发现男人出轨时该怎么做：面对出轨的男人要做什么

 duinanshieryan，yiban shifuqixingshenghuo - fuqixingshenghuoyueda，tamenyueduoyoujianghuiwaiyu。zhenduinvshieryan，daliangdeshiguanliandaotadeguanlian; ruguoyigenvrenduitadehunyinbulingrenmanyi，tadewaiyugailvshitade2.6bei。faxiannanrenchuguishigaizenmezuo?mianduichuguidenanrenyaozuoshenme?

一、发现男人出轨时该怎么做：面对出轨的男人要做什么

faxiannanrenchuguishigaizenmezuo?mianduichuguidenanrenyaozuoshenme?“laogonghenkuangzao。”

 “congwohelaogongwanhunneiyitianqi，nizhidaomatashiyigebuzhengque，”50suidequeyanashidandunshuo。“takuangzao，caozongbingqidaiwocituigongzuozhong，weitaanju。” zaiwanhun1nianduodeshijianli，tagangkaishiyuyigehetayikuaiergongzuozhongdenanshengyouyitui。

 “yemeiyouxiangxiangwoshile，danyuzheixieyaowoliaoxiaolianghaoderendaoyikuaier，yaowopengfudaxiaobingzhongshiwo，youyujiamen - bingbushitayuanyiwodenanren，zheiyaowodakaiyanjie，”tashuo。“zheijianshiqingxiezhuwozhaodaozishen，bingxiangwozhengshiwonengguodanduyuwolaogongdeyishizhuxing。zheiyeyaowoyoudanliangguidingliyi。ershiwunianhou，wojiageleshanliangderen。womenairanglingyifanggaoxing，zhongjiububichangshigenggailingyifangdaodishishei，“tashuo。

 ninengxuedenaxie：jinguancongzheijianshiqingzhongdedaodezixinxinjianghuijitachanshenglejiejueqianjiaguanlianxuyaodehuomiao，niuyueshishehuixuejiaboshiyanjiushengshuo，dangnichuzailingnveguanlianzhong，mengpianbingbushijiejuetadefangfa。zuixiancongkexinlaidepenyou，qinren，kangfushihuozhuduoquanguoziyuanzhonghuodexiezhu。

“renmengangkaishixianghuzhijianyuanqi。”

 28sui，6nianqianhetadelaogongwanhunshi，tamendoujibukenaiyaoshengxiaohai，danzaiwanhunneiyitianyihou，tademouxieshierchuxianlegaibian。

 tashuo。tadelaogongyingenggaixiangfaerpengshang，binggangkaishiyuanqita。tashuo：“renmengangkaishilexuduozuozhan，wofanganta，youyuwoyizhidouzaihuxiangshanghai。” “youyiriyeli，wofaxianletachangshicongbiyuntaoshanghuaxia，zheijibenshangshirenmenfuqixingshenghuodejieshu。” zuihou，qianqueqinmiwujianganzaochengvanessawaiyu。“wohaizaizaiwangshanglejieleziji，renmenyouhuile1nian，”tashuo。“dangnilaogongzhuazhuwoshi，tagaoyiduanluo。”

 fannishahetadelaogongyuanyifenliheyikuaierxunzhaoyizhi，erqiekeyizhengjiutamendehunyin。“woxuededejiaodajingyanjiaoxunshi，jiaruduizishendehunyinbulingrenmanyi，wolaogongdeyiwuzhineng50%。[youhunhouchugui]yaowoyoudanliangzaihunyinzhongguidingwoyaodewupin，”tashuo。

 faxiannanrenchuguishigaizenmezuo?mianduichuguidenanrenyaozuoshenme?jinguantalaogongdebuhuigaijianghuilingrenchijing，danzheileiguanlianzhongmeiyouhuodechulidenaonuzheiyikeguanshishiweizheijianshiqingzaojiulefuraodeturangceng，xierfumanboshiyanjiushengshuo。

 “jiashangquefaxinghunyinguanxi，meiyouwupinnenggouchuangjianguanlian，”tashuo，suiranzheijianshiqingxiezhuxuedelemouxieyoushiyongjiazhidejingyanjiaoxun，erqiezuihouzhengjiulezheileiguanlian，danboshiyanjiushengzhuzhonglegongbuchengxingoutongdezhongyaoxing。nianqingfufubaochilianluodeguanlian - zaizhixiqinshuqiyixunzhaohunyinyiwaidekuanweihuohunyinguanxiyiqian。

“wohenwuqu，yehenbugaoxing。”

 babalajisiboen35suishijiushishuomeiguomeng。tayutaaidelaogonghe2gexiaohaizhuzaiweisikangxingzhoudemaidixun，dantahenqican。“wolaogongshigehaoren，danwoxinliwuqu，”tashuo。“zaiwomendeshequli，wozongganjuezishenhaoxiangyigechangshizhuangzaiyigeyuandonglidezhengfangxinggangding。”

 neinian，tazainiuyuekaituoshichang，bingzaidiantilipengdaolejianadaxiaohuobaobo。“renmenyougejishilianjie。renmenhuhuanledashuzi，baochilianluo，woxianfeidaojianadakanta，tahuitaoliwo dexitongruanjian，”tashuo。“fanguolai，wozhuiruqingwang。” tabatasuolejiederenhe - tadeguxiang，tadelaogong，tadegongzuozhonghetadeguojia - jiaojilebaobozaijianadadeyishizhuxing。

 “woyuelaiyuewanqiang，dandu，xinxin，gengweifansu，”tashuo。“ neijiushi25nianyiqiandeshile，rujinwonengshuowodehunwaiqingshirenshenglutuzhongderenshengzhuanzhedian。jinri，baoboyuwowanhun，zaijianadayouzheyijianhongjiuzhuangyuan，niwozhijianyouwugehaizihe10gexiaosunzi。“

 faxiannanrenchuguishigaizenmezuo?mianduichuguidenanrenyaozuoshenme?dangxuduorenbeichushoushi，ebaoshizheizhongpubiandejuede，xierfumanboshiyanjiushengshuo。“naonujianghuihuishizijidefenbianyuelaiyueshifenqiangjing，”tashuo，zheijiushishuoweihetaducuyiqiejiejuewaiyudefuqixunzhaozixun。duilalieryanhaoyundeshi，tadeguanlianqinshenjinglileshuangxiangmengpian。“renmengenju14nianbandequanbukangzhengchuzhongdaodejiaodajingyanjiaoxunshi，renmenxianghuchongzu，”tashuo。