感情优柔寡断男人算不算渣男？

 ganqingyourouguaduanderenzaiganqingmianqian，changchangyinweiwufazuojueding，erjiduifangzaochengzhangqishanghai。ruguonihaibuzhidaozijidenuoruozhengshanghaishuangfang，neijiubangninongmingbai。

 ganqingzhongyebufayourouguaduandenanren，tamenjibuxiangshanghairenheren，kedaotourensuoyourendoubeitajishanghaileyigebian，erzuihouquejuedezijihenwugu。zuotiankandaoyiwenzhangshuo，ruguojiangyitiantulongjilidezhangwujifangdaoxianzaideganqingguannianzhong，taqishijiushigedianxingduidaiganqingyourouguaduanderen，shiyigerenzha。paihuaizhouxuanyujigenvrenzhijian，buduanjitamenxiwangyoubuduanjitamenshiwang，jiaotasitiaochuan，hairangrenjuedeshiyouqingyouyi，qishijiushizaijiantatamendeganqing。

一、感情优柔寡断是什么意思？

 zaishenghuozhongtamenwangwangyouhengaodezhili，danshiqingshangni?xihuanderenshuohengao，kantouledeneijiushizha，biao。ganqingyourouguaduanshishenmeyisi？tamenrangyixingmanhuaichongjingqueyoushishidanyou，tamenrangyixingpiankejingxiqueyoucujingdafa，zuihoudouzhengdehenduorenshenzhikaishihuaiyiaiqing，huaiyirensheng。suoyimianduizheiyangderenyegaishikebaochiqingxing，zheiyangderennihennanwandezhuande。duiganqingzongshiyourouguaduan，bingqiecongguoquwufazibazenmebanwangyoutiwen：kaishixindelianqing，yehuimomoshenshineixin，quduibi，bijiaodaodiaiderenshishei，zenmecongguoquzhenzhengdezouchulai?

二、请正视感情

 ruguoguoqudeganqingyizhirangninanyijieshou，xiangyaobaituota，qingbuyaochangshiquwangji，niyaoquzhengshita。tabuhuiyinweinixiangwangji，erxiaoshifaneryuelaiyueshenke，zheijiushibaixiongxiaoying。suoyizhengshizijideganqing，rangzijideshangkou"sayan"，zhiyouzheiyangcainenggengkuaidezouchulai。dangrannidebijiao，shiyinweinimeiyouxinxin。

三、活在当下

 nintanlianaishiweileshenme，shibushiweileyigemeimandehunyin，yougexingfuderensheng，xingfudelianaiguanxiyoubaokuonaxieni，chulejiazhiguandeng，haiyaoyouhaodeyilianguanxideng，dangninjieshoubingxihuanzijishi，niyejuedezijizhidebeiaishi，xiangxinzheishiyigehaodeqidian，guoqufashengderenyuwudoushiweilechengjiuxianzaideziji，duiyuguoqu，chuleganxiehaishiganxie，zuizhongyaoshihuozaidangxia。

四、感情视野开阔点

 shibushiwomendeduibibawomenjuxianzailemouxiefangmian，congerbunenggenghaodequlijie“ai”，aideneirongbaokuohenduo，ninlijiedeaishishenmeyangdeni?lingwai，aishangyigeren，yekenengbushiyichaoyixideshi，rijiushengqingdeqingkuangbijiaoduo，ruguowomenbujiyubijiaoxiajielun，ershichangshizheyuduifangxiangchuyiduanshijianhuizenmeyangni4、suiranyichengguoqu，danhuoxumeiyouhaohaodequchuliguozijiguoqudeqinggan，caihuiruci。guoqule，budengyuxiaoshile，ruguoneixinshifangbuxiade，youguaniande。neimehuoxuxuyaolaihaohaodezhengshihuochulixiazijideqingganbijiaohao。