假如丈夫有外遇该怎么办?

 zhangfuyouwaiyu zenmeban? zhangfuyouwaiyu，duimei1gelaopoeryan，jingxiaxinlaijueduishizheijiandashi。ruguoniqueshitaoyanlingyifang，doumeiyoudianjizhegenlingyifangzhangqidiyishizhuxingxialai。jiaruzhangfuyouwaiyugaizenmeban?dangninulizuodaochushibujing，bixubuju

 zhangfuyouwaiyu，duimei1gelaopoeryan，jingxiaxinlaijueduishizheijiandashi。ruguoniqueshitaoyanlingyifang，doumeiyoudianjizhegenlingyifangzhangqidiyishizhuxingxialai。zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?jiaruzhangfuyouwaiyugaizenmeban?

 dangninulizuodaochushibujing，bixubujushifendacaihao。zheibingbushizuozhan，buchaobunao，zhongrenjiezhibuqiang，jiushinidezhongguijiushinide，bingbushinideqiangliudoumeiyouyong。jiaruniyaokaikuoshiyedewuchang，woyehuilejiedachaodanaonanyijiejueyiqienanti，bubiyutazhengzhi，shifangkaishou。

1.看一下对方，看一下另一方发生什么事

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?zhangfuyouwaiyu，xuduoneishihoujianghuiyouyutapengdaole1getameifajiejuedejiongjing，yaolejiebingfeimeinanrenmeiyouhuihenzhiqingde。jiarutapengdaolemeifagennigongxiangdeshier，neimatajiuhuiyuqitarengongxiang，neimatajiangfeichangrongyichunanti。

 ruguochuxiannanti，huoxutabuxiaodezenyangwanbi。dangniganyubingchuanchutingdadexiangsheng，zheihuitahuigengweizaodongbuan。yinci，kanyixialingyifang，kanyixialingyifangyuanyiganshenme。zhongjiu，nibipotabibushangtazishenquchulidehao。

2.你务必了解不吵不闹点到为止

 huozhichuguilaogonghougaizenmeban?shizhexianxunzhao1gediqurangzishenpingjingxialai，lizhizirandiliqingnidejiatingwenti，jiqiniweilaiyounaxiefangan。dangnililehun，nikeyijienama?niyaoaitama?dangnixingmingzhongmeiyouta，nikeyijienama?

 dangniyiranaita，neimaniyingdangxuehaobuchaobunaodiandaoweizhi，xuehaojilingyifangyidianershijian，ranglingyifangjiandaoniduitadeguandian。jiarulingyifangxiangyaoyuenichengken，nijiujigeloutixia，dahuoerjiedahuanxi2。jiarulingyifangbuxiangyaoxiangnichengken，neimanihaiyaoxiangmeixiangkaolvdaozenyangyulingyifanggoutongjiaoliu。gaozhilingyifang，jiaruxiangfenli，zaiyebuhuiqiangjiayuzuzhi。

3.让另一方了解你也是1个客观的人

 zheileiyishizhuxingyuekeguanyueduoxingfukuaile，yuelixingyueduotongchu。youyulixinghuishinidesunhaijiangzhizuishao。renmenyizhiyunyongtamendegaoaolaixuanxietamenpengshangshideweimanhetongchu。

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?haowuyiwen，jiarubanitarenzuoweilajixiang，zuihouzheizhongfeiqiwuhuiweihaidaoni。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，nijianghuiqidaigengduiwaikaifang，pianxiangzuizhong，jilingyifangbixudeshijian，ranglingyifangjiejuezishendeshiwuguanli。jiarulingyifanghushita，neimaniwubizuoxiayijieduan。

 buchaobunaodiandaoweizhitabingbuyiweizhenibuzaiyi。zaidajiaderichangshenghuo，douhuiyouhenduonimeifaxiangqideshier。shenghuoburongyi，bubiyouyutarendebuzhengqueerchufazishen。

 duifangfanle1gebuzhengque，bingmeiyouyincijieshouxianshi。jiarunikeyilejiebuchaobunaodiandaoweizhi，nijiangzaihunyinshenghuozhongxunlianzishen。jiarunikeyicaozongnidexingzi，jianxinrenhedoushishunlikaizhan。hunyinshenghuozishen jiushishuozheizhongdiyu，meiyoujizhidehunyinshenghuo，weiyounigaoqingchuzheiyidianer，nicaihuigaoqingchu，renyirenjiunengbaochixingfukuaile，zhihuixingnenggouyouzhexingfukuaile。