老公有外遇怎么办？怎么面对出轨的老公

 laogongyouwaiyu zenmeban？zenmemianduichuguidelaogong？laogongchugui，bujingerenxingweishangdaixuduoyuzhao，zaiyuyanshang，jianghuihuichuxiangoutongjiaoliushouzudezhuangkuang。

别着急着定论，想着难题出在哪儿

 renmenxiantaolunyixia1gejiaoweijiduanhuadeshili。zai《beijingqingnian》zheibudianshijuzhizhong，hedongdemamababa“yiku、ernao、sanguixia”dezuofakeyishuochongfenfahuidehanchanglinli。（laogongchuguizenmeban？

 yiner，fufuchangchangzhengchao，hedongxiangjiejuejiazhongdefenpei，zishenzaicizouyiciqingchunnianshao。piekaibiede，zhishitanfuqiguanxi，zheizhongzuofaduijiazhongdecuihuinenggoushuochengzhimingxingde。

 jiangdaolijiangdusai，youquefagoutongjiaoliu，qianquezongtijiazhongdeyishi，zhishiyizishendejiazhiquxiangquweihaitarendequshe。weijixiangruyi，biancaiyongzheilei“dute”dezuofapobudeyirangtarenzuochutuoxie。

让相互把话讲完，十分关键

 zhangfuchugui，bujingerenxingweishangdaixuduoyuzhao，zaiyuyanshang，jianghuihuichuxiangoutongjiaoliushouzudezhuangkuang。renmennenggoulaihaohaodifenxiyixiaxiazhengchaodeyouyin：keyiyiqideliangren，dadecengmianfeichangrongyidachengxieyi，danxuduoxiweidejieduan，huanshibutongde。dangzheileiyaoqiumeiyouchaoguojunheng，doushigenjuxiangxianghutanlulaikaizhanbiaoshu。

 shubuzhi，pingxinjingqidezhuangkuangxia，feichangrongyibeilingyifangsuohulve。danglingyifangtanjiyixieyaoqiuermeiyouhuodelingyifangdedafuyugaoduzhongshishi，xintaishangdeweimanhuimanmandileiji，zuihouzaochengzhengchaodezhuangkuangchansheng。nenggoukande，zheishizheizhonggoutongjiaoliushouzusuoyanbiandejieguo。danshi，zhengchaozuoweizheizhongjiaoliuyugoutongdefangfa，xiangduieryanshirangrenbutaihaojienade。

这一全过程中，因为心态的能量核心态性，相互在沒有把话讲彻底出去的那时候，反呛另一方，进而蔓延到到情感，彼此越来越远，最后造成另一方外遇。应对丈夫的外遇，人们能够和他做一回深谈。 （老公有外遇怎么办？

 naxieneirongmeiyouteshudepianxiang，nenggoushitadeyuanyan，huoshichize，huoshibiaoluxinlidezhenzhengniantou。zheixiezheizhong，renmenyaotingtabahuashuowan，yaolingting，yaoxixin，congzheidangzhongtansuoxianghuxinlideniantou，baozhengzhijizhibi。

 zhangfudewaiyu，zaixianrujinneiyangdeshehuifazhan，nenggoushuochengsikongjianguanle。danxuduorenyiranhuijuederulindadi，shouzuwucuo。wojuede，zenyangyingduizhangfudewaiyu，zuixianrenmenyaofenxishijidenantichuzailenacengmian。

 ranhouquchuangjiangoutongjiaoliudefangshi，biciyichengxiangdaibugong，rangxianghubahuajiangwan，baozhengxixinlingting。zuizhong，yijushierdetexing，sikaozishen，quelixinliyuanyihuodedejieguo，zuochugengweichenwen、qiadangdejuece