婚姻出轨要原谅吗：男人出轨要不要离婚

 zhongguochuguilvzhizengbujian， ☞chugui xianxiangyuelaiyuepubian，zheizhendeshinenghenrongyijieshoudeshiqingma?hunyinchuguiyaoyuanliangma?nanrenchuguiyaobuyaolihun?

一、婚姻出轨要原谅吗：男人出轨要不要离婚

1.观查你的念头

 zhongguochuguilvzhizengbujian，hunyinchuguiyaoyuanliangma?ruguoniqinshenjinglitongchushi，nijianghuihuichajuezaixiang，“zheizhongjiuburongyixiaotui”huo“wonanyirenshouzheiyidianer。”ruguoniyouzheizhongniantoushi，ninengrangzishenganshousuizhezheizhongniantoudexintaixianxiang。

 lirujuedebuhaoduinizishen，nanshou，naonuhuohaipa。xunlianzaicichengxubianxienideniantou，bingfajuenidexintaiyegangkaishigenggai。

 ruguonishenxianxiaochendeniantoushi，xiangxiangbuyiyangdeniantoulaitidaita。erbingbushisisuo，“wojiushizheibanqican”，juede，“womeiridouhuigaijin。”erbingbushisisuo，“tongchushinanyirenshoude”，xiangxiang，“wonengjiejuezheileitongchubingjiangwodejizhongzhuyilijizhonghuazaibiedediqu。”zaoyuqingganweijimianlinfenshou?

2.挑选不吃苦

 tongkushizheizhongyingyongchangjingzhuiyiyiwang，zhizebierenhuogaosutazishennihentongchudexintaizhuangtai。qingjilao，tongchushixiangduixingde，erqieyingyongchangjingganqingganshou，erbingbushiwulixueziranhuanjing。jinguannibukeyitiaoxuanganshouwutengdeyishizhuxing，danninengtiaoxuanruheyingduitongteng。

 erbingbushisisuo，“shiwozuicaogaodeyunshi”，shuo，“yemeiyoutiaoxuanzheiyi，danwonengjienazheiyangdeshiqing，erbingbushijizijijuedebuhao。”

 jianlizheizhongxunlianhuodianli，rangninxunlianbutongchu。ninengsuishisuiditiaoxuan1gekoutouyulaiduizishenjiangchufumianxinxideniantou，liru“wotiaoxuandafurentidejuedeerwuxuchiku”。

 zhongguochuguilvzhizengbujian，hunyinchuguiyaoyuanliangma? renmenjuedaduoshushijiandoujuedenenggou chengshoutongchu，yinciweizijishijianrongruzheileixindexintaizhuangtai。yaoguanniandaonidexintaizhuangtaijianghuiburongyizaiyiyejiangenggai，bingqiejianghuiyoujiriniyaojizijijuedeshangxin。

3.要开朗

 jijisikaonenggou xiezhuninguoshanghaorizigengxingfukuaile，gengwugongzuoyalideyishizhuxing。erbingbushiguanxinrichangshenghuodefumianxinxiyaosu，zhishizhiliyuquanbujijizhudongdeshier。zhiliyunindekangfuzhiliao，ninyijinghuodedejijizhudongchengxiao，jiqininsuojienadeyihu。

 bubishenxianliangjihuadeluojisiweizhong，huoshibashiershizuo“yiqieanhao”huo“renhedoubutaihao”。dangnijizijidetongchuhuozuochubuzhengquedejueceerzeguaizishen，qingjilaohenduoyaosuhuiweihaimeiyijieguo。rangzishenjiangchuquanbucengmian。

4.致力于开心

nanrenchuguiyaobuyaolihun?

 xingfukuailechangyouzaisuoshishang，huoshiruguoni“manxialaiwenyiwenmeigui。”ruguonidejingshenshizhixiaochenshi，zaisuoshishangxiangshoukuaile：laiyuanyupenyoudehaokanwenben，wennuanshufudemaotanbaonangzaijiazhong，huotianmeidemaoxiangyizaijiazhong。

 zuomouxiedailainikaixindeshier，rushangse，meishuhuihua，wudaohuoyunidegouwanle。ruguonigangkaishijuedexiaochenshi，jibianjinjinhezheyizhancha，haikeyicongyemouxiedailainiyukuaideshier。

5.笑容

 nilejiexiaorongyoujinengtishengnidexintaima?genjuxiaorong，ninenggangkaishitishengyouyuegan，rutongxingfukuailehuijinixiaorongxiangtong。jibianniyoutongkugan，juedefahuohuozaodongbuan，haiyaozailianbuwailuweixiao，kanyixianishibushigangkaishiyibuyiyangdefangfaganshoutongtenghuofumianqingxu。

yuxiaorongyouguandejuedelianluoqilai，gangkaishitihuidaoxingfukuailedechongjixing。

6.与盆友保持联络

 bubizaibixudeneishihouguliwuyuanzishen，yupenyoulianluo!rangxingfudenvrendaziranweichijijizhudongdexintai。tiaoxuanyuqingqingsongsongxiaoderen，changchangxiaorong，jiqizhoubianderenliaoxiaolianghaoderenhuandusuiyue。

 nanrenchuguiyaobuyaolihun?jiarunishiguliwuyuande，yaoguanniandaoguliwuyuanhuizaochengqingdutongku。yubierenchupengshijiankangshenghuofangshideguanjiangoucheng。