老公出轨我该怎么办

 hunhoushenghuozhong，zongyouneiyangneibandebushunxin。zhenduinvxingeryan，haipadeshinanxingchuxianhunhouchugui。  jiaruniyaowenzhangfuchuguiwogaizenmezuo，nijiukeyikanxiabianba。

一、妥当分配自身的心态

 zhangfuchuguigaizenmeban？zhangfuzaoyiyongyouhunhouchugui，tongchangzhuangkuangxia，laopodoushichuxianlirunaonu，yuanhen，wubifahuo，wuru，biequdexiaojiqingxuzhong。congxintaizhuangtaideshijiaokanlai，chuxianzheileixintaishizaiyiqiezhengchangdanshidele。danshi，zaiyingduilaogongchuguiledezheileidutezhuangkuangxia，renmenxuxianxuehaoguanlizijidezheizhongxiaojiqingxu。zaishehuixintaixueshang，yougexintaiqianyidefangshi ，neibianshizhaomouxienenggouyoujinijizhongzhuyilideshierquzuo，linshixianbazheizhongbugaoxingdeshierpaozainaohou。denglizhiguoduanshijian，nenggoulixinglumianduilaogongchuguiledeshierhouzaikaizhanshensishulv。

二、分配深思熟虑的時间

 zhangfuchuguilezenmeban？shangbianshuolaidao，dengzhenidewendingqingxule，goulixinglehou，zaigangkaishisisuoyuyongyouhunhouchuguidezhangfudehunlianwenti。zheiyizhouqishijiantongchangshi3geyue。anshehuixintaixueshangeryan，rendaopengdaodashijiandeneishihou，tebieshizaibiruqingganwentideneishihou，bukeyizai3geyueneizuochujuece，youyu3geyueshirendeneixinzhibingqi。yiner，zheiyihuanjie，ninenggouyuenidepengyouqingtuzishendexinlitongchu，haikeyiliruxiesimidexitongrizhi，huoshishinazhangfudemouxiewupinlaipaiqi。nikeyitiaoxuanbiruzouniangjiazhuxierizi，huoshishichulaidujialvyousansanbu。haijide，zheiyiduanshijianmeiyoubixushikedianjizhelaogongwaiyuzheijianshiqing。xianlinshirangzishendexintaishifangchu，huodehelidezhibinghouzaizuochujuece。

三、思索之后的义务决策

 yiwushejidaodewupinxuduo，laogongwaiyu，nenggoubuyizheiyijiazhonghuoshishixiaohaichengdan，danshinizuowei1gelaopo，yimingmuqin，haiyaoweijiazhonghexiaohaichengdan。huoxu，buguannizuochunaxiejuece，quanshiqiadangde。erdashishang，zheiyineishihou，niyezhiyouyouerzhongtiaoxuan。zheizhongjiushishuoliyi。dangnihuanshinanyishihuailaogongchuguilezheijianshiqing，jiububicouhezishenqujiena，youyuzaihunyinshenghuozhong，nishicanjiazhe，niyeshizhipeiquanbiaoshunizishendezhenzhengniantou，bingbingbuyidingdeshi，douyoutazijilaishangxia。yinci，zheiyineishihou，woyeyongnihunyinshenghuoshouyunidezhipeiquanlaitiaoxuanzishendeshenghuoxiguanhehunyinshenghuoqingkuangle。dierleijiushishuozaiciweichihunyin，zhangfuchuxianhunhouchuguile，nijienalelaogongchuguilezheijianshiqing，neimanikeyiduinijianglaidehunyinshenghuozuochujiaodadetiaozhanle，zhongjiurenjianghuihuilianxufancuowu。erzheiyineishihou，zhenghaodoushirangni1gesikaosisuodejiyu，zhangfuzenmehuihunhouchugui，shizishennaerzuodebuzuhaohuanshizenyang。zhei，congmouyishijiaoeryan，wojuededoushiduidajiadehunyinshenghuoyouyidingdexiezhu。

四、选准机会与丈夫交涉

 zhangfuchuguigaizenmeban？zhenduinanshengeryan，yehuiyougeshigeyangdeyuanyinlaipianlaopo，yinci，dengzhenisuoshusanbudoukaolvdaoqingxilehou，jiushishuoyuzhangfujiaoshedeneishihoule，zheiyineishihou，tajiaruhaiyouhuanghua，nihaikeyizhuyichuochuan。shijiandetiaoxuan，tiyitiaoxuanzaiyeli，youyudabaitiandeneishihou，rendexintaiheguanniandouchuyuhuoyueqi，feichangrongyibaofa。dizhijinliangbuyaotiaoxuanzaijiazhong，youyuzaijiazhong，feichangrongyitanbuhedeneishihou，jiuyoukuyounao，rangxintaibenkui。yinci，zaiyelideneishihou，xuan1geqingjingdediqu，biruchabagennanpengyouhaohaodizuozhelai，pingxinjingqidibashierjiangkaiguo，binggaozhilingyifangnidezhenzhengniantouhejuece。

五、对两个人的婚姻情况做准备

 qingbieyixindishuozhangfuchuguiwogaizenmezuole，xianxianghaoduihunyinshenghuodejiejue。dangnidejueceshiliyi，erlingyifangyeyuanyi，neidaziranjiuzhaobangqile，liaohaoquanbudeliyishierjiusan。dangnidejueceshiliyi，erlingyifangbuyuanyi，neimenizhinengtiaoxuanzoufalvfaguidechengxuliucheng。dangnidejueceshiweichihunyin，xiangxin，tayehuitiaoxuanzaiciweichihunyinde，zhongjiudajiayoujiazhong，youxiaohai，youguoduodeguanianhezhiyue，butaikenengneimasuibianlikainiquhedisanzheshenghuode。neimazheiyineishihou，dajiahaiyaohaohaodixiangzhe，jixuweichixianghudehunyinshenghuo，bicibixuzuoshenmexianghudeqinfen，lairanghunyinshenghuozaicifanhuixingfudeluguishang。

六、妥当合理解决第三者

 zhangfuchuguilezenmeban？zaizheiyineishihou，niyunidezhangfujiarudoutiaoxuanlezaiciweichihunyindehua，neizhangfudoushiyouhuiyide，chenzheiyineishihou，haiyaotanbai，qujiejuehaoyudisanzhedeguanlian，qingbieyouyouyuyu，buranshierhuiyuelaiyuegengbubian。zheiyineishihou，xianbubisipolianquchulidisanzhe，youyudangnicanjiajinquhou，shierhuibiandeyuelaiyuefanza，gengweicuoluan。nidezhangfuwangwangwaiyuyouhunhouchugui，jianghuijiushishuoyouyuniyizhizaimouyijieduanshangchuxianlenanti，erzheishidangnizaicanjiadaojiejuedisanzhedeshiershangdehua，neizhiyoubatagengxiangdisanzhedeshenpangtui。yinci，shidefangshi ，jiushishuogaozhizhangfu，woganquexin，worangnichongzudexinlai，woshiyongni，worangnichongyudeshijianqujiejueyudisanzhedeguanlian，neiyang，zhangfuhuizailiangzhideducuxiabanwanzheijianshiqingde。jiaruzhangfubutaihaosipolian，keyikenqiunixianghuyingduideneishihou，zheishihou，nicaiheshicanjiakaizhan。