夫妻婚后冷战，正确的处理方式是什么

 zenmechulijiatinglengbaoli？jiarubahunyinshenghuodangzuoshifufuxiezuobangongsi，neimafuqijianjiuxuyaofengongmingque，xianghujijidanfuqixiangduidezerenheyiwu，caibuhuiranghunyinshenghuodaobi。shenmeshilengbaoli？hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？

 yiqieyiduanhunyinshenghuodoubutaikenengshiquanshimei，bansuizheshijiandebianhua，zaisuonanmianchanshenggeshigeyangdefenqihuoweiji。zenmechulijiatinglengbaoli？liruhunyinshenghuozhongde“qinianzhiyang”，liruairendemengpianyupanbian，zheixie。shenmeshilengbaoli？hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？

 hunyinshenghuoyidanchanshengweiji，fuqijianjiuxuyaojijizhudongxiangbanfajiejue，yaoqinfenzhuanweiweiji，xianghujiejuehunyinshenghuodejiongjing。

 jiarufuqijianzhangqixingqingshihunyinshenghuozhongdegezhongweijihuonanti，neimazheiyiduanhunyinshenghuosuishisuidichangyoujianghuizaoyubenkuihuofenlie。

 xuduofufuwangwanghuinaodaoliyidechengdu，tongchangshiyouyutamenbumingbailijijiejuehunyinshenghuozhongdegezhongweijiyumaodun，tamenzongshiyiweihunyinshenghuozhongdenantiquanshibuzhiyitidesuoshi。jieguo，danghunyinshenghuozhongdenantiyueduiyueda，zhilianghubianguilvzaochengbianzhi，zheiyiduanhunyinshenghuozuihouzaoyufenlieheliyidejieguohejieju。

neima，danghunyinshenghuopengdaoweiji，qiadangdechulifangfashishenmeni？

维持淡定从容，不必自乱阵脚

danghunyinshenghuopengdaoweijideqingkuangxia，fuqijianzuixianyaoweichidandingcongronghetanran，dajiabubiziluanzhenjiao。

 dajiayaokeguanxinglizhidipouxihunyinshenghuozhongzaochengdezheizhongweijishiguishuyunayangzhongleideweiji。zenmechulijiatinglengbaoli？ruguoshishejiyuanzewentidenanti，lirupanbianhuomengpian，neimadajiayidingyaorenzhenxizhidikandaizheigewenti，erqiexianghuxiangbanfachulizheigewenti。

 jiaruzhishishiyixiewuguantongyangdejidanlitiaogutou，neimadajianenggouwuxutaiguozaihu。keshi，dajiayaobawohaoxianduhefencungan，bubichaoyuelehunyinshenghuodedaodedixianhebiaozhun。

 yingduihunyinpolie，zuizhongyaodeshixunzhaoweijizaochengdegenbenyuanyin。zhinengdangdajiachongzulizhihebaochiqingxing，dajiacaikeyitongguozhuangkuangkanshizhi。

 jiarudajiabumingbaiweichibixudeyizhihelixing，kanqilaishouzuwucuo，buzhisuocuo，yidiandianxiaoshijiuyoukuyounao，neimadajiadehunyinpoliebujinwufadedaohelilijidechuli，fandaoyoukenenghuijinyibuebianhejiazhong。shenmeshilengbaoli？hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？

立即沟通交流，相互想办法处理

 danghunyinshenghuopengdaoweijideqingkuangxia，fuqijianqiadangdezuofayinggaishijiaqianggoutonghegoutongjiaoliu。dajiayaolijigoutongjiaoliu，xianghuxiangbanfachuliweiji。

zaihunyinshenghuozhong，fufubicijibubijijizhaomafan，yebubipamafan。weijilaila，jiuyiqixiangbanfalijihuajieweiji。

 jiarubahunyinshenghuodangzuoyikedashu，neimazheikeshumumianbuleyehuishengxiaochongzi。fuqijianyaoxuehaorenqinghunyinshenghuozhongdeweiji，bubijiqieduobihunyinshenghuozhongdeweiji，gengbubihuxiangtaobizeren。

 youliangjinmidegoutongjiaoliushijiejuehunyinpoliedelingdanmiaoyao。jiarufuqijianpingchangkeyijiaqianggoutongyuhudongjiaoliu，buguanpengdaoshenmeshiqingdounengyoushangyouliang，neimahunyinshenghuozhongdexuduofenqiyuweijidoujiangdedaojiejue。

 haipadebianshifuqijianhuxianglengdan，huxianglihui，xianghuqianquebixudegoutongjiaoliuyugoutongjiaoliu，zaocheng hunyinshenghuozhongdefenqiyuwujieyulaiyuduo，zuihouzhenzhuochengjidadehunyinpolie，zaocheng hunyinshenghuowanquanliekai。

不必把彼此父母牵涉进去

danghunyinshenghuopengdaoweiji，qiadangdechulifangfashifufubicixianghuxiangbanfachuli，bubibabicifumuqianshejinqu。

 youdefufuzaihunyinshenghuozhongbuguanpengdaonaxiedefenqihuomaodun，douxiaizhaofenbiedebabamamakongsuhuofalaosao，babicifumuyeqianshejinqu，zaocheng benlaibudadejiatingjiufenyushenyulie，zuihouyifayifabukeshoushi。

 buguannanrennvren，douqingjilao，yidanjielehun，dajiajiuxuyaojizijidehunyinshenghuochengdan。dajiazaoyishichengrenle，dajiayaojizijidetiaoxuanchengdanzeren。

 jiarudajiazaihunyinshenghuozhongchanshengyiqiefenqihuoweiji，bixuzhaofenbiedebabamamatongyirongqiachuli，neimadaibiaodajiashihaiweichengcaichaojinhuademabaonan，dajiajianghuibingbuyiwanhun。

 changyandao，jiachoubukewaiyang。yingduihunyinshenghuozhongdegezhongweijihemaodun，fufubiciyingdangjijizhudongshangyi，xianghuxiangbanfajiejue。dajiaguanqimenlairuhechaodouyiqiezhengchang，keshidajiabubibajiazhongdeneibumaodunchaonaoshengguangweirenzhi，gengbubisuibianjingraobicibabamamaheqinren。buran，dajiadehunyinpoliehefenqikenengyinerbuting，yuelaiyuejilie。

 zongeryanzhi，danghunyinshenghuopengdaoweiji，qiadangdechulifangfashifufubiciweichibixudedandingcongronghetanran，xianghuxiangbanfajijizhudongjiejue。

 jiejuehunyinpoliedefangfayouhenduozhongduoyang，zaiqizhongjiaoweihelideyizhongchulifangfabianshifufubicilijijiaoliuyugoutong，xianghudakaixinfei，jibuduobihunyinshenghuozhongdenanti，doubuxianghuzhijiantuituohunyinshenghuozhongdeyiwu。

 hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？genjufufubicidejijizhudongshangyihegoutongjiaoliu，gongtongfendoujiejuehunyinshenghuozhongdeweiji。zuizhongyaodeyidianqujueyu，dajiaqianwanbiejingraobicibabamama，bubibabicifumuyeqianshejindajiadehunyinshenghuozhizhonglai。zheiduijiejuedajiahunyinpoliebujinqibushangyiqiegongxiaohexiezhu，fandaohuijiazhongdajiafuqijiandefenqi。