夫妻怎么办？这三件事千万不要做

 fufuliangrenjiaruyaoxiangbaitoudaolao，neimaquanguochengzhongbianhuiyoujianxindeqingkuangxia。yudaojiatingbaolidezhengquezuofashishenme？qingganquanshijianjiandisuzaode，quanguochengzhonghaowuyiwenyeyoujianxin，yincijiuwubibaozhengbaorongyulejie，buzuosunhailingyifangdeshier。yejiushizaipingchangdehunhoushenghuozhong，yaoxuehaokezhiziji。fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？zhinengneiyang，qinggancaihuigengweidejiangu，yigeyoujingyanrendegongzuojingyan：fuqiguanxizaihao，zheidisanjianshiyeshibubizuo！

一、没有别人眼前揭另一方的缺点

 shijishang，renmensuoyourendouhenzaihuzishendeqingmian，yincibujinnanrenshiyaomianzideweishengwu，nvxingyiyangzaiyizishendemianbu。yudaojiatingbaolidezhengquezuofashishenme？yinci，fufuliangren，bulunshishei，doubuyaozaibierenyanqianjiezishenairendequedian，neiyangbudanrangairenmeiyouqingmian，yekanqilaizishenmeiyouqingshangzhishang，youyijuhuashuodeshi，jiachoubukewaiyang。fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？

 yinci，wulunshizainaxiedezhuangkuangzhizhong，bixuhaijidezaibierenyanqianjilingyifangliugouqingmian。youyuneiyangdehua，lingyifanghuijuededaozishenbeizhongshi，yinciyehuifanbeixintengni。jiaruyidanzaibierenyanqianjielelingyifangdeduan，xianchangtaburongyigennijinjinjijiao，keshihuijialeyihouhaowuyiwenhuigennisuanqian，bulijiatinghexie，yincijishifuqijiandeqingganzaihao，neijianshieryebukeyizuo。

二、争吵时不必一直提离异

 xuduofufubulunshiyinweishenmezhengchaodeqingkuangxia，yizhixiaibaliyiguazaizuishang，wuyuanwuguqueshuolihunle，zheishenghuowufayiguo。yudaojiatingbaolidezhengquezuofashishenme？shijishang，fuqijianzhengchaobingmeishenmedashier，zhibuguobianshizhangfuyouqiaoqiaoxiyanle，huoshishizangwaziluanrengzheixie。keshi，yitiliyibianhuishifenshangganqing，fangfoliangrenqueshichengbuxiaquleyiyang。fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？

 henduorendoubuqingchu，fuqixingshenghuozhongzuibihuidebianshiwuyuanwuguqueshuo“liyi”zheiliangzi，bulunshifuqiguanxizairuhehao，shuodeduole，qingganyezaisuonanmianbeixiaoqiandiao。yinci，fufuzaizhengchaodeqingkuangxia，bubiyizhizaitililehun！

三、不要在婚姻生活中不给力

 henduorendoujuedehunhoushenghuohenfawei，pingpingdandandexiangbeiwenkaishui，yincizongzhaodiankuailehecijixing，juedeyoushihoutongshigaoyixianuanwei，huoshishihenvxingpengyouqiaoqiaoyuegehuidoubushangdaya，burongyiduihunyinshenghuodaozhiweixie。keshi，hunyinshenghuozuizhongyaodebianshiyaozhongshiheyichengxiangdai。

 youshi，zaihunyinshenghuozhizhongbujili，yibuxiaoxinbianhuiniangchudacuo，hunwaiqingneiyangdeshieryebushimeiyouchanshengguo。suoyishuo，shihuanshibuyaozaihunyinshenghuozhizhongbujili，zhidaohunyinshenghuowufamibudeqingkuangxia，zairuhehouhuimojidouzaoyiwanle！

 ganqingxiaojie：fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？youjingyanrendegongzuojingyan，fuqiguanxizaihao，zheidisanjianshiyeshibubizuo！yi：meiyoubierenyanqianjielingyifangdequedian；er：zhengchaoshibubiyizhitiliyi；san：buyaozaihunyinshenghuozhongbujili。zhinengneiyang，fuqijiandeqinggancaihuiyizhihaoxialai。