出轨的男人值得原谅吗：如何处理男人出轨

 mengpianairenbingshuodahuazhegaitadaziranhuizaochengairendebuxinlaihecaiyi。shubuzhi，xiangaiderenshinenggoufujian ☞chugui xinlaide。chuguidenanrenzhideyuanliangma?zenmemianduicengjingchuguideairen?ruhechulinanrenchugui?

一、出轨的男人值得原谅吗：如何处理男人出轨

1、衷心感谢再次创建大家的关联

 (1)xinchuguidenanrenzhideyuanliangma?zenmemianduicengjingchuguideairen?cunganxie。nidezhixiqinshuyijingqinfenpeizainishenbian，bingzainipanbianhouxiubunideguanlian。

 buguantamenshizaitainaonu，qingxubuwending，wuzuqingzhonghuobunengfenzhe，tamendouzhuyaobiaoxianchuduinidexiai，erqiezaihenduozhuangkuangxia，zaitiaoxuanzaiciweilenizaicidedaoxinlaicengmianjubeitingdadepinxingyoudian。rangnidehezuofangzhongshihexiexiezheiyijuece。ruhechulinanrenchugui?

 (2)nideairenrujinjianghuihuijiangnizuoweilurenduidai。ruguonifanshengzijidetiaoxuanshi，nijianghuihuiganjuezishenrutong1geluren，congyewobuyinyiweihaodegerenxingwei，jiqinidemengpianhemimilaiyanzangtamen。

 (3)zheijianghuiyouliyukaolvdaocongtoukaishi，fangfozheishizheizhongxindeguanlian。biru，xunzhaoyaogongxiangdexindizhihuozhutihuodong。zhenduimouxiefufueryan，shengjihunyinzhengzhengshiyanjianghuishitamenguanliandedaibiaoxingzhongshe。wanhuichenggonglvgaoda92.7%!houhuifenshou xinjiwanhui shishizheigefangfa!

 zheileifangshinenggouxiezhunipeinideairenchulipanbian(jiqibiedenanti); henduofufuyehuibaoshuo，tamendeguanlianjiezheyuelaiyuegengkaixinhegengfengfu，danzheiburongyizaiyiyejianchansheng。

 (4)baozhengtahuotapeinizhoubiandesuoyouren(jiqinren，penyou，pengyou，xiaohai)dounengjiandaonideairenduinilaijiangdaibiaozheishijie，erqie(zaici)jiushinixingmingzhongdiyiwei。yizhenxinshiyidefangfachongfenkendingnideairen，ruguoniyubierengoutongjiaoliushidangxinweihutamendezhimingdu。

 (5)chuguidenanrenzhideyuanliangma?zenmemianduicengjingchuguideairen?changchanggaosutamen，niaitamen，bingcongxinlijiangchutadeshijiyiyi，yiqizaitamendeshuangyanlikanjiantamen。shuo“wohenaini”huiyoudaliangdeshijiyiyi。ruhechulinanrenchugui?

 danbubimoshatamen; tamenyiranzaipengshangbingchangshiquanyu。jitashineikongjian，shijianlaizhiyu，ziwofansishijian，bashijianfangdaoyikuaier。nidezhixiqinshujianghuiburongyishuozheizhonghuahuirangni，danqingjilaotamenzhengzaichangshiquanyu。

 shuo“woxihuanni”jianghuihuirangtamenganjuezishenhenmingan。tamenjuedebeipanbian，zhengzaichangshichuangjianziwofangyujizhilaiweihuzishen。nichugui，jiniyiwuba“fangyuliqiang”jiangxiaqu; wulunbixuduojiu。

 (6)xiexiezaicijiyu - bulunshiqianqiheanshizaijianglailiangnian。jilaoshichangchanshengdeshierbudanhuituijinninyuairenxiezuoxiufudexinkugongzuo，bingqiehaijiangxiezhuninfangzhizaijianglaizaiduzuochubutaihaodetiaoxuan。

(7)qingbiechugui。diercijiyubizaicijiyushaodeduo。

2、防止伤口撒盐

 (1)qingjilao，zhishihuoxudeairenburongyimingquetichumengpian，zheibingbuyiweizhetamenchixusisuo。tamenjianghuimeiyoutanjita，youyutamenjuedewuruhenankan，huoxuduita/taganlenaxie，huoshidanyou，nihuifahuo。

(2)fangzhijiguanliantishengfujiadegongzuoyali，youqichuguibeifajuehoudejigexingqinei。

 (3)fangzhijiangnidepenyouhuozhangfufangdaonideairenyanqian，huashijianyunixiyinzhudexingbiedepenyouhuopengyouxiangchu，pingjiabierendeyouhuoli，huozaipanbianhoudejigexingqineichanshengxindeguanlian。zheizhongjianghuihuishangkousayan。

 (4)mingzhiditiaoxuannidezuozhan。qingjilao，rujinweibishixuanzeyixiehuatitaolundeneishihou，feichangshizheixieyuyinsibaohuhezhanjuxiangguandehuatitaolun。dajiazaoyibianhualetamenduizheiyiguanlianhequanqiudeguishuganhexinlaigan，bingqiezheileiduiwaikaifanghelejiekeyifanhuizheiyidianer，erbingbushikangzhenghezhengzhi。

 (5)bubijinideairenhaiyoujihuisisuo“jiaruninengjingchangaoye，erqiepeinimengpianwodenanrenyikuaierzuoquanbushier，neimanihaikeyiduiwomenzuoyiyangdeshier。”