有感情洁癖怎么办？

 youganqingjiepishishenmeyisi?shizhirenshoubuleduifangyidiandianganqingbujie，bulunshentihaishijingshenshang。birunandejianbudenvdegenqitadenandezaiyiqi，nvdejianbudenandegenqitadenvdezaiyiqi。yidanchuxian“ganqingbujiele”zheizhongfeizhengchangzhuangtai，bianyinqiangliedeshiwangliuxiajudadexintaiyinying，wufaziba。

 jiepidequxiangsuiranshitianshengde，suirankaishishizhengzhuangbingbumingxian，danjiepizhehoutianbuduanzaizheigequxiangshangfazhan，jiuhuidaozhihoulaichuxianlengjiaomingxiandebingzheng。qishi，rengedoushiyouhenduobutongdequxiangzuheerchengde，xiaodeshihoutamendouchuyuxiangduijunhengdezhuangtai，zhishihoulaizaiyuhuanjingjiechuhoumanmanbeizhuomochulaide，zheishiyigexuanzeshiyingxingdewenti。

一、不去消灭，去弱化感情洁癖

 youganqingjiepishishenmeyisi？jiepizhezuidianxingdetedianjiushiguanyujujue，jujuewaijiederuqin，bingbuzhishibiaoxianzaiganqingshang，tamenzhizhongdehenduorenkenengyezaijujuezanghua，jujueyongsu，jujuezhangda，shenzhijujueshejiao。xianzaiwochangshiyiwodelizilaiyanjinzheizhongdiejujiashendebianhua，xianzaishenghuozhongdewoshihengupide，danshizaiwohaishiduchuzhongdeshihou，wobingbuneimejujueyurenjiaowang，meiyicibierenxianggenwozuopengyou，wodouxiguanxingdixuanzetuibi，yinweiduohuizijideshijieshizuishenglizuianquande，danshiwoxianzaiqingxirenzhidao，zaijuedingyubuyutajiaowangdeshunjian，qishiwobingbuxuyaoxiaohaohenduonengliangjiukeyijienazheiyangyigeren，danshiwoshouziranguanxingdeyingxiangjiuxuanzeleduo，yueshishaoyurenjiechu，jiaojidenenglijiuhuijianruo，jiuerjiuzhijiuhuijuedejienabierenbiandekunnan，suoyihuigengjiamingquedixuanzeduokai。

二、其实感情洁癖也是一样的原理

 youyuganqingjiepizheduiwudianduibuzhongjiqimingan，tamenyaoqiubierenjueduizhongcheng，suoyitamenyehuiyaoqiuzijibaochichunjie。biruwo，guoquwoyunanxingaimeishi，wojueduibuhuiyunxudiergeyixingchuxianzaiwodeshijieli，yinweiwojuedezheiyangshiduizheiweikenengfazhanchengwobanlvdenanxingdebuzhong，yeyinciwodeshenghuozhongconglaidoumeiyoutongshichuxianliangweikenengyouaimeiguanxidenanxing，yeconglaibuxiangbierentijizijiguoqudeganqingjingli，baochiganjingshiwozirandexiguan。zheiyeshibufenganqingjiepizhedebiaoxian。

 danshizhidaojinnian，zaiwomingxizijibingzhengdeyuantouhou，wojuedingbazheigezijifengbidejuchaidiao，jiuxiangshigenzijidemingyunxuanzhanyiyang。wokaishijieshoutongshigenliangweinanxingshenzhiduoweinanxingjinxingjiaoliu，danshikeyimingquedeyidianshi，bingbushiaimei，zhishizuopengyou，qizhongyouaimeichengfenzaisuonanmian，danshiyiqianwoshilianzuopengyoudoubuyunxude，zheimezuoyikaishizijihuigandaohuangluan，yehuihuaiyizijizeguaiziji，shiwuzaideyironghezhiqianbidingshiyituanzaode，woqingchudizhidaozheishijiepizaifashengzuoyong，suoyiwomeiyouguoyuzaiyi，ershijixuchangshibingxiguangenzheijiweinanxingjiaoliu，shenzhichengweipengyou，manmankaishiyouleyizhongguodudeshiyinggan。

 zheishiwohuanjieganqingjiepisuojinxingdejienachangshi，houxuxiaoguohaidaijianyan。zheiyaoqiujiepizheduizishenyishiyouqingxiderenzhiyijihenqiangdekongzhili。

三、适合自己的环境，也就是更纯洁的伴侣

1、缓解自身洁癖症

 weilehuanjiejiepizhengdeqiangjingzuoyongli，buyaozaiduanshijianneidafanweidiwurannideshijie，nidexitonghenkenengyinshoubuzhuzheiyangdeshinengerbengkui，shenzhihuiyinwudiantaiduokanbudaoxiwangerdetongku，suoyi，nengzhaodaoweitanguolianaidejiuzhaoweitanguode，zhishaoyedezhaogechude，buyaoyumeitingbierenshuojingliduolejiuhuihaole，zijiyebuyaojueqiang，yinweinibuxiangyibanrenneiyangyouzheimeqiangdejieshouli。

2、xuanzechunjiemiankongdebanlv

 zaiduixiangqizhidexuanzeyekejiangjiu，buguozheigeyaokaozijideyanli。youxierendexinggeleixinghenkenengfazhandebijiaowude，jibiantameitanguonikenengyehuiduitadeqizhichanshengdikangqingxu，qizhongyouyixierengeshixiangduibijiaochunjiede，danqishinibingbuxuyaokeyiqulejieduifangdexinghao，yinweiduiyujiepizhelaishuo，tamenduichunjiedemiankongyouzheziranershengdehaogan，biruniduibixiazhengtaihedashudemiankong，nijiuhenkenengbeiyouxianyounendezhengtaixiyin。

 zhengruwoshangmiansuoyan，jiepizhexihuanjujuewaijiederuqin，guanxingdidaizaizijidexiaoshijieyihuodeanquangan，yinershejiaoquanziyeyuelaiyuezhai，congerdaozhijiepishuxinggengjiamingxian。

四、社交是关键

 suoyi，yaocongshejiaorushou。conggenbenshanglaikan，zheizhongshejiaoshouxianyaocongsuoyourenkaishi，erbujinjinshiyixingpengyou。zheiyebiyikaishijiucongyixingshejiaozheshouyaojiandankexing。jiukeyicongfeichangpiaohudezhuangtaizhuanbianchengjianshidezhuangtai，jienadubiangaole，henduoshiqingbiandekeyibaorong，sihujiuhuibuzaineimejiepile，buhuirenxingdaoyaoqiuduifangmeitanguolianai。（zhendeshitairenxingle，zhixiangbierenyaoqianjiuzijidexuqiu，congbuxiangzhequbaorongbieren，rongyiduibanlvyoujingshenbaoli)youganqingjiepishishenmeyisi?zheijuhuanifanguolaishuonijiuzhidaole。

 qishi，dajiahaishikankanzijishifouguoyuzilian，zhiyaorenshidaodajiadouhenpingfan，caigenghaodibangzhuzijizhuanbiankangjuwaijiedexintai。