fajue laogongchugui hou,meiyouhaoduogenvxingkeyilizhikandai。tamenturanzhijianbeitongchu、naonu、chouchu、tongku、bucuodengfuxingxintaichanshanglebaochiqingxingdedanao,yixiangqixuduorenyaohuihuaizishenkuxinjingyingdehunyinjiuhenbunenglikejingong,shubuzhigengshizheileipoqiedexintaizhuangtai,huizaochengnizuochuzhonggezhonggeyangbuzhengquedegerenxingwei,shibenlaibutaibijiaoyanzhongdehunhouchuguiyuelaiyuebunengwanhui。laogongchuguizenmeban?
一、接纳不上,又无计可施
laogongchuguizenmeban?jibianfajuelaogongchugui,dabufenlaopoyebushixiangyaowanbizishendehunyinde,danyingduizhangfuliyidexinxin,tongchangluanlezhenjiao,zishenbenzhibuqingchuzaban,zhinengxiangqinrenhewaibuxunqiubangzhu。
wojuede,neibuyuanyinshizhijieyuanyin,laogongwaiyuzheijianshiqingwuluntarenzenmejiang,zuihouhaixuzishenquyingdui。bingqie,qingguannanduanjiawuhuo,taiqujueyutarendejianyierqianquezishendekanfa,yebulinantidebenzhichuli。yinci,zuoshibuji,chenzhelengjingzhenjing,xianghaojiejuededuice,qinfenjiejueweiji,jiejuekunnansuanshijiaoweicongmingdexintai。
二、把小孩作为不离异的挡箭牌
neiweinvrenweilaogongdehunhouchuguihewuqingbeigantongchu,shuo“chibuxiaozheileishenghuole”:danyouzhuzhong:“yibiandaerzi,wobukeyihetaliyi。”shijishang,xuduonvrenzaiduichuguilaogongdeshiluozhong,doubaxiaohaizuoweiyigendaocao,zuoweibuliyidedangjianpai。tanbaishuo:zheiduixiaohaishijibuhelide!
xiaohaizhenshibixude,shixinzhijianquan,xingqingshenxinjiankang,nenglixingdiaita,jitamenchushi1gehexiewennuanjiatingfenweidebabamama。jiarubabamamahunyinpolie,weilebaobaobuliyi,danbabazhengribuhuijia,duixiaohaimeilibutan,mamalunluolaosaomanfu,ruanruoxiaojideyuanfu,zongshichongzhexiaohaidouyindixuanxiexinzhongdeyuanqi,huoshimailidiwumielaogong,zheileijiazhongduixiaohaidesunhaigengda。 huishixiaohaiduoyi,buzixin,duihongchentianmanshiluohewunai。
bingqie,xiaohaiyibeizidoujiangmeifajiejuebabamamashiyibiantameifaliyi,caishenghuodeneimetongchudexintaichuangshang。zheileineijiuganbujinweihaidaoxiaohaidexingqingheduihunyindexintai。haijiangshouhouhuichaimoxiaohaiyisheng,shihencankude。
三、盲目跟风向亲人寻求帮助
xuduolaopopingchanghegonggongpopoguanlianfeichanghao,huozhilaogongwaiyuhou,jiujibukenaixiangnannvshuangfangqinrenxunqiubangzhu,qidaiyikaoqinrendenenglianglazhangfuhuijia。jieguodabufenshibujinmeiyouchaoguoyugumudi,fandaojiandingbuyilenanshenglihunledexinxin。
hunyinshiliangrendeshier,danghunyinchanshenghuoshishi,shiliangrennengpingxinjingqidishangyizhechuli,bushangpobudeyi,jinliangbuyaodiyouqiuyufenbiedeqinren。bingqie,juecexiangqinrenxunqiubangzhuyiqian,shixianpouxiyixiaxia,qinrenzaizhixiqinshuxinzhongzhongyoumuyouquanweixing,shifoujuyouxiangduidezhimingdu。
qinrendeganyuzhiduizheixietingcongfumuquanweixing,fumuzaijingjishanghuoshizhenqingshangduitajubeizhenhanlidenanshengqigongxiao,zhenduidaliangdeyihunnanreneryan,tamentongchangbaqinggandangzuoshizishendesishi,buxiangyaoqinrenganyu,qinrenyixiangqingyuandeganyuzongshicuzhangtadeqingchunqipanni,tahuibaotiaorulei,beishuiyizhan。bingqie,hewoqinrenruguosikailelian,huibayuanhenheyuanhendaliangdizhuanjiadaolaopotouding。juyoudebuchangshideshijixiaoguo。
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