怎样挽回老公？需要掌握出轨男人的心态

 zenyang wanhuilaogong ，weihubaoyanghaodajiadehunyinshenghuoqinggan，bingbushijininilaishunshou，zhishiyingyongqiadangdefangshifangfa，yaolejiechuguinanrendexintai。huoxuzhikaochencilandiaodetigaobenshenshibuzude，jinrijiulaikankanzenmebawochuguinanrendexintairanglaogongxunsufangandisanzheer，zenyangwanhuilaogongcaishibijiaoshihedefangfa。

一、怎么让老公对第三者儿由爱转恨

diyizhongbanfa：rangzishenbiandeyuelaiyueyoufengcai

 zaifajuechuguilaogongyihou，xuduonvxingshouweifanyingshidisanzheershi1genianqingpiaoliangdenvhai，wozennengzaicixiyinzhulaogongni?chukaigenggaiwaiguanyiwai，yeyaobuduantigaobenrenfengcai。renyishieryan，jishiwobubidisanzheernianqingmaomei，keshininengbidisanzhegengyoufengcaiheyouhuoli。

 disanzheerhaokandebiaomianjinjinxiyinzhulaogongdeyanzhu，keshitadexingqingheyanxingjuzhijianghuibingburuni，congnideyantanjuzhihedisanzhexiangdianbizhao，feichangrongyijiuhuiranglaogongganjuenigengyouyouhuoli，duidisanzheerdexintaizhuangtaiqingxiangxingdaziranjiuhuijianjiandidaoxiangnini。

第二种办法：以柔克刚，不与第三者儿反面矛盾

 jianxinhenduorendouyiqianpengdaodisanzheeryuanyixunsushangtaidezhuangkuang，keshidangtamenyuanyimingfendeneishihou，niqianwanbieziluanzhenjiao，genjuduilaogongshijiayali，erbalaogongposhidao“erxuanyicaozuo”dechengdu。keshi，yingduizheiyangdeshiqing，nizuiyingdangzuodeshitongquandabian，dangdisanzheerjibukenaiyuanyimingyi，jiuhuichixurangnilaogongshijiayali，bipolingyifangpeiniliyi。

 zheifandaoshiduiniyouyidingdebiyi，youyudajiazhongjianjiazhongxiaohaidengdeguanlian，laogongzhenduidisanzheerzheileixuqiushishifenjinshen。zaicike，yimianshichixushijiayalibipozishenliyidedisanzheer;erlingyiceshixiuwaihuizhong、tongqingdalideni，laogonghuitiaoxuansheini?cankaodaanshihenxianeryijiande。

第三种办法：收拢受害者心态状态，从头开始衣食住行

 zuoweinvxing，zaifajuechuguilaogongyihoushoulongnideshouhaizhexintaizhuangtai，zhongzhibuqieshiya、zeguaidengbuzhongshilaogongdegerenxingwei。chuguilaogong，yincishizaihunhoushenghuozhongnibukeyikaolvlingyifangdebenzhiyaoqiu，jinertabeibiede“dongta”denvxingxiyinzhu，yuanyilaogongzhongguijiazhong，haiyaokaolvlaogongdebenzhiyaoqiu。

 jiaruoyixiaxia，dangtafajuepeinijiaowangdesuiyuebihedisanzheerjiaowangneishihougengweishufushi，tahaihuigendisanzheeryiqima?duibiyudisanzheer，nikeyigenglejielaogongdejingyuhekunao，nidelaogongdaziranlejiedisanzheerbingbukeyihetatonggankude，tajiuhuijuedenisuanshizhenshiaitaneixindenvsheng，daziranhuidujueta。