面对冷暴力婚姻，真正聪明的女人是不会这么做的

 zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？zhihourenmencaifajue，zhenshizhichengdianyigejiazhongdeyousanyangwupin：xingqing、xingqingheconghui。qingshanggaodenvrenshinaxiede？wojuedezhenshidetonghuashunshimengbihelingbian。zaiwomenhetajiaowangdeqingkuangxia，renmenchangchangxunzhaoyizhongchunfengyiyangdeshushidu，renmenyedouhuibeitadeguanlijuecesuonianguo。lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？lengbaolihunyindechulifangfayounaxie？

 zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？youxierenshuo，yishizhuxingbingbuyi，youyurichangshenghuoyouguoduodetiaozhan、cuobai、suosuihefanza。yigeqingshanggaodenvrenyizhinengjiejuebingguoshangduozhongduoyangdeyishizhuxing。lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？lengbaolihunyindechulifangfayounaxie？

 yuqishuoshinanrenshijiazhongdejishugugan，burushuoshinvrenshijiazhongdezhenshishengming。zaihunyinshenghuozhong，qingshanggaodenvrenyizhitianmanhaoyunqi。

 huoxu，meiyounvxingbuyuanyizhibeinanrenaizhe。danzheileizhangqixingdeyouhuoli，yifangmianzaiyunvshijiehunhouzishendechixutisheng。lingyifangmian，jiezhunvxingyongconghuixiyinnanshiyeshifenguanjian。shuobailedeyouhuolishijishangshiyizhongrentong。

zaihunyinshenghuozhong，yigezhenshiqingshanggaodenvrenconglaibuzuowujianshi！

最先，不必依赖男生。

jiaruwomenbunengquebaorenmendecaifuziyou，renmenzuishaowubiquebaorenmendejingshenduli。

 dangyigenvrenxuanzeyilaiyigenanrenshi，niyinggaizhidaonisangshidebudanjiushinidegexinghua、zizun，haiyounideshengming。quanshijiemeirenhuizhenshimishangyigemeiyouzishenderen，youqishiyigenanren。

renyizhiyizhongduibumingshiqingyoumingxiantanxunchongdongdexiaodongwu，baohanjiehunhouderen。

 shide，nvxingzishenwanhun。danshenmejiaoyikao？ruguonijubuweijianshi，yikaoshiyigejianbu；ruguonixinqingbuhaoshi，yikaoshiyigerufang。

yikaoheyikaoshiliangmashi。biebatamennonghulihutule。

第二，我从来不去妈妈家埋怨。

xiangcunyoujuhua，yumeiwuzhidexifuerliangbianbixuchuan，conghuidexifuerliangbianbixuxinxibaomi。

 nishenmeyisi？huanjuhuashuo，yigeyumeidenvxingyizhiyaoshuopopobutaihao，naizhijiapoduipopodebumanyiyuanbenyebuhuai，naizhibannongshifei。

 conghuidexifuerruhe？zaiwomamadejiazhongli，woshuowomamadejiazhongshihaode，zaiwomamadejiazhongli，woshuowomamadejiazhongshihaode，danwobuhuitiyiqiehuaide。lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？lengbaolihunyindechulifangfayounaxie？

 neimazuizhongyounaxiebuyiyangni？qianmianyizhongnenggou shi2gejiazhongdeguanlianyulaiyuningzhi，naizhilaosibuxianglianluo。zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？danyinweihoumianyizhongzaizhongjianjuyoulediaojiedegongxiao，tachangchangcujin2gejiazhongdeguanlianyuelaiyueyulaiyuhemuhemu。

 yiner，qingshanggaodenvrenconglaibuyulaogongzhengchao，lijimaiyuan、hushi、wumienaizhibaishouqijiachuangye。chukaimamadeqinren，taburongyihepenyouhenvpengyoujianghua，yebuhuitaoluntadejiatingwentihesishi。dajiadouzhidao，jiachoubuyinggaibeixuanchuancehua。

第三，我从来不在外面瞎搞。

yigezhenshiqingshanggaodenvrenwubiyouzishendedaodedixianhebiaozhun。zuishaotalejieshashishimeifazuodaode。

 zhongshishihunyinshenghuodedaodedixian。pengchuzheiyidaodedixiandaibiaoliangrenbingbuyaoyuan。xianghujiaowangfeichangrongyi。buyiyulidixinlailingyifangzhendehennan。woxinzhongdejiemojiangshishizhongdebahen。

bingqie，neiyangdenvxinghuikaolvdaoquanjuxing。shuobailedajuyishi，bianshifuqijiandexinlai。

yumeidenvxingni？haohonghaopian，xuduoqingkuangxianenggou yibianyidiandianyingtouxiaoli，suibiansheqizishendebiaozhun。

第四，不必随便放弃感情。

 meirendehunyinshenghuoburongyibutaihao。jiaruniyaozaibutaihaodeqingkuangxiasheqi，neimaniyejiuburongyihesuoyourenyiqishenghuozhangshijian。

 jibianshidehunyinyeshigenjuchixudemoheqi，chixudelingjulihechixudechuli，zhizhizuihouyicigenggai。xianrujin，henduonianqingrenjianghuizixiaojiubeiguanhuaile。tamenbukeyichengshouyiqiejiannan。yidantamenyoudianerbukaixin，tamenbianhuitaolunliyi。

 meirendehunyinshenghuoshijizhide。xingfudehunyinshenghuoyizhixiankuhoutian。zuoweiyigechengren，nixuyaoyouzuishaochengdudeshimingganheqiadangdexintai。

jianchibuxiebingbushiyouyurenmenkandaoleqidaierjianchibuxie，zhishijianchibuxierenmenkandaoleqidai。

 xuduoqingkuangxia，ruguoninengjianchibuxieyidian，jieguojianghuihuidabuyiyang。yigeqingshanggaodenvrenburongyisuibiansheqitadehunyinshenghuo，chufeishitashiqujianchideyiyi。

第五，人们始终不容易把人们的情感做为一个总体。

bushiwoshuonimeiyoujinliangduodeai。fanguolai，dangniai，niyinggaiqinfenai，qinfenai，nulidaliang，guanzhugengshao。

 yaoshishuo，bubiaideneimadijian，bubitaohaoyigebuzaihunideren，neimazongshikanqilainigengbeixiaokan，gengdijian。henxianzhutaqiaobuqini，nihuanshiqiaobuqini，bushima？

aicongbuyilaiyubushi，niwubigaoqingchuzheiyidian。

 jibiannihenaiyigenanren，niyebukeyirangqingganzhanyounideyisheng。buran，zheigeshijiekanshangqutaijiandanle。niyinggaiyouzishendepenyou，bingqieniyinggaichangchangyunideqinpenghaoyouyiqiliuda。zheifenairenbukeyirangnisuoyou。qisecaihongshiqizhongyansedezucheng。

yinciqingshanggaodenvrenjiehunhouhuibaocun30%dexinxiangan。zaimouyishike，tazhuyaobiaoxianchuyizhongchuhuyiliaodezishen。

情商高的女人从不做之上五件事。

 huoxu，duiconghuiyeyoulingyizhongbiaoshu，neibianshitabuqingchuzishengaiganshenme、nengganshenme，dantawubilejiezishenbuyinggaiganshenme、bukeyiganshenme。

 lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？yigeqingshanggaodenvrenqueshishiyigejiazhongdefufen。danbudebuchengren，fuqijiangengguanjiandeshihuxiangzaojiu。