如果遭受了家暴，第一件事应该做什么？

 ruguozaoshoulejiabao，diyijianshiyinggaizuoshenme？jiatingbaoliduiyigerenlaishuoshanghaishifeichangdade，ruguohunyinshenghuozaoyulejiatingbaoliyihou，gaibugailihunni？yinggairuhechulijiabaodailaideshanghai？jintianyiqilaikankan

其一，以较大的抵抗和疯狂答复“第一次”

 shijishangxianshishenghuozhongyouhenduokeguanshishigaozhirenmen，quanzujiatingbaolidezhongyaotongchangqujueyu“diyici”。tangruozaiwomenchucizaoshoujiabaodeqingkuangxia，jinjinqianchangzhezhisididafuyixia，erqierangtajiuneibanhexiniyiwangdehua，qishizhibajiuhaihuijixuyougengweibijiaoyanzhongdediercihedisancide。

 yaoshipengdaojiabao，renmenjiuxuyaoyijiaodadedikanghefengkuangkaizhandafu，feichangshidiyici。jinliangyaoranglingyifangwanquancongzheidiyicide“yibuxiaoxin”he“lumang”zhongjuewuhuilai，jienayangedechufa，kaizhanzhenqiediziwofansi，rangtamenzhenshitongjiri，zhangzhangjixing，neng“huabingchongji”，nengzaixiayicibashoujuqilaiyihouhaipayongjingluoxiaqu。shizheshengcunshishengwujieshizhongbukeyigenggaidecunhuoguilvxing，qudehunyinshenghuoyujiatingzhongyiyangkeyong。danqiedepadadande，dadandepabupaside，nanshengyounengliangshangdeyoudianouda，neimanvxingyeyidingyaoyoujiuchanbuqingshangdegongzuonengliduofangmianfanji。

其二，识其性后再决策是否犟嘴

 zhixingjiabaodenanshengyibanyouerzhong：yizhongshiqishanpae，lingyizhongshidaozizuidoufuxin。tianshangshizhongzhanlantiyiduineiyangerzhongnanshengyidingyaoduofangmianyousuochayi。zhenduiqianmianyizhongnenggou jiangzui，bingqiewubijiangzui，naizhishiyeyaorangdikangdaolaigengweiqiangliexie。qiyunyongyiweiwangmindehua，bianshi“douqianrangdaoqiangmiandaole，tayeyaojiangwowangsilibia，wozhinengdikangcaikeyicunhuodeshineikongjian”!zhenduihoumianyizhong，nvxingpengyoumenjiububichiyanqiankuile，tashuonaxiejiuyaotashuonaxie，bubijiangzui，yaoxuehaorenrang，yaonenglijigaoqingchutafahuodeyuangusuoshu，linghuoyunyonggezhonggeyangsuoshudetianshidilidenggezhonggeyangbiaozhun，yixiezhuzishenjiejueyandixia“weiji”。guigenjiedi，zheizhongyongwangbianjiaxiangdeyijuhuashuobianshi，“fufuyaoshidongxinxing”!

其三，具有一定的分辨“气象云图”工作能力

 hunyinshenghuolijiabaodezaocheng，chukaiyouyibufenyuangushiyinweibicidexingqingbuhehuoshishimoufangbaonve，qiyeyoufeichangyibufenshiyouyubicizaochenglefenqiyihou，yifanghuoshuangfangdoumeinengjishichulihuoduofangmianjiejue。ji，tamenbingmeiyoujuyouyidingdefenbian“qixiangyuntu”degongzuonengli。wangbianjuede，zuoweiyiduifuqi，yifangyingdanggaoqingchulingyifangdeqimaaihao，xintaifazhanqushiguilvxing，lejietashenmeqingkuangjianghuihuinaopiqi。zhinengjuyoulezheiyigongzuonengli，nvxingcaikeyiyufu。zuishaonenggou congmouzhongyiyishanghelifangzhijiatingbaolidechansheng。

 jidewodemamachangshuo：fufuzaiyiqi，najiarenchangyouxingzide，guanjiansuozainidemingbaitadexingzi，tashangqulenijiuyaoyixia。woshangqule，niyejiuderenyixia，zongbutaikenengliangrendouchangfandiaoba?buranbudaqilaicaiguaini!

其四，独立自尊自爱和自立，始终是女性解决家暴的较大宝物

 juwangbianshuzhi，zaodaojiabaodenvxingxuduoquanshibukeyidulizizunziaihezilidenvxing，tamenzaixingqingshangcunyouzherouruo，zaixingdongshangqianqueqipo，jingshenshijiequefaduli。jinercushizishenzhangqixingchuzaihunyinshenghuodelieshidangzhong，nanshengyiyanjiubatakantoule，neixinchiwanbaoxinwan，lejiebuguanruhetadoubukehuoquezishen，jinersiwujidan，dananzizhuyiguannianyuelaiyuepengzhanghexintainiuqu。