如何冷漠起来？

 henduopengyoudouzaiwangshangzhuruhexunlianlengmo、ruhelengmoqi？reqingderenyulengmoderenshibuyiyang。renjiayehuiyinweilengmoershenghenduoshi。qishilengmoshixuyaotishenqizhide。qizhibaomanhoukeyiziyoudediaozhengziwo。

xiaobianjiujieyonghafoguanlishijiezhongdeyipianxiaowen，laijiaojiaodajiaruhexunlianlengmo。

一、如何冷漠起来？

1、首先就要沉稳。

1.1、buyaosuibianxianlunideqingxu

1.2、buyaofengrenjiusushuonidekunnanhezaoyu

1.3、zaizhengxunbierendeyijianzhiqian，xianzixingsikao

1.4、buyaoyiyoujihuijiulaotaonidebuman

1.5、zhongyaodejuedingjinliangyoubierenshangliang，geyitianzaifabu

1.6、jianghuabuyaoyourenhedehuangzhang，zouluyeshi

2、细心

2.1、duishenbianfashengdeshiqing，changsikaotamendeyinguoguanxi

2.2、duizuobudaoweidezhixingwenti，yaofajuetamendegenbenzhengjie

2.3、duixiyiweichangdezuoshifangfa，yaoyougaijinhuoyouhuadejianyi

2.4、zuoshenmeshiqingdouyaoyangchengyoutiaobuwenhejingranyouxudexiguan

2.5、jingchangquzhaojigebierenkanbuchulaidemaobinghuobiduan

3、胆识

3.1、zijiyaosuishisuididuiyousuobuzudedifangbuwei

3.2、buyaochangyongquefazixindeciju

3.3、buyaochangchangfanhui，qingyituifanyijingjuedingde

3.4、zaizhongrenzhengzhibuxiushi，buyaomeiyouzhujian

3.5、zhengtifenweidiluoshi，niyaoleguan、yangguang

3.6、zuorenheshiqingdouyaoyongxin，yinweiyourenzaikanzheni

3.7、shiqingbushundeshihou、xiekouqi，zhongxinxunzhaotupokou、jiujieshuyeyaoganjingliluo。

4、大度

4.1、buyaokeyibayoukenengshihuobanderenbianchengduishou

4.2、duibierendexiaoguoshi、xiaocuowubuyaojinjinjijiao

4.3、zaijinqianshangyaodafang，xuexisanshi（caishi、fashi、wuweishi）

4.4、buyaoyouquanlideaomanhezhishidepianjian。

4.5、renhechengguohechengjiudouyinghebierenfenxiang

4.6、bixuyourenxishenghuofengxiandeshihou，zijizouzaiqianmian。

5、诚信

5.1、zuobudaodeshiqingbuyaoshuo，shuolejiunulizuodao

5.2、xudekouhaohuobiaoyubuyaochangguazuishang

5.3、zhenduikehutichude“buchengxin”wenti，nachugaishandefangfa

5.4、tingzhiyiqie“budaode”deshouduan

5.5、shuanongxiaocongming、yaobude！

5.6、jisuanyixiachanpinhuofuwudechengxindaijia，neijiushipinpaichengben。

二、如何拒绝冷漠？

womenyaoruhejujuelengmo？qishijianhennandeshi，danyaoyayizijineixindexiangfa。

 qishijujuelengmoshimeiyoubiyaode，womenhaishisuixinjiuhaole。jibuyutarenjiaoliusixiangganqing，youduitarendebuxinglengyanpangguan、wudongyuzhong、haowutongqingxin。kanguanlezheishijianrenqinglengnuan，yejiubuneimezaiyirenxinxiane、shitaiyanliangle。zhenqinghuozhejiayi，woyiyijieshou。yinweizaiwokanlaimeiyizhongdeshidoushirenshengdeyizhonglicheng。