女生怎么挽回婚姻最好

　　nvshengzenmewanhuihunyinzuihao，biezheji，buyaohuang，nachunixiaodengzi，womenliaoyiliaozheicishiqing，baozhengrangnikanwanyihou，xiongzhongyoushu，shouliyouzhao!

　　一、看清现况：异地恋“痛”与“美”

　　zaijinxingwanliuzhixingqian，womenxianyaoliaoyiliaoyidilianneixieshi。yiguoliana，jiuxiangshiyichangmalasongbisai，youzhang、jianku，queyouchongmanlekaoyanyumeihao。dajiajiandejuli，jishimolianyeshijiyu。tashinimenzhijiandeganqinggengweibaogui，dangengrongyiyouyugoutongbudaowei、wujiesanshengerzouxiangfenshou。

　　异地恋“痛”：

　　goutongjiaoliubufangbian：shijiancha、wangluobuwending，rangnidegoutongjiaoliuyuelaiyuejubuweijian。

　　queshaopeiban：shengbingdeshihoudeyiju“duohedianreshui”，bibushangyigewennuandehuaibao。

　　yulunyali：jianjuhenrongyichanshengcaiji，yibuxiaoxinjiuxianrule“ta/tashibushibuaiwole”dewoxuan。

　　异地恋“美”：

　　qingxunonghou：meiyicixiangjudouxiangjiubiexiangfeng，aiqinggengweinonghou。

　　chengzhangxunsu：yiguolianrangnixuehuiledandu、dongdeleaixi，xuehuileruheyouxiaoaiyigeren。

　　gongtongdemubiao：weilenengzaoriwanbiwaidi，dajiagongtongfendou，zheiyifenpeihemoqiqudonglishirenjiasuobujubeide。

　　yinci，xianbiejizhefourenyidilianshiyongjiazhi，jinguantatong，queyemei。neimejintian，womenbianshizaizheiyifen“tong”yu“mei”zhongxunzhaowanliudetupokou!

　　二、挽留原曲：自我反省与心理调节

　　xiangwanhuiyiguolian，diyibubingbushijizhequlianxita，ershizhijiekaizhanziwofanshenghexinlidiaojie。

　　自我反省：

　　wenziji，zaochengfenkaidegenbenyuanyinshisha?shigoutongbudaowei、yulunyali，haishiqitayuanyin?

　　niyizhizaiyiguolianzhongshifoulvxinglezijizeren?shifouyouzuodebugouhaodequyu?

　　心理调节：

　　jinxingfenshoukeguanshishi，bubibuyiburao，jiduifangyixieshijianyukongjian。

　　weichileguandexintai，jianxinzijiyounengliwanliuzheifenganqing。

　　biebawanliudangzuoyizhongyali，fanershidangzuoyiciziwotishengheganqingshenghuadehaojihui。

　　三、挽回技巧一：有效的沟通，摆脱芥蒂

　　wanliuyiguolian，youxiaodegoutongcaishiguanjian。neiyang，zenyangjinxingyouxiaogoutongni?

　　fangfa1：xuanzeshihezijideshizhang

　　lejieduifangdezuoxishijianbiao，tiaoxuanlingyifangkongyuqiekaixindeshihoujinxingjiaoliu。

　　fangzhizaibicifanmanghuoqingxuhuashidajiao，neiyangzhihuishideqifan。

　　fangfa2：lingtingbishuogengweizhongyao

　　goutongdeshihou，duotingshaoshuo。jibicichongzudeshijianbiaodazijideganshouhekanfa。

　　naixinqingting，buyaojizhebianbohuobiaoshu，zhiyouzheiyangcainengzhenzhenzhengzhenglejieduifangdeneixinshijie。

　　fangfa3：biaoshuzhenchengyulejie

　　yongzhenchengdebiaodabiaodazijideganshouhekanfa，bubiyangaihuoduobi。

　　changshisheshenchudidedulisikao，biaoshuninduilingyifangdelijiehezhichi。

　　实战模拟：

　　ni：“hai，jinqiguodehaoma?womingbaibicizhijianyouyixiewujie，woxiangzhaogeshizhangliaoyiliao。”(xuanzeshihezijideshizhang)

　　lingyifang：“ng，haixing。niyoushima?”

　　nvshengzenmewanhuihunyinzuihao，ni：“qishiwoyizhihenzaihudajiaxianghuzhijiandeguanxi，wojuededajiazhijianyouyixiegoutongjiaoliufangmiandewenti。woxiangtingtingnideguandian，kanyixiakebukeyiyiqijiejue。”(lingtingbishuogengweizhongyao)

　　lingyifang：“woganjueniyizhibijiaomang，dajiahenshaoyoushijianxianliao。shenzhiyoudeshihouwoganjuenibingbulijiewo。”

　　ni：“wozhidaonideqingxu，queshishiwozuodebugouhao。wohuinuligaishan，duojishijianpeizheni，jiuhuigengjiarenzhenqutiliangni。”(biaoshuzhenchengyulejie)