夫妻婚后冷战出现这几种情况，教你几个妙招解决

 nilejiehaodeyiduanhunyinshenghuoshenmezuizhongyao？hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？tabingbushiqiancai。bingbushirongyan，gengbingbushimeitianzhandaoyiqi，zhishixianghuzhenxinshiyienai，wozhongyouni，nizhongyouwo。niantoushixingfude，danshijishiguganmei。xuduoqingkuangxiayouyulingyifangyijubuyongsisuodehuabianhuisunhailingyifang，yaobushiyouyuyixieshiergaodezhengchao、lengbaoli。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？ xiabianzheisangezhuangkuang，jiarubukeyilijichuli，neililiyidoubuhenjinle！

1、没去换位思考一下，缺乏社交能力

 zaiwangshangyouneimeyijuhua，“nanrenlaizihuohua，nvxinglaiyuanyutianwangxing”，hanyibianshi2gequanshibuyiyangzhongqun，liangrendesisuofangfa，yishizhuxingdengdoubuyiyang，hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？zheigeshihoujiufeichangrongyichuxiannanti，zaochengguandianbuyiyang，jieguoyebuyiyangdangranbianshizhengchaonaxiede，zheigeshihouyaomingbaihuanweisikaoyixia。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

 liangrencongchuduixiangdaowanhun，queshihenbuyi，jiarujiehunhoujiulejieyiweidesuoyao，guidinglingyifang，kaolvzishendeyaoqiu，meiquqianjiulingyifang，jilingyifangliuyoushinihenzisizili，meiyoutonglixin。

2、没了沟通交流，都会活著自身的全球里

 huidaojiajiuzuohaozijishier，nandeyaobuwanyouxi，yaobuwanxiabiedede，nvdeyaobuzhenglizishen，zhenglijiazhong，xiaohaijiufangdaoyibianzishenkankanshipin，zhufanzheizhongjiawuquanshilaonianrenjigaohao。

 dabaitianmanggongzuo，xiabanleyebuyuanyihuayidianshijiangoutongjiaoliu，gengweishencengcidezhangwolingyifang，guanzhulingyifang。zhangciyiwangjiuchanshengjiedi。

3、单方索要，另一方内心不平衡

 xuduofufuquanshidanfangsuoyao，yaolingyifangweizijinulishiduoshao，ganjuetashiyingdangde，nvdeyouyuwoyibianjiajininulilexuduo，naizhijiazhonggennijiehun，quanbunikeyipeichangwo，nandezongganjuezishenyizhinulishijian，qiancai，ai，quandouyaoyanzhelingyifang，guanailingyifang，quebuzhidaozishenyebixulingyifangdeguanzhu，jiusuanshiyidiandianaiyeshikaolvle。

 yincidangchuxianzheizhongnantideqingkuangxia，renmenyinggaizenmeban？jiuyaotaneiyangyizhiliangjihuaxialaima？zhizhitichufenshouliyima？no，zheiliyoutiyiyexunenggou xiezhuni！lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

提议：

1、不计较那么多，提升情感资金投入

 hunyinshenghuoshiliangrendeshier，bixuxianghuweihubaoyang，kaoyigerennulishibuhao，xianghubixufengongxiezuo，mingqueyigezongtimubiao，liruwojuedebaguanlianzuohao，jiuduoguanzhulingyifang，hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？liruwojuedebashiergaohao，nenggou xunzhaoaihaoxiangtongdianyiqiqujinxing，dangdahuoeryoumanzugan，bianhuiyoudaliangshijianqushenjiao。

2、创建有效的沟通方法，加重感情

 pingchanggongzuojiuhenmang，haowuyiwenyehuipengdaobukaixindeshiqing，zaiqiyeyaoshouweiqu，huijialemeiyourenkuanwei，neixinzhenweiqu，zheigeshihouyaoxuehaozhengqueyindaolingyifangshushuo，lingtinglingyifangdeniantou，duokuanweiduojili，shaozeguai。jiusuanpengdaojianjiebuyizhi，nenggou jianmobufouding。

 duojindaolingyifangdejiaojiquan，pengdaotaoyandeshier，bubidichuhedihui，chuwaiyaojizulingyifangqingmian，jirenjuededajiashiyiduihaofufu。duoqupeiduixiaizuodeshier，jiazhongqinggan。

3、学好同理心，相互了解礼让

 fuqizhijianyaoduoxianghulejie，duolizailingyifangshijiaokaolvdaonanti，duominglingyifangxiang。bubipengdaobugaoxingshierjiuluanmazanghua，shuapiqizheizhong，yaoxuehaodiaojieqingxu，pengdaoyixieliyubishier，yewuxutaiguodanxin，anxinshang，xianghulirang，youyurizishigenlianrenguobingbushigentarenguo，zaisuonanmianchuxianyixieliyubinanti。

 hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？danglianggerenzhenxinshiyienai，wozhongyouni，nizhongyouwo，zuoweiyigezongti，neiyangcaigengyouyiyubiciqinggandehemufazhanqushi。