男朋友出轨了如何处理

　　nanpengyouchuguileruhechuli?nixuyaodongderuheziwodiaojiehezhiyu。womenkeyitongguojianshenyundong、yueduwenzhang、lvyoudengfangshilaifensanzhuyili，shizijiyijingcongtongkulizouchulai。ruguoxiwanggentajinyibufazhanguanlian，neiyangnixuyaogentajinxinggoutongjiaoliu。

　　一、理性分析

　　zuixian，nixuyaolizhidipouxizheigewenti。nijiuyinggainongqingchutachuguideyuanyinbeijing。zheigewentikenengshiyinweilianggerenzhijiancunzaideyixiewentieryinqide。huozhetagerendenanti。buguanshinayizhongzhuangkuang，nidouxuyaozhangwotaxinzhongdezhenzhengxiangfaheganshou。

　　二、交流与沟通

　　nixuyaogaozhitanideganshouhexiangfa，tongshihaiyaozhidaotadexiangfaheganshou。yongzheizhongfangshi，dajiakeyiyitongchuliwenti，zaicigoujianqibicizhijianzhijiandexinren。

　　三、考虑到分手

　　ruguogandaozheigewentinanyijiejue，huozheshiniyijingshiquduitadexinren，neimenikenengyinggaikaolvfenshou。zheibingbushiyigerongyideshiqingqueding，keshinixuyaokaolvdaozishendeliyiyuxingfu。

　　四、求助

　　nibingbuyidingyigerenmianduizheigewenti。keyixunzhaoqinren、pengyouhuozhezhuanyerenshidezhichiheguli。tamennenggouweinintigongzhichihejutizhidao，shininenggougenghaodianranduguokunnan。

　　五、自我调节

　　dangwomendenanpengyouchuguishi，nidexinqinghenrongyishoudaojidayingxiang。

　　nanpengyouchuguileruhechuli?zaiduidainanpengyouchuguiwentishi，nixuyaobaochilixinghelixing。nixuyaokaolvdaozishendeliyiyuxingfu，tongshihaixuyaokaolvdaotadexiangfaheganshou。genjugoutongjiaoliuheqiuzhu，ninengrangzijinenggougenghaodianranduguokunnan。