冷暴力是什么意思？这4种婚姻揭露了中年人的痛苦

 hunyinshenghuoshi2gelurengenjutanlianai，genjujiaowangchixudezengjinganqing，jiezhongerlaizuchengbianchengyigexindejiazhong，meiyiduanhunyinshenghuodegangkaishiquanshiweimeiyijingde，naizhiquanshinanyiwanghuaide，taruwanhunshengdiandeneiyike，2gelurenxuanbubianchengle“xuerouxianglian”dejiaren，ruhequyishizhuxing，ruhequxiangbanyishengzehuibianchengyiduanhunyinshenghuodemolian。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

 hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？henduorenganjuehunyinshenghuobianshichaimiyouyanjiangcucha，yigeyangjiahukou，yigetongqingdali，buyongnaxieyouyidefangfa，keshiyaoxiangranghunyinweichizheyifenxingfu，youshishibixuqusisuo，qubawoyixiejutifangfade。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？

 jinqizaikanyibu《ruguosuiyuekehuitou》zhengbuju，zhengbujuhaowuyiwenshiyibuyisibuguajiemidangjinxuduo fufuhunyinshenghuozhongzaoyudegezhonggeyangshiji，gezhonggeyangkunao，sangeqicandenanzhuqinshenjinglizhesanzhongbuyiyangdehunyinshenghuotongchu，eryiweinvzhujiaojiangxiaomeiyeyiyangzaoyuzheyigetongchudehunyinshenghuo。

 zhuizhezhengbuju，kandaolexuduo xianshishenghuozhongdeshenying，kanjiansizhongtongchudehunyinshenghuo，xiaojielehunyinshenghuodesidaku，danzuijianaodehuanshita。

不成熟男人对家中的损害之苦

 nanzhujiaobaizhiyongzaizhonglaonianhuanjieqinshenjinglizheyige“beiliyi”dexiankuang，meiyouwaiyu，meiyoufenqi，pingdanrushuideyishizhuxingquebeineiyangdeyigepiaopodayudasa，erzaocheng tamenliyidebenzhi，guijieweidaodishibaizhiyongdebuchengshu。

 julidebaizhiyonggushiqingjiejianxinshixuduofufuzairichangshenghuozhongdoushipengdaode，bulunshixinhunfuqihuanshizhongnianfuqi，nanhaieraiwan，burongyizhaoliaoren，burongyiguanzhurenshixuduonanshengdequexian，zailiyideneiyikebaizhiyonghaoxiangguannianlaidaoyanzhonghouguo，haiyaowen“weihezhei2nianjiurenshoubushangwozheigouxingzi”，deyiyoucikejianbaizhiyongdeyigebuchengshu，youyuyigechengshunanrenshinenggoucaozonghaozishendexingzide，naizhishinenggou bawozishendexingzide，fankanjingyadehuiying：wodabaitianyounaxiefannao，wanshangshuibuzhejue，niwenguoyicima？

 woneixinteng，shenshangteng，nizhangwoguoma？woyayigan，woqueshiyayigan。jiushinidelengdan，jiatinglengbaoli，bidewobuhuiyaoxiangzheiyijiale。hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？neiyangdeyigehuiyingxianglaichuozhongdechengqianshangwanrendexinli，youqishinvxingdexinli，erzaibaizhiyongjiehunhouzaiqiyedachaodanaozaocheng xiagang，yeshitayigebuchengshudebiaozhi。

 erzairujinderichangshenghuoyiyangshizheiban，yulaiyuduodefufuzaijiehunhouzaoyuzheyigelengdandeqingkuang，nanshengyibianzhengqianchengshougongzuozhongdegongzuoyali，fanhuijiashihushilaopodewenrou，hushilaopodetihui，zuizhongrangliangrendeguanlianyuezouyueyuan，eryulaiyuduodenanshenghaoxiangjiangzishengongzuozhongyiwaideshijianjiaojilezishen，wanyouxi，yinjiu，wanpai，lisuodangrandebajinyoudexiabanlekongxianshijianjilezishenqushifangyali，buchengshunanrenhaoxiangyanlibingbulejiequbaochizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo，buqingchuqushouhoulaopo，zongganjueyongyoujiehunzhengshuneibianshijielehun，bushangzuihouyikeshizhongbuqingchuzishencuozailenaer。

 erzheileinanshengbuchengshu，chengbuleyigejiazhongdekuyehuishizuijianaodeyigehuanjie，yaoxiangrangyigenanrenwanshan，chengcai，youshiqueshibixushitawanquansangshicainenggougaoqingchu。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？

婚姻不幸福之苦

 zainanzhujiaolantianyuyushangguanhuidehunyinshenghuozhong，huoxuyikaishigaobudongweishenmeshangguanhuihuiwaiyu，jiusuanzhishishigangkaishi，keshidangjiandaozhihouyihoujiudongle，shangguanhuishuo：nimeiriyihuidaojia，bingbushizainidexiaoshufang，bianshizaiweishengjian，benlailiangrendejia，kewoganjueshizhongshiwoyigeren，haipajiushizheiyangguowanxiayibeizi。

 neiyangdeyigehunyinshenghuoqingkuangdangranyeshizuisuande，zishenmangzishende，meiyoububiyaodeyiwaijingxi，meiyoububiyaodeguanzhu，haoxiangyishizhuxingguobianchengzheiyimoyangyihou，shangguanhuitiaoxuanlehuiguanzhuren，huiweizijiciwaiyizhongyishizhuxingdenansheng，erlantianyubianchenglezheiyiduanhunyinshenghuolibianzuifushangdeneiren。

 sangoushidehunyinshenghuozairichangshenghuozhongdelejiexuduo，youdefufushizhangqixinggekaierdi，youdefufuzeshizheiyangzi，meirizishenguozishende，zishencongmeikaolvdaolingyifang，meiyouyidianrenqizhidejiazhongzhongjiuhuilaiyihoudaliangdeshigudan。

没法应对以往的痛楚

 nanzhujiaosanhuangjiuhengshiyigexiangduixingwenxindejia，youkeaidenvsheng，youhaokandezhongchengbuyidelaopo，ziran，tazishenyeshiyigejinxinjinzedebaba，jinxinjinzedelaogong，ertadehunyinshenghuobianhuajinjinyuanyuyumeifajienayiwang，neixindeneidaokanzishizhizhongzoubuguoqu，yangleshiyiniandeguinv，xianrujinfajuebingbushizishendeqinshenggurou，huoxuzheileitongnanrenmendoudong，doulejie，keshishuoxiaohaiduibabashiyiniandeqingganshiqueshi，babaduixiaohaishiyiniandeshouhouyeyiyangshimeifatidaide，erlaosuzoubuguoqudeshiyiwangdetongchu，suiranlaopobingbushiguyiyinman，suiransheidoubuzhidaoyeyouneiyangdegushiqingjiechansheng。

 shijizhongdelianren，fufuhaoxiangjingchangyehuizaoyuneiyangdetongchu，shuobailedeqianren，zhangfu，huoshishichuliannvyoudouhuibuzhibujueweihaizheliangrenzhongjiandeguanlian，erzheileitongchuzuizhongdebenzhidoushiyouyuquefaxinlai，ruguonichedixinlailingyifangdeqingkuangxia，shijishangyiqiededisanzhe，lianrenzaitayanqianquanshimeifajindaode，erdangchedidexinlailingyifangyihouyekenengbianchenglingrenjuededaoshufudeqingkuang。

zhushiyiwangdetongchu，fangxiaguoqudetongchu，haohaozhenxirujindeyiqie，caikeyiyoumeilihaodehunyin，gengxingfudejiazhong。

少年轻狂看错人之苦

 disiduantongchudehunyinshenghuoshijiangxiaomeide，yigehaokandafangdeti，queyongyouhenqiangjingzhengtishilidenvxing，keshitadehunyinshenghuoxiangbinanshengeryan，haoxianggengweidetongchu，laogongshouwozhejiangxiaomeide“heishi”，sisidebawozhubuliyi，naizhihaiguidingjiangxiaomeitaogaoedejingshenchuhu，meiyicidechuxianzhenduijiangxiaomeieryanquanshitongchudenanao，erjiangxiaomeidebeijuzeshishaonianqingkuangkancuorenzhiku。

 qingchunnianshaodejiangxiaomeirenweimishangyigewenpinggao，xiangmaowenweneryaderenhuiduizishenhao，sheiliaozaizhihoudehunhoushenghuozhong，yigenanrendebukanrumuchengxiandehanchanglinli，naizhishoushanghainazhejiangxiaomeibukanrumude“xiangpian”，weicilaiweixieqianqian，neiyangdehunyinshenghuolingrenbeitong，keshiqueyequanjielenvhaizimen，zhaonanpengyou，yaoguoyishengdeqingkuangxia，yidingyaofangliangleshuangyan，youxierenjinjinpishangmianyangpidelang。

 xiaojie：hunyinshenghuodebuchenggongbingbushiyigerendebuzhengque，yebushiyishidewufarenshou，daliangdequanshiyicicideleijizaochengtongchuzengzhang，caiyeyouxinhan，shiluo，jiqiliqu。

 lengbaolishishenmeyisi？yiduanhunyinshenghuozhong，zuijianaodehuoxugengshidenghouyigenanrendewanshan，yigenanrendechengcai，eryigehuigujia，huizhaoliaojiazhongdenanshengcaikeyibaozhengduilaopodeguanai，caikeyicongchugenhaojimozhiku，yiwangzhiku，jiqikancuorenzhiku。