夫妻婚后冷战，最伤婚姻的是这5件事

 yishengduanduandejishinian，linsizhuiyideqingkuangxia，fajuenagepeilezishenyibeiziderenshijishangcaisuanshizishenjinshengjiaodadequehan，neiyangdeshier，kendingchengzhiweishikebeile。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？zheixiejuececouhuodenvxingzuihouzaihunyinshenghuozhonghuodexingfukuaileleme？shijishanghuidazaoyihenxianzhule。jinzaofajue，jinzaowanbi，caisuanshiduizishenzuichengdandezuofa。liyibukongbu，kongbudeshihunyinshenghuozhongpengdaoneiyangdewuzhongzhuangkuang，haixiangxiangyouyitian，hunyinshenghuokeyisierfusheng。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

1、正大光明的外遇

 hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？waiyushishadiaohunyinshenghuodediyidaxiongfan，keyibanpengdaowaiyu，hunyinshenghuohainenggoujiuzhiyixia，chuguizhexinhuaineijiu，yuwaimiandelianrenduandeganjingzhengjie，zaicizhongguijiazhong，erbeichuguizheyekeyixinxiongkaikuodekandan，xiangyaohuodadadu，zaicihehaoruchu。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

 shubuzhi，youyizhongwaiyuqueshibilibunengde。chuguizhezhengdaguangming，siwujidandechuguile。shijishangfufuliangrenmeiriyishizhuxingzaiyiqi，lingyifangdezhuanbiandangrannengkandechu。kezheizhongrenyouzishendehunyinshenghuoshehuixue，mingbaikantoubushuotoudedadaoli，dengzishendeairenzaiwaimianwannile，dangranbianhuifanhuizishenshenpang。eryidangongbuwaiyu，shierjiubukebimianle。

 chuguizhedezuofahenqueli，tazaoyibuyaoxiangzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuole，yincilianmanbaodoubuxiangmanbao。erbeichuguizhejishizaihuoda，rongnadexianeiyangdefangzongme？zheiyiduanhunyinshenghuoqueshimeijiule。

2、没话题聊，也不愿找话题聊天聊

 fuqiguanxiruhebaochi，haibingbushikaogoutongjiaoliu。nishuoshuojinripengdaodeqiguaipengyou，wobangnimashangjiju；wozaijiangxiawoshangjilingdaode“xianming”juece，nitinglexiaoshangjisheng。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？neiyangdegoutongjiaoliudequemeiyoushenmeyiyi，kequerangliangrennenggengzhangwolingyifang，qinggandangranbianhuishenggao。kezuijichudegoutongjiaoliuyemeiyou，neiyangzuofufuhaiyoushenmeyisi，zaowanbixuchunanti。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

3、发自肺腑的瞧不起另一方

 xuduorenwen，qiaobuqilingyifangdangshishizenmejiedehun。shiya，tanlianaideqingkuangxia，shiliangrenzhongjianguanlianzuipingwendeqingkuangxia，zheileiqingganhenmangmugenfeng，yincilingyifangdexiaowentiyeyiyangtaorenxihuan。keshineiyangdeguanzhudubuduanbushangzhangshijian，dengzuinongyudeqingyixiaoshile，jiugangkaishixianghuzhijiankanbushangle。

 shijishangzheigeshihouhainengzaiciguo，zuipadeshi，liangrengangkaishixianghuzhijianqiaobuqi，yidanlaidaozheibu，hunyinshenghuojiumeizhiwangle。jiarubukeyigaibianxianzhuangxinlideniantou，huanshihenzaolihunba，buranzhenduibicilaijiang，quanshiyichangcuican。

4、小孩今年高考完再离异

 neiyangdefufuxuduo ，zongjuedejiatingguanxizhenduihaizichengzhangshifenguanjian，yincijiusuanfuqijiandeqingganzaoyichediliekai，haidingzheweixiaohaihaodeweimingtiaoxuanbuliyi。jiusuanshisansuidexiaohaiyekeyiduizishendezhishenziranhuanjing，youzuibijiaomingandefanying。tamenshenmeshiqingdoulejie，zishendefumuzhongjianbutaihaole。neiyangderenzhinenglifandaohuirangtamendechengcaichuxiannanti。chengcaiweiyigejiqimeiyouanquangandequyuexingren。

5、不想回家

 jiashishenmediqu？anquanxing、wennuancaisuanshijiadexiushici。yihuijialebianshijingjichang，yincigangkaishipahuijia。neiyangdeshenghuojiushicuican。neiyangcouhuxialaihaiyoushenmeyisi。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？weizijiyigenengxuehuisikaodesimikongjian，yongxindesikaoyixiazheiyiduanhunyinshenghuoyoumuyounenggaidongdediqu。nenggai，neijiushibuguodele，kejiaruhuanshibuhao，zuizhongyejiuliyizheitiaodaolunenglikaile。