冷战是什么意思？夫妻吵架后要注意这些细节，婚姻才会长久

 shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？fuqijianjiaowangdeshijianyuezhang，jiuyuefeichangrongyizaochenggeshigeyangdemocayuzhengzhi。fuqizhengchaoshihenyiqiezhengchangdeshier，yincidajiabubiyouyuyoushihoudezhengchaoerjuedenuqichongchong。jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？

 zhenshimeihaodehunyin，shibuguandajiazenmechaojia，dajiadeqinggandouhaiyao。shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？yuezhengchao，dajiadeqingganfandaoyuekegumingxinhejiangu。jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？jiarudajiazhishiyouyuzhengchaoerrangyiduanhunyinshenghuotubengwajie，neimabiaomingdajiadeganqingjichucongyikaishijiubuzulaogu。

fuqijianyaoxuehaohaohaodizhengchao。zhengchaoyeshiyimendaxuewen。

neima，fuqijianzhengchaoshi，yaoliuyishenmeguanjiandian，caikeyiranghunyinshenghuogengweizhangqini？

1、争吵时，要维持风范，不必痛骂

fuqijianzhengchaoshi，yaoweichibixudefengfan，bubihuxiangtongma。

 youdefufuyizhengchaodeqingkuangxia，jiufeichangrongyisangshibaochiqingxingdedanaohebixudeyizhi。tamenxianghuzhijianzhixianglingyifangdebitou，gezhonggeyangtongma。shijishang，tashicuowude。

 zhengchaodeqingkuangxia，dajiayaoxuehaoyouhuahaohaoshuo，youyiqienantidouyingdanghaohaodishangyi。zhinengdangdajiaxuehaobanantifentanzhuomian，xianghupingxinjingqidigoutongjiaoliuyugoutongjiaoliu，dajiahunyinshenghuozhongdefenqihenanticaikeyidedaojiejue。

 zhengchaoshinanyijiejueyiqienantide。zhengchaonenggou shidufaxiexinliyayigandexiaojiqingxu，keshiyiqiewujibifan。jiaruzhengchaoshi，buliuyifengfanhefencungan，neimadajiadehunyinshenghuofeichangrongyiyinerbenkuihetanta。

 yinci，fuqizhengchaoshi，yaoliuyiweichibixudelixing。jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？nibuyaoshuohuadanshitounao，gengbubiyouyuyishichongdongjiangchurangzishenjuedehouhuimojidehua。liru，dajiazaizhengchaoshi，bubiba“liyi”zheiliangziguazaizuishang。

 zhinengdangdajiazaizhengchaoshi，mingbaichongzuzhongshixianghudetihui，erqiexiangyaoyongxinqingtingxianghudexinlihua，dajiadehunyinshenghuocaihuigengweizhangqi。

2、争吵时，要留余地，不必贪得无厌

fuqijianzhengchaoshi，yaoliuyudi，bubitandewuyan。

 shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？youdefuqizhengchaoshi，bumingbailiuyudi，doubumingbailiutuilu，zaochengzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuozuoyouweinan。shijishang，fuqijianbingmeishenmezhenshiguobuqudekan，doumeiyoushenmewentishibukeyigenjuhaohaodigoutongjiaoliuyushangyizuyijiejuede。

 dangdajiadouhuiqitoushangdeqingkuangxia，dajiameiyoubanfabaochilengjing。yinci，dangdajiazhengchaodeqingkuangxia，dajiabixufenbielizhiyiduanshijian。

 dangdajiaqixiaole，dajiazairanhoujiejuekunnan，badajiazaihunyinshenghuozhongyiqianchenjidegezhonggeyangnantihefenqijingranyouxudijiejue。

 zaihunyinshenghuozhong，fuqijianpengdaofenqihuonantideqingkuangxia，bubiduobi，zhishiyaoxuehaozhimianwenti，erqieyiqixiangbanfajiejuekunnan。

 fuqijianyaoxuehaozhiquxiangtou，dajiabubiwuyuanwugujiubaxianghudangzuozishendeduili。dajiayingdangzishizhizhongxieshoubingjianzhanzaiyiqi，bahunyinshenghuozhongchenjidenantihefenqipaochulai，xianghuxiangbanfaquchulizheizhongfenqihenanti。

 dajiazaizhengchaodeqingkuangxia，bubideliburaoren。zhengsuowei，tuiyibu，kaikuotiankong。zhinengdangdajiaxinwangyichuxiang，jingwangyichushi，dajiahunyinshenghuodezheisoukuaitingcaikeyixingchedegengweiwendinghezhangjiu。

3、争吵后，要积极承认错误，争吵不必留宿

fuqijianzhengchaohou，yaoyouyifangkeyijijixianglingyifangrencuo。fuqijianyaojilao，zhengchaobubiliusu。

 huanjuhuashuo，zhengchaohou，dajiabubilengbaolijiujing，zhishiyaojijijixianghuyigeloutixia。youqishizhenduinanshengeryan，ruguonihelaopozhengchaoyihou，wulunshibushinidecuo，nidouyingdangjijixianglaopochengrencuowu。

 nanrenzaihunyinshenghuoshiyaozhuyaobiaoxiandegengweiwusihuodayidian，nibuyaoxinxiongxiaai，gengbubihelaopoxiaodujichang。zhinengneiyang，nicaikeyizhenshihuodenvxingduinidezhenxinshiyihezhenqing。

 zhengchaoyaozhangwofencun，bubirangzhengchaoliusu。zhengchaodeqingkuangxia，yebubiwuyuanwugujiutiguoqu。dajiazhengchaodeqingkuangxia，yaoxuehaoyipiangaiquan。

jiaruzhengchaohou，dajiahuxiangzhiqian，hubuxiangrang，neimadajiadehunyinshenghuojiangyinerkunnanzhongzhong。

 yinci，fuqijianyidanchanshengmengliedezhengzhi，yidingyaoxiangjinbanfaxiangbanfazhongguiyuhao。zhengchaoyihou，nihebujijixianglingyibanrencuo。youshi，nibuyaotaiguozaiyishuobailedeqingmianhuozizun。ruguonihaiaizheairen，niyaoshenaizhezheiyijia，neimazhengchaohou，niyejiugengyingdangjijixiangairenchengrencuowuhuozhiqian，zheibingbingbushiyijianfeichangdiurendeshier。

 lengzhanshishenmeyisi？fuqijianzhengchaoyaoliuyixuduodexiaoguanjiandian。liru，zhengchaoshi，yaoweichifengfan，bubitongma，yaoliuyudi，bubitandewuyan。zhengchaohou，yaojijichengrencuowu，zhengchaobubiliusu，zheixie。zhinengneiyang，dajiadehunyinshenghuocaihuiyuechaoyuexingfukuaile。