男人出轨我们该怎么办？

 laogongyouwaiyu zenmeban?hunhouchuguibingbushilijihuihuaihunyinshenghuo，huihuaideshiliangrenzhongjiandexinlaiguanlian。erxinlaiguanlianyeshihunyinshenghuodegenji，meilexinlaizheiyigenji，hunyinshenghuoyaoxiangzouxialaizhenshikunnanzhongzhong。

 zenyangfujianlaogongwaiyuhoufufudexinlaiguanlian，bixuliangrendegongtongfendouyiqiyebixushijian。zaihunhouchuguidebuyiyanghuanjie，fujianxinlaidemeirirenwuhezongtimubiaodoushibuyiyangde，renmenyiqiqukanxia。

 yi、hunhouchuguibeichuochuanhoudebaofengyuqi jiaruyong1geshuzhoubiaodaliangrenxianghuguanxi，hengzhoushishijian，zongzhoushixinlaiyuaidehua，neimazaiganglejielingyifangwaiyudeneishihoujiushishuoqinggandeguanzhudujiangzhididiandeneishihou。laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?fajuelingyifangwaiyuhou，tongku、zhengchao、naoliyizheizhongquanshiyiqiezhengchangdezhuangkuang，keshibingbukeyichulidajiazhongjiandenanti。

 xiaotishi：jijichengken zuixian，wubizaibicilingjulidezhuangkuangxia“hepingfenshou”(chengken)，jiranshiyizhici，biciyingdangchengkenzishendetihui，bubiwangtumanbaozishenlejiedekeguanshishi。

 jiaruta/tayiranaini，jiuhuixiangniyichengxiangdaishierdeqimo。qingbubiyayigannidexintai，baneishihoudetihuibiaoxianchulai。shishishangnizhenshiyingdangguanniandaodeshizenmehuichanshengneiyangdeshi。pingjingxialai，yexunifajuezhenshidenantishichuzaidajiazhongjian。

 er、guanlianguanjianqi zheixieshiqi，nizaoyigangkaishicongjidadezhenhanrenxinzhongqingxingguolai，keshilianggerenzhongjiandefengxizaoyichansheng，zheiyihuanjiedajiadeguanlianfeichangbijiaomingan，suiyi1gecijixing(qianyishishuodeyiduanhuahuo1gezishi)doujinishenjingxitongbengjin，bata/tadechuguixingweiyuqilianluo。

 xiaotishi：shikeguanzhuqingchugulv 1.bubiyizhibayijianshiguazaizuishang。 meiyoubixuchixufanfunizaoshoudesunhai，nigengyingdangliuyideshizenyangjitamen1getianbudejiyu。nanrenchuguizenmeban?zhuyiguanjiandian，shizhegenta/tazaiciyourentichupeng，ruqianshizhijinkou，loulouyao，neiyangdezishinenggourangbicimanmanzhaodaoqinmiwujiangan。

 2.jijibaogaozishendexingji zaizheilishiqi，caiyihedujidejuedexiangwuyuefenneiyichangyuxiangtongyinhunbusan。dajiayingdangyougexieyishu，zaidajiabukeyipengmiandeneishihouhaiyaobaochilianluo，nenggoujilingyifangfaxinxi、tongdianhuanaizhijitamenliuyanbanliuyan，yong1gelaopohuolaogongdeyuqiquguanzhuta/ta，erbingbushizhiyi。

 san、biaocengyouyiqi guanlianguanjianqidewanbibiaoshishifufulianggerenjuedexiangfanhuilemeichanshengwaiyuqian，dahuoeryikuaierningjingdiyishizhuxingzhe。keshizaizheishiyejinshibaochizhe“biaomiandeheping”，bicidexinrenganyuaideganjueyibunongyu。danzheiweichangbingbushizheijianhaoshier，chenzheiyijiyushiqixianghudexinlaiyu“aideganjue”。

 xiaotishi：weita/tazhibing 1.dujialvyou dujialvyoushishidezhibingzhuanyonggongju。zhaomeitianlibaitian，huoshiqingyihuijia，baxiaohaifangjinbabamamaneibian，laizheichangnandedelvyou，daodazhanyushijianbingbushiguanjian，guanjiandeshirangdajianengzaimoshengrenziranhuanjingzhong，yilingzheizhongxindezishiquyingduilingyifang，rangbicizhaodao“relianqi ”detianmeijuede。

 2.weita/tazuoxieshi bata/tadexindaihuiqu，ninengweilingyifangshaodazhuohaocaihuonenggouweilingyifangfentanjiawuhuo。nanrenchuguizenmeban?huanjuhuashuo，zaiweilingyifangnulidequanguocheng，doushidajiadeqinmiwujianganyidiudiufujiandequanguocheng。

 si、guanlianshoushuhuifuqi zairelianzhong，bicizaoyigangkaishizaicichuangjianqixinlaiheaideguanlian，keshirengranyaojingxingwuxingzhongdefengxichanshengdeweihai，zuoweikuanrongleta/tadeni。

 xiaotishi：qianshimoti zouchuquhou，qianwanbiezaitidaozheijianshiqing，suirannijianghuibutaizaihu，keshinagewuxingzhongdechuangkouhaihuiyintongde。liangrenhaohaodiliaoyiliao，shenpangshishenpangren。xuehaolejielingyifang，chukaizhixiqinshuzheiyirenwujiaose，nihaikeyishitadezhixin、zhiyi。zhinenghuxianglijiedeyouxiurencainengzhangqidiyikuaier。

 zongjie：hunhouchuguihoufujianxinlaitongchanghuipengdaoxuduonandian，jiarujijihunhouchuguidelingyifangbukenjijifuzeren，huozhehunyinshenghuozhongdebeihailingyifangjiyubalingyifangdangzuoshiqianguzuiren，bukencongshouhairenderenwujiaoselizouchuqu。zheizhongqingkuangyuanyifujianxinlaijiushishuobutaikenengde。 yaojianxinrenchangyoufancuowudeneishihou，jirantiaoxuanleta/tazuoweiniderenshengdaoluairen，woyeyingdangnenggouyibaorongdexinkandaita，zaicishihuixinlaiyuaicaiyoujianghui。