婚姻生活中婆媳矛盾怎么解决？

 nvxingjiehunhouchuleyaojingyinghaofuqiguanxi，poxiyeburonghushi，poxixiangchuyaozhuyixieshenme，youzenmejingyinghaopoxiguanxini？benwenfenxiangjigeyingduipoximaodundehaofangfa。

一、婆媳关系怎么相处才好

1、适度的拉开距离

 suhuashuodehaojulichanshengmei，hejiapoweichiyizhongzuishushidejianjushijianqingpoxiguanxidefangshizhiyi，tangruoniyujiapoyitiandaowanyouyugezhonggeyangsuoshizhengchaodehua，shizhezhehejiapofenliyiduanshijian，neiyangdangdajiazaidupengmiandeqingkuangxia，yejiuburongyiyouneimeduofenqile。

 zhenduirenmeneryantaiguoduzuishuxideren，renmentongchangfeichangrongyibiandalingyifangdequexian，erzhenduiyigezhangqibujianmianhuoshibutaishuderen，renmentongchanghuibiandalingyifangdeyoushi，zheiyeshiweishenmexuduolianrenrelianhuihushilingyifangdequexian，zhidaoshuxiqilaizhihou，tongchanghuiyouyulingyifangdequexianzhengzhi。

2、换位思考一下

 ruguoniganjuejiapojiangnidangbierenkandaideqingkuangxia，huoshiduinibutaihaohuoshibuqindeqingkuangxia，womenkeyihuanweisikaoyixia，renmenshibushibajiapodangmamaduidai，ruguowomenzishenduijiapoyemeiyouduimamaneibanhao，neiweiheyeyaoyaoqiujiaponengduirenmenxiangduizishenguinvneibanhaoni？

 dangnimeifazuodaoxiangkandaimamaneibankandaijiapo，neimejiuxianghuzhijianqianjiuxia，xianghudoutuiyibu，huashuotuiyibukaikuotiankong，duojijiapoyixiezhongshi，shaoyixiezhengzhi，zhongjiuneixinquanshirouzhangde，jiapoyehuirenzhidaonidechengxin。

二、如何解决婆媳矛盾

1、不必较为

 jiapoduizishendeguinvhaiziheduixifuerhaoneijiushibenxing，meiyoubixuduji。danshiduiqitazhoulixiaoshunxifuhaikeyilejie，youyurenchangyouwuyuanwuguquankankanbuguanderen，zheihenyiqiezhengchang。

 jiapoduizhangfudeshentihao，neigengnenggoulejie，neijiushinizhangfudenanti，weiguannideshi。bubinajiapohemazuobijiao，guinvshizishendemuqindeshenshangdiaoxiaderou，neimeiyouganqingma？ qinggannantihenxinlei？10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan！

 jiaposhilaogongdemama，youyuzhangfudeguanxidahuoerganglejiebujiu，jiusuanshixifudemuqinyejiushijimu，yudaohaodejimudezhanbizhenshitaidibubixinhan。

2、以柔制刚

 jiapotiwuliqunao，xifunenggouzuoweimeitingjianjiapoguowangxiaojiatingdeshier，xifuyaofuyanleshi，neirenmenhaowuyiwenbazheijianshiqingjiejuehao，ninjiufangxin。

假如家婆张口骂脏话，媳妇儿马上要缓解骂，咱有啥话不能好好说，要恶语伤人，假如家婆动手能力打架，媳妇儿要马上离去当场，请丈夫同意处理。