女人遇到家暴一定要冷静处理，立即斩断联系

 juxiangguanbumenshujudiaochabaogao，zaiwoguojiabaofabinglvzai29.7%～35.7%zhongjian，zaiqizhong90%zhishangdeshouhairenweinvshi。shijishang，youguoduodequanweizhuanjiahefangshigaozhirenmen，jiejuejiabaogengweichangjiandefangfajiushishuoda110jingbao，huoshizhaofunvlianhehuixiaofeizheweiquan。zheileifangshizhongguizhiyoushiyizhonglixianghuaqingkuang，tajiuxiangguazaishujianshangdeyikeguozi，nengkanhuode，danbuyidingnengzhenshichihuode。yinci，zhishixiangjinyibulieshujigefangmianhaoyong、lingbianhenenggouziwobaohude“pianfang”，buzhuiqiukeyihuodedahuoerguangfanrenke，zhiyuannenggouduiyixieyijingzaodaojiatingbaolidenvshirenqunyouyixiexiaofanggongxiao。

其一，以较大 的抵抗和瘋狂答复“第一次”;

 shijishangrichangshenghuozhongyouxuduo keguanshishigaozhirenmen，quanzujiabaodezhongyaotongchangqujueyu“diyici”。tangruozaiwomenchucizaoshoujiabaodeqingkuangxia，jinjin qianchangzhezhisididafuyixia，erqierangtajiuneibanhexiniyiwangdehua，qishizhibajiuhaihuiyougengweibijiaoyanzhongdediercihedisancide。

 zaitianshangshizhongzhanlanlaikan，yaoshipengdaojiabao，renmenhaiyaoyijiaoda dedikanghefengkuangkaizhandafu，feichangshidiyici。jinliangyaoranglingyifangwanquancongzheidiyicide“yibuxiaoxin”he“lumang”zhongjuewuhuilai，jienayangedechufa，kaizhanzhenqiediziwofansi，rangtamenzhenshitongjiri，zhangzhangdejiyili，neng“huabingchongji”，nengzaixiayicibashoujuqilaiyihouhaipayongjingluoxiaqu。shizheshengcunshishengwujieshizhongbukeyigenggaidecunhuoguilvxing，qudehunyinshenghuoyujiatingzhongyiyangkeyong。danqiedepadadande，dadandepabupaside，nanshengyounengliangshangdeyoudianouda，neimanvxingyeyidingyaoyoujiuchanbuqingshangdegongzuonengliduofangmianfanji。 qinggannantihenxinlei？10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan！

其二，识其性后再决策是否犟嘴;

 zhixingjiabaodenanshengyiban youerzhong：yizhongshiqishanpae，lingyizhongshichiruanbuchiying。tianshangshizhongzhanlantiyiduineiyangerzhongnanshengyidingyaoduofangmianyousuochayi。zhenduiqianmianyizhongnenggoujiangzui，bingqiewubijiangzui，naizhishiyeyaorangdikangdaolaigengweiqiangliexie。qiyunyongyiweiwangmindehua，jiushishuo“douqianrangdaoqiangmiandaole，tayeyaojiangwowangsilibia，wozhinengdikangcaikeyicunhuodeshineikongjian”!zhenduihoumianyizhong，nvxingpengyoumenjiububichiyanqiankuile，tazenmeshuohuajiuyaotazenmeshuohua，bubijiangzui，yaoxuehaorenrang，nenggoulijigaoqingchutafahuodeyuangusuoshu，linghuoyunyonggezhonggeyangsuoshudetianshidilidenggezhonggeyangbiaozhun，yibangzhujiejueyandixia“weiji”。guigenjiedi，zheizhongyongtianshangshizhongzhanlanjiaxiangdeyijulaohuajiushishuo，“fufuyaoshidongxinxing”!

其三，把他的软助做为一张牌面，重要情况下展示;

 censhiyiweibeishoujiabaocanhaidenvxing，tayiqianchuangchuleyigelibaiaiwucibeizhangfubaozoudezuigaojilu。zailijinghenshuciqinfenyiranmeifalihunhou，tagangkaishixiaojieqilegongzuojingyan。

 tazhangfushiyigeshifenfengjianshehuidenansheng，qimamazixiaojiuzaiqibabadebijiaoyanzhongjiabaozhongyishizhuxing，zuizhongyouyuchengshoubushangtongchu，tiaojingzishale。yinci，yibianduifutababaduimamafanguodecuo，tamenfuziliangxingtongmolu，shinianlailianggerenmeiyouyijuhua，laonianrendewannianshenghuoguodeshifenqican。

 duiyuzhangfudezheileirenshenanquanqinshenjingli，cenbawozhuletaderuanzhu。youyicizhengdangxingzhangfuyunuhoufabingdeqingkuangxia，tafandaochongguozhangfuyanqianjiangdao：“nidaba，daba，kansiwosuanleba，nibadangchubingbushiyeneiyangzounimadema?zongzhidajiajiayidaiyige，yinweiworenshule!”erzheihuaganghaogongchulezhangfuxinligengweiaitongdeyiduanjiyili，mamashitazheiyibeizizuixihuandeyigeren，erzheiyiqingkuangxiataquepobudeyibayanxiadezheiyinvrenyuyiqiantongkuzhongdemamalianluolaidaoyiqi。shizheileizenghenheduimamadetengaijiyuletazidonghuakongzhidenengliang，neiyicitadeerguangmeiyoudaxiangcen，erhenhenshanxianglezishen。

 cengaozhitianshangshizhongzhanlan，tazhangfuhaiyouyigeruanzhu。neibianshicongbuhuizaihaiziyanqiandongshounengli，yincimeimeizhangfuzhiyayaofanudeqingkuangxia，tahuituituoquhaiziwuzitaobi，dailingyifangqinglengshiduofenzhonghou，yichangyuanbenhaiyaolailindejiabaoyejiuguoqu。

 genjucendezhuangkuang，renmenbuhuitainansuanchu，jibenshangmeigerenshiyongyou zishenderuanzhu。zheileiruanzhubixukaopingchangguanchahexiaojiede，jiarunengbawodehaodehua，kenengzaizhongyaodeqingkuangxianenggouzuoweiyizhangpaimianjiurenmen。cileifangshiyouweihaixing，youyong，danjuebunengchangjian。guigenjiedi，jiabaotangruopinciduole，zairuheshiyongfangshiquanshibaifeihekebei。

其四，独立自尊自爱和自立，始终是女性解决家暴的较大 宝物;

 jutianshangshizhongzhanlanshuzhi，zaodaojiabaodenvxingxuduo quanshibukeyidulizizunziaihezilidenvxing，tamenzaixingqingshangcunyouzherouruo，zaixingdongshangqianqueqipo，jingshenshijiequefaduli。jinercushizishenzhangqixingchuzaihunyinshenghuodelieshidangzhong，nanshengyiyanjiubatakantoule，neixinchiwanbaoxinwan，lejiebuguanruhetadoubukehuoquezishen，jinersiwujidan，dananzizhuyiguannianyuelaiyuepengzhanghexintainiuqu。

其五，具有一定的分辨“气象云图”工作能力;

 jiabaodezaocheng，chukaiyouyibufenyuangushiyinweibicidexingqingbuhehuoshishimoufangbaonve，qiyeyoufeichangyibufenshiyouyubicizaochenglefenqiyihou，yifanghuobicidouweinengjishichulihuoduofangmianjiejue。ji，tamenbingmeiyoujuyouyidingdefenbian“qixiangyuntu”degongzuonengli。tianshangshizhongzhanlanjuede，zuoweiyiduifuqi，yifangyingdanggaoqingchulingyifangdeqimaaihao，xintaifazhanqushiguilvxing，lejietashenmeqingkuangjianghuihuinaopiqi。zhinengjuyoulezheiyigongzuonengli，nvxingcaikeyiyufu。zuishaonenggoucongmouzhongyiyishanghelifangzhijiabaodechansheng。

 jidewodemamachangshuo：fufuzaiyiqi，najiarenchangyouxingzide，guanjiansuozainidemingbaitadexingzi，tashangqulenijiuyaoyixia。woshangqule，jiuderenyixia，zongbutaikenengliangrendouchangfandiaoba?buranbudaqilaicaiguaini!