老公有外遇怎么办，老婆的聪慧作法

 zhangfuyouwaiyu zenmeban?dangfajuelaogongchuguile，conghuidelaopohuiruhezuo?xuduorenbahunyinshenghuoxingrongchengyuanqiang，waibianderenyaojinlai，libianderenyaochuqu。dangfajuelaogongwaiyushi，jiuhaoxiangyuanqiangcunyousunhuai，yichongzuyitoujiaocaichuqu。

 zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?jiarunvxingxiangwanhuilaogong，quxiufucunyoudesunhuai，jiudexiandiaojiehaozishendexintaizhuangtai，nenggoumudexingqujiejuelaogongwaiyuzheijianshiqing。

1- 操纵好心态

 dangfajuelaogongwaiyuhou，nvxingjianghuihuiwufakongzhizishendexintai，tongchanghuizaiyuwangxiafancuowu，naizhizaixintaizhuangtaishangchaimozishen。laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?naonuxuanxie，youshangbujizheibingbushijiejuekunnandefangshi，naizhihuirangnantigengbijiaoyanzhong，jiusuannanshenghuirangbu，neidoushilinshide，zhihoujianghuihuidecunjinchi。

2- 别损害自身

 dabufennvxingzaiyingduizheizhongshiqingshi，feichangrongyizuochuchunshi，danrenmenyaogaoqingchu，zheishihouzuochusunhaizishendeshierzongshizishenchengdan，naizhituoleilejiaren，jiusuancicinikeyiwanhuizhuzhangfu，neiyejianghuijinjinyibianxingmingrangbu，xinligengweiganjuelikainishiqiadangde。

3- 不增加苦恼

 zhangfuchuguiyichengkeguanshishi，zaihaodedachaodanaoyemeishenmeyong。youyudachaodanaozongshiweizijihebierentishengdaliangdekunao，rangzishendexingengweidexinfan，erbukeyijingxiaxinlaikeguanhequanfangweideduidaizheiyinanti，zongshitishengqianjiadexintai，nenggougenjudujialvyou,xingquaihaobiedefangfalaixuanxiexintai。

4- 不欲望离异

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?dangnvxingfajuenanrenyouwaiyushi，kaolvdaodetongchanghuimingquetichuliyi。yixienvxingbushiqidailiyi，zhixiangjieyouneiyangdehualaicijixingnansheng，xiangrangqihuiguotou，dantongchanggaoshangzuizhongquanshiyiliyimowei，zhuihuimoji。

5- 理智下开展

 bixuyaorangzishenzailizhideqingkuangxiakaizhan，tiaochulaizishen，neiyangburongyiguoduqingxubuwending，biciyehuiyougebucuodehuihua，shunlikaizhanwanliu，buxushiergengweiebian。

 hunyinshenghuozuijichudeshixinlai，chanshenglehunhouchuguideguohou，zhangfuqueshizhongguijiazhong，nikeyidiaojiehaoqingkuangma?zheiyejiushiniyingdangkaolvdaodenanti。