laoposhengqizenmewanhuihunyin,zaizheiyangyigekuaijiezoushidai,yiguolianfangfochenglelianaizhongdeyichangmalasongbisai,jikaoyanzhebicizhijiandetili,yetiaozhanzheqingganshangdeshenceng。dangzheiyiduanyuanjulitanlianaizaoshouquzhe,shenzhimianlinfenlibianyuan,nishibushijuedebuzhisuocuo,tongchexinfei?biezheji,zuoweizimeitipingtaiqinggandashi,wojintianjiulaibangnizhizhizhao,jiaodajiasangeshishangyouyisi、qianxianyidongfangshi,shinideyiguolianzhongxindianranaidehuohua,rangliangxinzaidujinmixianglian!
一、序言:异国恋,爱到不容易也需要聪慧

yiguolian,jiuxiangshiyichangwuxiaoyandezhanzheng,nixuyaomianduidebudandanshijianjusuodailaidejiedi,yeyoushichasuozaochengdejiaoliuzhangai,jiqirichangshenghuozhuduobuquedingxingyinsudeganrao。dannizhidaoma?zhengshizheizhongburongyi,caishidenimendeganqingxiandegengbaoguihezhidefuchu。yinci,dangyiguolianxianruweijishi,buyaoqingyanfangqi,yongzhihuinaixinquwanliu,huoxunihuifajue,zheixiejinglijianghuichengweidajiaganqingzhongzuizhenguidecaifu。
neiyang,huabuduoshuo,jiexialaiwomenjiuzhiruzhuti,kanyixianasangefangshinenggoubangzhuniwanliujiangyaopoliedeyiguolianba!
二、方法一:共情力,唤起内心深处的爱意
1. zhuiyigongmingdian,zhuiyixingfushiguang
yiguolianzuihaipadejiushisuizheshijiantuiyi,bicideqingxumanmanlengmo。yinci,diyibujiushiyaohuanqidajianeixinshenchudeaiyi。zenyangzuo?feichangjiandan,genjuzhuiyigongmingdianlaizhuiyizheixiexingfudeshiguang。
ninengtiaoxuanyixiedajiayiqianyiqiduguodemeihaoshike,lirudiyicijianmiandeqingjing、yiqilvxingdezhaopian、huozheyiqiduguomougeyouqijieri。jiangzheixiezhuiyizhenglichulaiyigexiaoshipinhuoshixiangcetupian,tongguoshejiaomeitihuozhesixinfajilingyifang。zaipeibenwen,hebujiaruyixienidangchudetiyanhexianzaixiangsizhiqing,nengrangduifangkanjiannidechengzhiherenzhen。
2. gongqingli,gongxiangdiandiandidi
chukaihuailianguoqu,gengyaoxuehuizaixianxiadeshenghuozhongzhaodaogongqingli。nikeyishidangdegenduifangfenxiangzijiderichangrichangshenghuo,bulunshigongzuoshangdexiaochengjiu,huoshishenghuozhongdediandiyouqudeshi,dounengchengweinimendeguanxihuatitaolun。yucitongshi,yeyaogulilingyifangfenxiangtaderichangshenghuo,zheiyangnimenjiukegengweilejieduifangdexiankuang,tihuidaolingyifangdechuxian。
3. xinlinggongming,hudongjiaoliuxinli

dangnimenzhijiandeguanxiyousuohuanhehou,keyishizhejinxingyixiegengweishenrujiaoliu。liru,gongxiangbicizhijiandexinyuan、haipa、huozherenshengguihua。zheizhonggoutongjiaoliukeyirangdajiagengweilejieduifangdeneixinshenchu,xunzhaogongtongyuyan,yenengtiqianchulikenenghuiyinxihaobuyiyangdailaidefumianyingxiang。
三、方法二:自主创新互动交流,摆脱疏离感的桎梏
1. xianshanghuodong,wanchuxinhuayang
laoposhengqizenmewanhuihunyin,wanglianzuikepadebianshishuligan,suoyidajiaxuyaoyixiechuangxinxingdexianshanghuodongfangfalaidapojushu。liru,dajiakeyiyiqiwanyixiewangluoyouxi,huozhecanjiayixiexianshanglianrenzhutihuodong。neiyangbujinnengzengjianidegongtongyuyan,haikeyizaijiaoliuzhongcujinganqing。
2. jingxiliwu,songdaoqingyi
sheibuxihuanshoudaojingxini?zaiwanglianzhong,yifenyiwaideliwutongchanghuirangduifangkanjianniderenzhenheguanhuai。nikeyigenjulingyifangdexihao,xuanzeyifenteshudeliwu,birutaxihuankandeshu、tayizhiyaomaidehufupin,huozheniqinshouzhizuodexiaowupin。zaijisongliwudeyucitongshi,biewangjilingfuyifengshouxiedexin,biaoshunidesinianheqingyi。
3. xusiyouhui,langmanjingxi
suirannimenbukeyimianduimiandiyouhui,danzheibingbuyiweizhedajiabunengxiangshouyuehuikuaile。dajiakeyichangshiyixiexusiyuehuifangfa,liruyiqiguankantongyibudianying、yucitongshitingyishouge、huozheyiqixianshangzhufan。zheizhongyuehuifangshisuiranyoudianyouqi,queyenengrangnimentihuidaobicizhijianpeibanyuwennuan。
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