面对冷暴力婚姻，想要婚姻更长久，夫妻得这么做才对

 zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？sheidouxiangyouyigemeimanxingfudejiatinghunyin，zheiyixieqingkuangxiajinjinsuoyourendelixiangzhuyizheeryi，rujinneiyangdejiazhongyou，dabufenjiazhongjichubianshidianhuoguoshenghuo，naizhiyixiejiazhongshidabaitianfufu，yeligebilinjuzaizuojitarenkanyixia，shenghuoshiheqitongchudequanguocheng，youderenyibianqingmian，xiaohaitiaoxuanweiquqiuquan，youderentiaoxuanliyi，buguanzenyangquanshijijiazhonghexiaohaichanshengtingdadesunhai，lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？lengbaolihunyindechulifangfayounaxie？neimahunyinshenghuozhong2gezenyangjiaowangcaikeyifangzhizheizhongni。

最先保证相互了解

 zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？richangshenghuosuoyourenchangyouzishendekunnan，youderenshanyubiaoshushuochulai，youderenyibianlingyifangkaolvdao，buyuantishenglingyifangdejingshenyali，huitiaoxuanduziyirenchengdan，yixieqingkuangxiaduziyirenyigechengshouli，buyidingshiweilingyifanghao。lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？lengbaolihunyindechulifangfayounaxie？

 bulunshishenghuoshangdehaigongzuofangmiandegongzuoyali，yixieqingkuangxia2gekexianghuduolejiexia，tashiyeshibijiaohaotiaoxuan，bubiyouyuyelihuijiawanle，jinriqingtarenyongcandengyixiepingshixiangchudeshiliangrennaodebuyukuai，neiyangyinxiaoshida。

第二，互相尊重

 jinribingbushizhongnanqingnvdeshidai，gengbingbushijiushidaidejiusixiang，jinrichangdaorenrenpingdeng，bujinqueshidiweishang，jingjifazhangongpingyeshizaiqizhongyige。

 suoyourenchangyouzhipeiquanqujizijideyishizhuxingerqinfen，jinguanshuowanhunshiliangrendeshi，keshiyifangbukeyiduduanzhuanxingshiyijiazhiyan，neiyanglingyifanghegongziyoushenmechabieni。

 bubixiaoqiaopingshihuxiangjiaofa，qianzhongshuheyangjiangnenggouxianghubianchenglaoxiansheng，zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？yigexiaoxiaojiaofanenggoukandechuzhenduilingyifangdezhongshi，gengbubiyouyuyiqiandeyixiehuangrugeshidejiushijiushizhongti，shangzizundeshibubizuo，suoyourenchangyouzishendelvxian，gengbubichangshijinulingyifangdedaodedixian。

第三，两个人常常沟通交流

 buguanliangrenshigenjunazhongfangfalejie，zhongjiuliangrenlaiyuanyubuyiyangdejiazhong，yishizhuxinghexiguanxingshanghaowuyiwenyeyoubuyiyang，kandaishierdejiejue。lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？lengbaolihunyindechulifangfayounaxie？

kandairenjijiaowangdesuijiyingbian

看待亲戚朋友的心态

看待生活的态度难题

看待工作中的心态等

kandaixianghubabamamadefangfahexintai

 suoyourendefangfahaowuyiwenbuyiyang，bianshishuangbaotaibaobaoyehaowuyiwenyouchabie，feichangshiyigesixiangguanniandechabie，bubixiaoqiaozheizhongpingshisuosui，tadoukenengshizaochengfufufenqidedaohuoxian，lijidegoutongjiaoliunenggoujiejuezheizhongfenqi，shuobailekuiyuyixuekuiyuyixuezheiyidadaolidajiadoudong。

第四，保证相互对感情的忠诚

 tanlianaideqingkuangxiayaneryouxindishuo，xiangyaoweiganqingjieshouxianshi，zuochufangqi，zhenduiganqingjianshouzhendiyishengyishi，shubuzhiyoujigezainvdehuaiyunqi，chulaizhaodisanzhe，youyouduoshaojiazhongjingbuzhuqinianzhiyangdemolian。

erjinriyouduoshaojiazhongyouyupanbianzishendangshidechengnuo，zaochengjiazhongjiaporenwang，

 renyoushihouhaibibushangyigeniao，baitianezaiqizhongyigeguoshi，haowuyiwenmeiquduhuo，gengmeiyoupanbianzhishuo。ziranbingbushishuorenyexiangtamenneibanbuduhuo，jinjinbiaoshuduiganqingdezhongchengbale，

 zuizhongchukaizheizhongyishizhuxinghaibixuyoumogaoxiaodeshenghuoxiguanhegoutongdejiqiao，gengbukeyitaijiaozhener，feichangshihezishendexifujiaowanggengshiruci，youshihoubixuzhengzhiyanbiyizhiyan，xilihutuneiyangcaikeyizhangqi，shuobaileshuizhiqingzewuyu，renzhichazewutu

 lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？nanshengzairichangshenghuozhongganyudandang，bukeyijishirangnvxingxiangqianchong，nvxingyebixushanjierenyishanjierenyi，shijishangshuobailedexingfukuailequanshizishendejuede，tameiyouzhengquedaan。