攻心为上，通过3个阶段步步为营成功挽回他的心！

fenshouhouzenmewanhui?qingganwanhuizenmeban?ruhewanhui hunyin ni?

neiwan，wozhengwanmeishui，wobuganxin，wokaishifengkuangdezaiwangshangxunzhaodaan，weishenmehuizheiyang?weishenme?weishenme?

 houlaiwuyizhongkandaoyipianwenzhangduiwanhuiyouhenshenrudejianjie，tongguowenzhang，sousuodaoyigejiao“wanhuiguwen”degongzhonghao，gongzhonghaolimianhenduowenzhangxiededouhenyoudaoli，rangwomaosaidunkai，zaihoulaiwozixunlehuazhenqinggan，woxiangzhidaowogaizenmezuo，yaobuyaoquwanhui，hainengbunengwanhui?

 woxiwangjinzijidenuliquzuoyixiebujiugongzuo，batadeaizhongxinzhaohuilai。woxiwanghuazhenqinggankeyibangdaowo，yinweiwozhidaoyiwodexingge，meiyouhaodezhiyin，wozhihuiyuezuoyuecuo。

huazhenqingganshenrulejielewodeqingkuanghou，kaishijiwojinxinglexiangxifenxi：

优势：

1、 nengkongzhiziji，meiyoutifenshou

2、 tahaibuzhidao，woyijingzhidaotadesuozuosuowei

劣势：

1、 对他太好

yizhiyilaiduitataihao，yijingzaitaxinzhongmeiyouleganji，shengxiadejiushixiguan，suoyibingbuhuijixuduitahaojiunenggandongta。

2、 让他太过安心

 jiahegongsiliangdianyixian，niyijingmeiyoulexiyinli，tawanquanzhangwolenideshenghuo，nizijidepengyoudoumeiyoujige，bupanihuilikai

3、 liyongniduitadeyilaigan

 tawanquanliyonglenideyilaigan，nidequanzizhiyouta，tanengrangniwanquanyilai，zheiyangnijiuhuishenmeshiqingdouyouxiankaolvta，tajiubuxuyaokaolvni

4、 nidegongzuoyingxianglexingge

guoqicaiwu，gongzuodandiao，wangwangquefalegoutong，gengbudongxinideqingganqianfeng，zaigoutongdeshihouweimiandaileyidianzhiyebing

5、 gongzuoxingzhirangzijibiandeqianpianyilv

wulunshiyizhehaishishuohuadeyuqi，sibanshengying，yousheihuixihuanhuijiaduizheyikuaimubandeganjue

6、 zaijialimiangezhongqianjiu

 cimuduobaier，youshihouguofendeqianjiu，huirangshiqingfazhangengelie。gezhongtuoxieduifangbuhuiganjini，xiangfanhuijuedenidouwusuowei，wogengwusuowei。

 tinglehuazhenqinggandefenxi，wocaizhidao，yuanlaiwoyeyaoweitabianchengzheiyangfuzeren，yuanlaishiwodezongrongrangtakeyifangsi，wozijidexingge，rangwomenquefalegoutong，woyuanlaizhendecuole。

(1) zhongxintishengziji

 huazhenqingganshuohaodeqingxushiwozuixuyaode，youyumeiyouzhengshitifenkai，danshiwodexinqingbifenkaigengxinku，mingzhidaotadeshiqing，haixuyaozuozuijianvpeijiao，zhuangmeiyoushifasheng。wowenhuazhenqingganwozhendehentongkuzenmeban。

huazhenqingganshuo，niyaoyingshouxianyaoyouhaodexintai，chufeixiangshu。woshuowobunengjieshoutazheiyangduiwo。

 huazhenqingganshuonanweihunnvweijia，meigerendouyouxuanzegenghaodequanli，bushishuotayinmannimeiyoucuo。ershiruguoniyizhixintaibuwen，jiubukenengniuzhuanjumian，bunengying。ruguoyaotouruzhanzhengdangzhong，shouxianyaoyoubishengdejuexin，fouzhehuichengweipaohui。

 huazhenqingganrangwogaibianzijidedaban，maigezhongbutongfenggedeyifu，weizhihouzuozhunbei，qujianshenlianyujia，gaibiantixing，xuehuazhuang，tishengzijidehuazhuangjiqiao。

huazhenqingganshuo，nanrendouxihuanmeinv，wulunshenmeshihou，doushiqiangububiandedinglv，suoyizheixiejibenyidingyaopeibei。

(2) zhaodaowentigenben

 huazhenqingganshuotaxihuanhenianqingdenvshengaimei，hendayuanyinshiwoqueshaolehuoli，nanrenweishenme20suidao80suidouxihuannianqingdenvshengni，yinweinianqingdenvshengyouhuoli，zhengshihenduodalingnvshengsuoqueshaode。

suoyiyundong、zhuangbanyaoyinianqingweizhu，qizhizeyaonengqiaopinengchengshubaimianlinglong，zheiyangnanrenkendinghuiduoainiyidian。

tahuiaimeishiyinweizairichangshenghuodangzhongwojitadecijibugou，pingdanrushui，quefaaiqingdedongli。

 haodeganqingxiangzhiwu，xuyaodingqishifei、jiaoshui。ruguoyizhibuguanta，huikuweide。yaoyongxinzaipei，bushizhishiduiyigenanrenhao，jiunengmanzu。

yaodongdenanrendeyexin，peihetadezhuizhu，bushiguaiguaitashuoshenmejiushishenme。

 buyongzhejiqujisuandeshi，sheixiaodaozuihoucaishiyingjia，buyaobeiduifangzhanjuzijiderensheng，renzhenbianshulejiushizheiyigedaoli，dangnikantabitianda，nijiumiaoxiaoruchen，dangnizijineixinqiangda，tabuganqingyiqifuni。

(3) zijidegaibianlingwu

 zaihuazhenqingganlianggexingqidezhidaoxia，wokaishizhidaozenyangquliaotianhuibiandeyouqu，wokaishibubazhongxinfangzaitashenshang，wushengdexiaoyankaishimanyan，wokaishiyoudianlijienanrendexin，xuehuizenyangqubakongzhangwonanrendexin。

 yekaishiziwogaibian，danshihuazhenqingganqueshuowomenbuyongjizherangtakandao，womenyaobazheixieliudaozuihoufanpanyong，woyaozuodaodeshinenggouchoulibuyukuai，nenggoubakonghaoziji，jiukeyijinxingzhenzhengdexingdong。