushijingjifazhan。erxianrujindehunyinshenghuohenqueshideyigekanbianshiqian，youduoshaolianrenyouyujiazhongmeifangmeijieweihun，youduoshaofufuyouyujiehunhoushenghuichengshijiongpo，yitiandaowandadanaonao，zuizhongliyide。

 yincihunyinshenghuozhonghuaxuewuzhibibukeshao，ganqing，dezhizexing。zongzhiquanbudeganqingzuizhongtaruhunyinshenghuodeshengdianhouyehuijianjiandibianhuaweizhenqing。ninengzaitiaoxuanhunyinshenghuoshihuaxuewuzhi，danyexiwangnidehunyinshenghuobuzhishiyouyuhuaxuewuzhi，haihuijixuyouganqing。

第三个坎：两地分居

 fuqifenju，kanshangqumeiduodadianshi，keshiqueganwanbunengxiaokan，buronghushi，yeshijiaonankuachudekan。jiarufuqifenju，nilianlingyifanghesheitong，hesheixianliaonidoubuqingchu，qingganbingbushiyixiajiuhuiyoude，qingganquanshijiaowangerchengde，liaotianliaotian，chuzhechuzhejiuhuiyouqingganle，fuqifenju，zhibudingnatianniaideneirenbianhuibeitarenguaipaole！

 fuqifenju，huidaozhi，panbian，hunneichuguiqinggan，waiyu；shidaozhiliyi，ganqingbiandan，zuizhongyaodeyaosu，fuqifenjuhuizaocheng hunyinpolie，ganqingbiandan，maixianghuimie，maixiangliyi，suoyishuo，liangdifenjuxushenzhonga！

 hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？qingganyeba，hunyinshenghuoyehao，doubixuliangrengongtongfendou，huxiangnuli，yiduanmeihaodehunyinbixuqinshenjinglixuduo，yinciliangrenbixuzhenxinshiyi，yaoxuehaokuanrong！