什么是冷暴力？夫妻之间进行着冷暴力，你要学会用这4个方法解决

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一、积极和另一方沟通交流

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二、有时候争吵比家庭冷暴力有用

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三、两人提早讲好

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四、学好管理自己的心态，替另一方关心

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 zaoyulengbaolihunyingairuheshihao？jiatinglengbaoli，shuoqilaishifendebijiaoyanzhong，danyaoshiyoufangshi ，neiyeyidingkeyijiejuehaode。