80后夫妇离婚记 放手OR复婚？

 yuanbenzaiwoyanli，renmendebiaozhunjinguanbuhuishide，keshiyebibiedexuduorenhaoxuduole。andadaoliworenweirenmenyingdangnenggouzhenxingfu，danshi，renmenlilehun!xiabianjiangxiawomendegushi，yerangtonglingyixieganshouba。hunyinshishenme? youyongma?

80houxiaoliangkouliyiji fangkaishouorfuhun?

 zuixianlaigejianyidexiangxijieshao，wogenqiziquanshi80nianchushide，dushengzi，putonggaozhonggangkaishichuduixiang，zhengzhongjianyefenliguo，zhihouyoulaidaoyikuaier。xianghuzhijianjiashiyesuannenggou，meiyoushenmejiazhongchengdan，changyoufenbuhuifeichanghaoyesuanguodequdegongzuozhong，fangwuyeshi，jichuwuxuweiqianerkunao!

 hunyinwentizixunyouyongma?tashigehaokan、leguan、aichanren、huifadia、zuichuntetiandenvsheng。woma，jiushishuogeyibandenanrenba，youyidianerfengqu，zhangxiangyejishigebushuaibuchouba，huixiyan，yehedianbaijiu。

三、饮酒：

 liangnianhou，tazaiduhuaileyun。ciciwomenshifendedangxin，congdiyiweiyuegangkaishijiuduitatuixinghuangshangyiyangdezhaoliao。tayegenqiyeqinglejia。neiyiduanshijian，tashenpangjibenshang24zhongtoubuduanxuduorenfushizhe。

 3liugeyueguoqu，womensonglekouqizhong。zaitayunqi4gebanyuedeneishihou，youyiri，wogen1gedepengyouyuehaolayeliyongcan，yinweifandianliwomenjiajiu5fenzhonglutu，tayeyikuaiergenwoxiangqu。yanshangwogenpenyouheguodianputaojiu。pingchangwohaizaitayanqianyebuxiyande，neitianwanshangwotongxuemenquexiyan，zaijiayuanbenfandianzirantongfengbutaihao，wojiuyaotaxianhuijia。

 tazoudeneishihoumeiyoushenme，kewodeng10dianduohuilaideneishihou，wozoujinjialoudixia，woquefajuetazijilizaimalubian，bingqiehaizhuangbaolexinglixiang……woyiwangwenshizenmehuishi?tashuowojinyeyouyinjiuyouxiyan，bingqiehairangtazijihuijialemeilita，yaozouniangjia。

 wobiaoshushuowo1nianjiuheneima1、2cijiu，bingqiejiuheneimedianputaojiu。yinciwojuqitadexinglixiangjiuwanghuijiale，danshitalazhewobuxu，pianshuoyaozouniangjia。jianzhiqiaozhiji，zheishihouqiahaoyouliangxunluochexunchalijing，jianghuikandaorenmenzaiqianche，tingguolaiwenrenmenshashi。tajingranshuo：“jingyuan，wobuhuilejietade，tadawo，dajiagantazou”。

 wotingjianneiyang，woyegenjingyuanshuo：“en，wobuhuilejietade，kanzhongle，ruguonizhendata。”yinciwoyewanxiaodedaguotaerguang。woganshuo，ruguodangchutalianbuyouzhiwenchong，neierguangyedabudaoneiwenchong!jingyuankanchuquwomendoushifuqi，yemeiruhe。bawomenliangshenfenzhengjianchaoxialejiulikaile。woyezijihuilejia，ertajiuyaolewobabamamajia。

 hunyinwentizixunyouyongma?ketajurangenmamajiang，woruheruheyinjiu，ruhezenmetongguanta，ruheruhenaodejingyuandoulaila……neishihouwomamaliketongdianhuawobeimalegegouxuelintou。danshiwomamayehewoshuo，rangtabubigaozhiniangjiaren。

 yilibaihou，wohuanshangfashaoganmao，youyupaganrandaotagenbb，woyejiaotazouniangjiazhujiri。huranmeitianzhongwu，womamajiudadianhua，genwoshuoshifouyoudatale?shuoqinjiamutongdianhuaeryanwodadetapaozouniangjiale……neishihouwoyemengle。yuanxiantahuijialehou，huanshibashangzhouwoneilianwenchongdoudabudaodeerguangdeshihewobabamamajiangguo，haishuowozaoyibingbushichucidatale……

四、离异：

 getian，yuemujiaolewohewochuquyongcan，wulunworuhebiaoshu，tahuanshizuozheyimianyishengbuhang，eryuemujiubutingzeguaiwo，shuowojiushijiabaole。shuorenmenneiyanghaibibushangliyisuanleba，xiaohaiyexiangyaole。

jiexiaqujiri，wulunwozenmeshuohua，biaoshunaxiede，zhiqiannaxiede，zongzhitahuanshimeihua。jianchibuxielihunle。

 yinci，renmenlaidaominzhengjutiqianzhunbeishenqingbanliliyi，jiuzaiyaoqianmingdeneishihou，tashuobuyuanlile。yincirenmenyoubaituoleminzhengju。kelaidaoyeli，tayoujianchibuxieshuolihunle……

 hunyinwentixintaizixunyouyongma?ertianzhihou，zaiyuemudesuitongxia，renmenzaidulaidaominzhengju，xuanbuqianminglilehun。liyidangri，tajiuzhujinzaoyifenpeizhengguideyiyuantiqianzhunbeigetianzuoliuchan。neitianwanshang，tadawodianhua，shuoxiangwo，haipadongshoushu，yaowoqupeita。wojiangyiqiezhengchang，keshiwoxiangquhaiyaojiangnijiehuijiale，likefuhun。tahuijuele。

 1gelibaihou，tayoubangwolaidianhua，shuoxiangwo。woshuotaweiheneimeshanbian，tashuowobeidatadeshigaozhimuqinhou，tamuqinjiujianchibuxieyaorenmenliyi，haijiangchu“dangnihuilai，wojiuyaotiaolouzisha”dehua。

 congliyidaorujindabannianle，hunyinshishenme?renmenguozhefufubuxiangfufu、chuguibuxiangchuguideshiri。wonaizhimeiyougenwodepengyou、penyoushuowohewoliyideshi，xiwangnengyouyirinengzaiciyiqi。kezheileijuedezhongjiuhentongchu，zuizhongwohuanshijuecehewofenli。