40岁已婚男人的外遇心态，你都需要知道哪几点。

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 nei40suiyihunnanrendewaiyuxintai？shouxiantamenbuhuipaoqixianzaidelaopo，danshizijiyouxiangzhaoyigenianqingpiaoliangdenvren，zheijiushitamenzuipubiandexintai。danshiyouyutiaojiandexianzhi，youderenkenengzuobudao，danshinengzuodaoderendouhuixiangfangshefaquzuozheijianshi。

一、40岁已婚男人的外遇心态之一搞暧昧

 40suiyihunnanwaiyudexinlizongshibumanzuxianzhuang，zongshixianggaoaimei，zongyougebuanfendexin。40suiyihunnanrenwaiyuxintaishi，wulunshitamendeshehuijingyan，shenghuodefengfujingyan，qingrenzaiduiyuyigezheiyangdenanren，zhibuguoshiyigegongju，bukenengzhenzhengdeaitade。ruguozhenzhengdeaitadehua，jiubuhuishiqingrenle，neiyinggaishizhengzongdeqizi。keshiyouxierenjiuxihuanzuobierendeqingren，zheidoushiweishenme？shiyizhongshenmeyangqiyidexintai？

 zhishiweilezhaodaoyigetamenkeyizanshiqishendechangsuo，haishizhishiweileneigenanrendeqian？haishiweilezijixianzaisuoweide“airen”。budongzheigea。danyouyijianshiwoshiqingchude，zuobierendeqingrenshihenkebeideyijianshi，meitiandoubei“yang”zai“longzi”li，zheiyangzijiushikuailema？youderenshuo，rendoushichuleqinqing，youqingheaiqingzhiwai，dexingfujiushiyongyouziyou，keshizuoweibierendeqingren，youleziyouma？

二、心态差异

 40suiyihunnanrenwaiyuxintaizhier，shixintaichayi。40suidenanrendoushiyoulehendabianhua。tamenbiaomianshangzuixuyaodezhishishiyeshangdechenggongheshehuiderenke。yinweizheigeshouxianhuidaijilezijijiaoaohezixin，manzuzijideneixindexurong。tamen40suizhihoudedaduojiaojishouduangengjiayuanrun，xinggejiuhuibiandechenwen、zixinhecongrong，xuehuilehaodebaorong，chengrenleyiqiedoushihuiyoudingshu，nenggouzirandiduidaixuduoshiqing，duidaishijieshangderenheshiqingdougengjiaxianshile。

 40suiyihunnanwaiyudexinlidenvren，buyidingjiushinimendehunyinbuxingfuhuoshitaiaizheigewaiyunvren。dangyigenanrenruguozaitadehunwaibiaodaaiqingshi，xinlijiuzhishixiangzhanyouzheigenvren，tajiubuhuifeichangyouzhidixiangdaoyaohetajiehun，tajiushijuedezijilaopobucuo。