盘点一些好友结婚时伴娘要做什么

想必2013年的泰安伴娘事件大家并不陌生吧，此事件引起了广大公民的愤怒，并带起了一波小节奏。泰安伴娘事件之后许多地方也都开始兴起了“闹伴娘”的浪潮，在泰安伴娘事件中记者采访的一位市民的发言小编就很赞成“确实太过分了，觉得关键还是个人素质问题。”那么今天小编就和大家聊聊遇好友结婚时的邀约你作为伴娘要做什么？

一、伴娘要做什么

 banniangbanlang，keyishuoshiyigehunligongzuozuzhongdezhongyaorenwule。tongchang，xinrenhuiqingyigenvbanzuobanniang，yeyourenqing6~12weinvyouhuojiemei，qizhongyouyiweishizhubanniang，qitachengzhiwei“banjia”huo“nvbinxiang”。gumingsiyi，banlangbanniangjiushixinrendepeibanhedaibiao。

1、bulixinrenzuoyou，suishipeibanxinren。youqidangxinrenzaiwutaishang，banniangbixuzaiwutaiyicehouchang。

2、shikeguanzhuxinrenxingxiang。birubangxinrenjiandandizhenglilifuqunbaiyijitousha，biyaoshizhaohuanhuazhuangshizhiyuan。

 3、miqieguanzhuxinrendexuyao。banniangzuizhongyaoshiyaoyou“yanse”：jiexinrenshoushangdedongxi，bangtamentengchushoulaibaochilianghaodeyitai；xinrenkoukeshi，dishangshui；kandaoxinrenreleiyingkuangshi，jishidishangzhijin。hunlizhongxuduoxinrenyinweimangliuhuoshijidonghuiwangjixiuxihejike，langbanniangjiuyidingjidetixingtamen。

4、yingqinshi：banniangyaoxiangjinbanfazhengzhengxinlang，buyaorangtaqingyijiangxinniangquzou。

5、yingbinshi：banniangderenwushijieyingxinrenheguanzhuxinrenyirong，banlanghenanbinxiangmenzexudandangdabufendejiedaigongzuo。

 6、xizhong：dangyourenchulenanti，erxinnianglvexianweinanshi，banniangyaotingshenerchu，liangleichadao，zaixinniangpangbiankebushimiantiandeshihou。

二、半推半就

 bantuibanjiushiyigehanyuchengyu，shiyi：yisishixinliyuanyi，biaomianshangquetuicideyangzi，chuziwangshifu《xixiangji》disibendiyizhe：“bantuibanjiu，youjingyouai，tankouwenxiangsai。”

1、引证解释

 tui：tuikai；jiu：jiejin，kaoshangqu。yisishixinliyuanyi，biaomianshangquetuicideyangzi，yuan·wangshifu《xixiangji》disibendiyizhe：“bantuibanjiu，youjingyouai，tankouwenxiangsai。”《erkepaianjingqi》：lifanggebantuibanjiudejiele。chengchaofengzhengshihuijiabumang,jianjieleyinzi,xiaodeyoulejiguan。

2、词语辨析

yufa：lianheshi；zuodingyu、zhuangyu

jinyici：yuyinghaiju、zhuangmozuoyang

fanyici：jurenqianli、bimenxieke

dengmi：rao（dayichengyu）midi：bantuibanjiu

zaoju：wangjinglibantuibanjiudijieshouleduifangdehuilu。