吵架后冷战的男人心态

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一、吵架后冷战的男人心态

1、冷战比争吵好

 chaojiahoulengzhandenanrenbuaiwolema?laogongrenweilengzhanbizhengchaoyaohao，zheiyangzhishaobuhuiyincishanglezhijiandeheqi，nanrenxinlizongshixiang，zaishuangfangzhengchaoshi，wangwangbansuizhetuokouerchudegengdashanghai，haiburulengzhanlaibimianbuduanzhengchao。

 chaojiahoujiulengzhandenanrenzenmexiangde?henduodenanrenxintaishangdoulizhidemingbai，fuqichaojiachaodaolehoumianhenduodoushiqingxudefaxie，chaolaichaoquyezhengbuchuyigejieguo，suoyinanrenjuedezheiyangdezhengchaohaowuyiyi，bingqiezhengchaohaihuishanghaiduifanghaiburulengzhan，zheiyangzhishaodoukeyirangbicilengjingxialai。ranhougoutongzenmejiejuewenti。

2、bimianbubiyaodemafan

 nanrenyibanhuichaojiahoudelengzhan，nanshengrenweimeicichaowanjiadouxuyaozijiqudaoqianlaopocaihuiyuanliangziji，erqiemeicichaojianvrenjuedeshoushangdedoushiziji，erbushizijidelaogong。huoxuyiciliangcinanrenhuiyuanliangni，danshishijianzhanglenidenanrenjiuhuibuyuanyihenizhengchao，zheiyangjiukeyibimianzheiyangdemafan。

3、让各自反思

 nanrenchaojiahoudelengzhan，yinweitamenrenweizhengchaobingbunengjiejuewentifanerhuirangwentinaodeyuelaiyueda，lengzhanjiukeyirangzheigewentixiangezhi，rangshuangfalengjingxialaizhihouzaiqujiejue，fansiweishenmehuichuxianzheiyangdewenti。

 nanshengmendaduoshudoushilixinghehaomianzidedaibiao，suoyijiuhuichuxianzheixiexintaiernvshengmenshiganxingdedaibiao，zuoshiqingdoushiyouzheganxingdezijiquchuli，suoyixiangyaoliwankuanglan，nvshengmenyaorangzijichengweiyigelixingderen，mianduishiqingbuyaohezijidelaogongyibanjianshi。

duoxuexiyixiezhishizhunshimeicuode，aoyouzaizhishidehaiyangli，jinqingxuexilianaidemiji。