情感生活里的男人出轨欲望从哪里来？

 henduorendourenweiaiqinghehunyindejiqingshiyoubaozhiqide，yiwangzaihonghonglieliedeganqing，suizheshijiandetuiyi，huibiandepingdanrushui。erzheizhongpingdanrushui，huirangnanrenrenbuzhuxianruduibanlvdeyanjuanqi、duihunyindepilaoqi，shenzhichanshengchuguideniantou。qishiqingganshenghuoli，nanrenzoushangchuguidedaolu，buwaihuyixiawudayuanyin。

一、情感生活里的男人出轨欲望从哪里来？

1、寻找恋爱激情

 zheizhongnanrenkenengduobanjuedezijihunyinlideganqingshenghuoshibuxingde，yeyoukenengshibiedexintai。tayebingbushiduiwaiyuduixiangmeiyouyidianganqing，tayeshishixiangzheta，zaijialiyechangchangzhendeyintaerduiqizixinbuzaiyan。tahuiduizheigenvrenshuo：“woyishengzhongzuiailianggenvren，yigeshini，lingyigeshiwoma。”erbaqizipaichuzaiwai。zheizhengshitayaodeganjue，taxiwangzaitawendingdeshenghuozhuangtaixia，zhaodaolianaishidejiqing。

2、waiyuduixiangdezhuiqiunengmanzutadexurong

 tayaojiajita，nanrendeyideshi，zheigenvrenhaizhenaita；haipadequeshi，huibeitachanshang。zheizhongguanxidejieshu，daduodoushicongqizitichurangtalihun，waiyuduixiangxiangjiajitadeneiyikekaishide。buguo，nanrenbuxianghenkuailikaiwaiyuduixiang，biancaiquyuhuizhanshu，zhidaoneigenvrenaobuzhule，buguhongyandanufashilikaita。wentishinvrendaduobuyuanchengrenzijiaicuoleren，dangnanrenyijuwencunhuawaijiajidieyulei，tayouqingyidiwanglexianqiandeshang，dianxingde“haoleshangbawangletong”，hulveleqingganshenghuolinanrenzhishizaixiangshoubeizhuiqiu、beiaidexurong。

3、xunzhaohunyinwaidejiqing

 dangyigenanrenzaihunwaibiaodaaiqingshi，xinlizhixiangzhanyouzheigenvren，tabuhuiyouzhidixiangdaoyaohetajiehun，tajuedezijilaopobucuo。ernvrenzaibiaodaaiqingshiwangwangchongjingdejiushiyiduanwanmeidehunyin。liangzhongbutongdexintai，gouchenglenanrenhenvrenzaihunwailianshidejudaxintaichayi。yigenanrenzaijinglilehunyindexinxianqihoubiankaishichunchunyudongxiangchugui。danjiatingduitalaishuo，shigeanquandegangwan。suiranzaibuduanxunmizhetasuochongjingdejiqing，danguziliqueshiyimumuhuangsedechaqu。

4、chengshunanrendemeilirangtabeiganzihao

 tamenshenshangyouzhechengshunanrendemeili，beishouqizidexinshangyangmu，zheizhongzhuangtairangtamendejiaoaohezixinxintaibuduanzisheng，tabuhuiquneizhongxiasanlandedifang，neiyangjibuanquanyouxiaofeibuqi，zhaoyigeanquanyoubuhuaqiandenvren，zhixuchuanyijian“aiqing”waiyi，fengfudeganqingshenghuojiudedaolechongshi，shengliwentiyoujiejuedeyourenyouyu。

5、只恋爱不结婚

 qingganshenghuolitabuxiangyaohunyin，jiuhuizhaojiekouyuwaiyuduixiangfenshou。zheizhongshihou，tayijinghenhouhuiheneigenvrenbaguanxifazhandetaishen，nongdezijipiyubenming。tacishikaolvdeshicaiqushenmefangshilejiezheizhongguanxi，shiduifangdengbuleyizoulezhi，huoxunvrenhaijuededuibuqita，buguanzenyangqianwanbunengyingxiangtadeshiyehejiating。zainvrenzuochujuedingxiahenxinyaolikaitadeshihou，tayouhuiliuzhehunzhuodeleishuotaxinyisui，gezhongbiaobai，xinshidandan。

 yibanrelianzhongdehunwaiqingjibenshangdounengchanshengzheiyangdezuoyong，tahuirangyigerenwufabaochizhengchangshenghuodexingtai，wufazhengchangdilvxinghunyinzeren，jishizaihaodeyanyuanzaizheizhongshensiyoulidelianaizhuangtaixiadoukenenghuichuxianpilou。