夫妻冷战，聪明的女人懂得如何巧妙地化解僵局

 jintianshangwuwaichudeqingkuangxia，yudaolelinjujiadexiaol，jiandaotamiansecanglao，fangfomeiyouxinglaidemoyangzaoyulengzhanzenmeban？。liangrenliaoleyihui，xiaoljiujizhemaishuiguolaidao。yuanlaishitaxiaohaibingle，jinjitiandoumeiruheshuihaojue，yibianzhaoliaoxiaohaiyibianmangzhejiawulaodong，zaijiatazhangfuqizaotanhei，huijiahaizhizhidiandian，canjuruhebuxi。suihoutamenlengbaolilejiri。hunyinzhongzaoyujiatingbaolizenmechulibijiaohao？lengbaolilihunhaiyouwanhuidejihuima？

 youyiciqinpenghaoyoulaizuokedeqingkuangxia，tazhangfumangzhehegukexianliao，ertazezaichufanglileichenggou。zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？xiaolzongsuangaohaolefanshi，jiaohanzishendezhangfunacanju，xiaolbacaidouduanshangcaiwanhou，tadezhangfuhuanshimeiyouqunacanju。dahanlinlidexiaolhuomaosanzhang，danshirenlechulai。shubuzhicanhou，gukedouhuiqule。hunyinzhongzaoyujiatingbaolizenmechulibijiaohao？lengbaolilihunhaiyouwanhuidejihuima？

xiaolkanjianzhuoziyidaduicanjuyouyaoxi，kanjianmudibanshangluandiudeweishengzhi。

xiaolxunsuzhenglihaolacanju，mangdeyaosuanbeiteng。

xiaolshitazhangfutuodiban，shubuzhitazhangfuquedunangshuohezuijiu，meiliqituo。

xiaolneixindehuozaoyiyizhibuzhu，yihoujiuyongyouzhengzhi。

gengkehendebianshitazhangfujiangguoyiju，jiawuhuobuquanshinvxingzuodema？

想一想就很气死人。

jia，youbushitayigeren，zhishidajialiangren，weihejiawuhuoquanshitalaizuo。

 yigehenshandaizijinvrendenanren，congburongyirangzishennvxingshouqi，gengburongyishuojiawushinvxingzuode，zhishiyingdangjijiqujiawulaodong，fentanjiazhongdeyiwu。

xiaojjielehun2nian，yizhidouguodefeichanghao，zhangfuhenchongnita。

 zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？xiaojdexingqingbianshibuzhaomafan，yebuhaipashi，yishizhuxingli，taruguoganjueyouyidianbiequ，tajiuyingyongdikang。

 yikaishi，tajialaoxianshengchiguofanbushuawan，lijidiuzaichufangxicaipenli，xiaojjiandaohenqi。hunyinzhongzaoyujiatingbaolizenmechulibijiaohao？lengbaolilihunhaiyouwanhuidejihuima？

xiaojjiangguojihui，sheichiguofanjiuxuyaoxizishendewan，tajialaoxianshenghuanshilan。

meiyicixiaojxiabanlehuijiahuanshijiandaowandiuzaichufangxicaipenli。

naxing，bushuawanjiububixiangtazhufan，zishenxiangyongcanzishennongfan。

zongzhitachulaisuiyizhaoyijiafandianyongcan。

tajialaoxianshengjiandaochiwanchizhongduilesantianquanshizishenchifandewan，zuizhonglaolaoshishiquxile。

neiyicihou，xiaojjialaoxianshenghaoxiangyishidaozishendebuzhengque。

zhihoujiazhongyaotuodiban，yaoshuli，taquanshihenjijiqujinxing。

xiaojdoubuxitajialaoxianshengdeyifukuzi，youyujihuquanshitajialaoxianshengzaixichuangdan。

jiazhonglaigukelebuyuanzhenglicanju，jiulijidaigukedaocanyindianquyongcan。

qingshanggaodenvren，jihudouburongyirangzishenleiji，burongyirangzishenbiequ。

yeyoubianshiyigeyueainidenanrendoushijijibangnidanfuyiqiejiawuhuo。

 dianshilianxuju《yanxigonglve》，weiyingluoduiyifuyushupindeqingguirenshuo：“yifuyuzuiqiangzhe，bibushangzishenbianweizuiqiangzhe。”

 zheixiecongburongyirangzishenbiequdenvxing，doumingbaituierqiuqici，wulunshizaigongzuozhonghuanshihunyinshenghuozhong，yixieshiergaisheqijiusheqigaijianchibuxiejiujianchibuxie。

yigenvrenbubiyinweiganqingerbiequzishen，neiyangqueshibuzhi。zenmejiangnishizishenbabamamatengxideshangpin。

 yixienvxingyuanbenjiuyingdanghuodexiaosahensuiyi，danshiyibianzishendelianren，xiaohai，jiazhong，nulilehaoduohaoduo，duodaodouxiangyaosheqizishendegongzuo，bianchengjiatingzhufu，houbanbeizizhigenchaimiyouyanjiangcuchaxiangchu。

hunyinshenghuoli，fuqijianshigongpingde，meiyouyaoqiusheijiawulaodongsheibujiawulaodong。

yigejiazhongdexingfukuailelingrenmanyishuiping，neimejiukanyigenanrenyoumuyouduizuojiawuxiaodujichangle。

buyaoshuonanzhujiaowai，nvrenzhuneidehuale，nvxinghaikeyizaizhirenyuanchangzhongchichafengyun，youshizuodebinanshenghaixing。

 sanmaoshuo：ganqing，ruguobuguancheluoshidaochuanyifu、yongcan、dianqian、rushuizheizhongqieqieshishideyishizhuxingliqu，shibuyidijiutianzhangde。

 zaihunyinshenghuoli，yishizhuxingyizhibukehuoqueyixiewuguanjinyaodesuosui，qingshanggaodenvrenburongyiyilanzhuangxiuquanbao，zhishifentanweizijidelaogong。

womenyaoxuehaokuanrong，xuehaoqianjiu，keshiyidingyaoyoudaodedixian，jiatingbaoliwufarongren，waiyuwufarongren。

 yishizhuxingyuanbenjiuhenbuyi，wuxuyiweidenuli，quguantandewuyanderen，biequlezishen，yuanzuozhenshideziji，huodexiaosa，gaoxingdetaorenxihuan。

 hunyinshenghuoshiliangrendeshi，bixuliangrenqugoujian。qingxushizishende，gaichouqideqingkuangxiajiuchouqi。tiaoxuanshizishende，gaisheqideqingkuangxiajiusheqi。

zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？yishizhuxingtinglei，bierangzishendexingengxinku，yushengbuzhang，biebiequlezishen。