男人有外遇要离婚怎么办

 jiaruniyaobuxianglihun，laogongwaiyuruhewanjiuhunyin?buguanjingyuzenyangbeican，xiangxinguishuyunidelisuodangrandeai，jinjinmeiyoutaikuaidelai。nanrenyouwaiyuyaolihunzenmeban?waiyulihunweijiruhehuajie?

一、男人有外遇要离婚怎么办

要了思考自身，认识自己

 nanrenyouwaiyuyaolihunzenmeban?waiyulihunweijiruhehuajie?jiazhongdezuchengdouyouyuai，ermei1gejiatingjiufenshengjidouyouyuaidebuzu，yejiushishuobicimeiyouyizhaolingyifangqidaideguifanailingyifang，yizhiyubicidougangkaishibianchengxianghumaiyuan，chizedelingyiban。

 jiaruniyaobuxianglihun，laogongwaiyuruhewanjiuhunyin?buguanjingyuzenyangbeican，xiangxinguishuyunidelisuodangrandeai，jinjinmeiyoutaikuaidelai。nanrenyouwaiyuyaolihunzenmeban?waiyulihunweijiruhehuajie?shenxianqinggannitan？

一、男人有外遇要离婚怎么办

要了思考自身，认识自己

 nanrenyouwaiyuyaolihunzenmeban?waiyulihunweijiruhehuajie?jiazhongdezuchengdouyouyuai，ermei1gejiatingjiufenshengjidouyouyuaidebuzu，yejiushishuobicimeiyouyizhaolingyifangqidaideguifanailingyifang，yizhiyubicidougangkaishibianchengxianghumaiyuan，chizedelingyiban。

 liangrendabanguoshenghuo，ditoubujiantaitoujian，duilingyifangdeshenghuofangshi，juzhiyantanleranyuxiong，shijianjiuledouzaisuonanmiankanbushunyanlingyifang。danwulunruhe，shijiandejidian，douhuishinixiguanxinglingyifang，jieshoulingyifang，mishanglingyifang，jibiankeyiyiqizhengchao，youshihuiyiqidoushizheizhongxingfukuaile。

 dangnanrenlianzhengchaodoubuxiangyunichao，chuguinaizhilihunle，neimanihaiyaosikaoxianidenulishifoumeiyounulidaodianshang?shibushinichangchangyinizishendeguandianheguidingqukandaita，ermeiyouzhenshideguanxintadexinlitihui。

 jiurutaaichiyikepingguo，niquejitamen1gelixiangtong。jitamendeyizhibingbushitayuanyide，shijianjiule，xianghuxintaizhuangtaijianjuqueyuezouyueyuan。tabuxiangyaorangnishuojuxinlihua，buxiangyaorangnijiaoxingoutongjiaoliu，buxiangyaohuashijianrangni，naizhichuguiyaofangqini。neima，nibixuyaoduofangmiandepouxizishen，zheimeduonianzishenshifouduitabuzuguanhuai?

要了解男人，完善自我

 nanrenyouwaiyuyaolihunzenmeban?waiyulihunweijiruhehuajie?dajiachangchangshuonanrenlanqing，wojuedeaimeilidexinrenjieyouzhi。nanrenlanqingzuishaobiaomingnanrenyouzhongnianqingbupakunnandexintaizhuangtai。jinjinzheileixintaizhuangtaimeiyoucaiyongnuliqishiyeshang，meiyoucaiyonglaoponeibianqu。

 meirenxiaiyonghengbubiandeyishizhuxing，nanrenyizhixiaixinxiandeshiqing。dangniyouyujielehunermeiquzhenglizishen，daban，changchangweizhunanrenzhuan，zuoshiermeiyoufencunganmeiyoushangjinxin，shijianjiule，nanrenduinidexingquaihaodaziranhuijianjiandiqueshi。

 nanrendepinweijiushishuotatiaoxuandenvren，zheihuadaochulefuqiganqinglizuimimidebufen。nanrendexinliwojuedehenmingan，tamenbixulaoposishuirouqing，roushengxiyu。wenrou，zhenduinanrenshizhimingdeyouhuo。

 duinanreneryan，quandounengchengdan，yenengdichu，danzuidibuzhudeshinvrendewenrou。nvrenruguowenrouqilai，zaijianqiangdenanrenyehuibeironghuadiao。yinci，yaolejienanren，nenggougengqiangdewanshanziwo，jiejuehaohunyinjiatingdenanti。

要上得厅堂下得厨房

 nanrenyouwaiyuyaolihunzenmeban?waiyulihunweijiruhehuajie?youjuhuajiao：yaoxiangxiyinnanren，zuixianyaoxiyinnanrendewei。dangdaishehuijingjifazhanxunsu，xuduozhichangnvrenyingshiersheng。zaizheileifangshixia，xuduonvrenzaoyidiuqilechuanjiabao：zheimenhaodepengrenjishu。

 “zhujiaowai，nvzhunei”huanshiyoubixudedadaolide。nvrenzaijiazhongkeyizuoyidianerhuanshishouhuanyingde。jiarunanrenquanshenpijuan，huijialejiunenggouchichushuangkoudefanshi，bixushenganwennuan。jishizaileizaikuyehuibucilaokude，ganjueyouneiyangdenvrenqinjianchijiazaijianxinquanshizuigaide。

 jizunanrenqingmian，rangnanrenjuedeanxin，anwen。1gejiazhongdewennuan，tingdashuipingshangshibixunvrenqudazaochude。1gezhishudalidenvren，bidingshimingbaijiejuehaodegongzuojiatinggongzuodejunhengde。dajiachangshuonvrenshijialidefengshui，nvrenjiarukeyishangleketing，shedexiacantingchufang，jialidefengshuijiubixunengxiao，nanrendeqingxuyenengxiao，neimaqishiyeyehuigensuiyuanman。

要快速进入成熟期，取悦自身

 jinguanhunyinduinvrenshifenguanjian，danbingbushinvrendesuoyou。zhenduinvreneryan，jiarubananrenzuoweinirenshengdaoludesuoyou，neimawoyejingbuzhurenshengdaoludefengchuiyuda。

 yaohuochuziji，haiyaochengshuqiqilai，bubi “yikuernaosandiaosi”。nanrenaiqizhinvren，gengaishunv。chengshunvrenmingbaiqianjiunanrendeku，yincishendenanrenxiai。nvrenyitaruhunyinneitiaochuan，haiyaomingbaitongqingdalizhifa，yaodanfuqirenshengdaoludeyiwu。youjuhuajiao“nanrenbixuzhongshi，nvrenbixugaoduzhongshi”，zhongshizishendenanrenwojuedejiushishuozhongshizishen。shenxianqinggannitan？

 zidanijiata，tashinizuiqinmiwujianderen，bubilaoshuotarendezhangfuzenyanggaizenmeban。tarenzaiduo，genniyemeishier，hekuyuyanzhongjianyizhiqusunhainizhongaiaiderenni?haolaogongquanshizanyanghejilipengchulaide。

 ruguonikeyichengshuqidihetajiaowangneishihou，jianxinniyekeyikaixinzishen。youyukaixinshinenggouchuansongde。nanrenshiren，jiuhuifancuo。keshi，nanrenyexiwangnvrendebaorong，nanrenyoushibingfeinixiangxiangzhongdeneimajianyisiqian，youshijinjinnanyirenshoujiazhongdejiatinglengbaolierzhaozheizhongfaxiefangfa。shijishang，jiarutayouhaodexinshangli，duobanhuifeichanghaodeaizheni。

 nibixujidiantahuixiangbandaolaodezhiliang。henduinvrenzaihunyinzhongyibiansuozuiaiderennulixuduo，quehulvelezishendecunyou，zhongjiuquehuandenanrendeliqi。congmouzhongyiyishangeryannanrendeyiqingbielianshinvrenguanchuqude。yinci，congmingnvrenyizhixiantengxizishen，aihuzishen，rangzishenchengshuqiqilai，rangnanrenduizishenshizhonghenganxingqu。

 renyizhizaiqinshenjinglizhongchengcai，hunyinyeshizheichangdiyu，qinshenjinglileqiqiluoluo，caihuigaoqingchu，quehansuanshirenshengdaolu，quehancaiyoufazhandeshineikongjian。buguannanrenyouwaiyulihunle，huanshiruhe，bixuweichijijidexintai。congjintianqi，haohaodiwanshanziwo，xiulianzishen，rangzishenbianchengnanrenyibeizidepinwei，zhongjiuwufageshe。

 liangrendabanguoshenghuo，ditoubujiantaitoujian，duilingyifangdeshenghuofangshi，juzhiyantanleranyuxiong，shijianjiuledouzaisuonanmiankanbushunyanlingyifang。danwulunruhe，shijiandejidian，douhuishinixiguanxinglingyifang，jieshoulingyifang，mishanglingyifang，jibiankeyiyiqizhengchao，youshihuiyiqidoushizheizhongxingfukuaile。

 dangnanrenlianzhengchaodoubuxiangyunichao，chuguinaizhilihunle，neimanihaiyaosikaoxianidenulishifoumeiyounulidaodianshang?shibushinichangchangyinizishendeguandianheguidingqukandaita，ermeiyouzhenshideguanxintadexinlitihui。

 jiurutaaichiyikepingguo，niquejitamen1gelixiangtong。jitamendeyizhibingbushitayuanyide，shijianjiule，xianghuxintaizhuangtaijianjuqueyuezouyueyuan。tabuxiangyaorangnishuojuxinlihua，buxiangyaorangnijiaoxingoutongjiaoliu，buxiangyaohuashijianrangni，naizhichuguiyaofangqini。neima，nibixuyaoduofangmiandepouxizishen，zheimeduonianzishenshifouduitabuzuguanhuai?

要了解男人，完善自我

 nanrenyouwaiyuyaolihunzenmeban?waiyulihunweijiruhehuajie?dajiachangchangshuonanrenlanqing，wojuedeaimeilidexinrenjieyouzhi。nanrenlanqingzuishaobiaomingnanrenyouzhongnianqingbupakunnandexintaizhuangtai。jinjinzheileixintaizhuangtaimeiyoucaiyongnuliqishiyeshang，meiyoucaiyonglaoponeibianqu。

 meirenxiaiyonghengbubiandeyishizhuxing，nanrenyizhixiaixinxiandeshiqing。dangniyouyujielehunermeiquzhenglizishen，daban，changchangweizhunanrenzhuan，zuoshiermeiyoufencunganmeiyoushangjinxin，shijianjiule，nanrenduinidexingquaihaodaziranhuijianjiandiqueshi。

 nanrendepinweijiushishuotatiaoxuandenvren，zheihuadaochulefuqiganqinglizuimimidebufen。nanrendexinliwojuedehenmingan，tamenbixulaoposishuirouqing，roushengxiyu。wenrou，zhenduinanrenshizhimingdeyouhuo。

 duinanreneryan，quandounengchengdan，yenengdichu，danzuidibuzhudeshinvrendewenrou。nvrenruguowenrouqilai，zaijianqiangdenanrenyehuibeironghuadiao。yinci，yaolejienanren，nenggougengqiangdewanshanziwo，jiejuehaohunyinjiatingdenanti。

要上得厅堂下得厨房

 nanrenyouwaiyuyaolihunzenmeban?waiyulihunweijiruhehuajie?youjuhuajiao：yaoxiangxiyinnanren，zuixianyaoxiyinnanrendewei。dangdaishehuijingjifazhanxunsu，xuduozhichangnvrenyingshiersheng。zaizheileifangshixia，xuduonvrenzaoyidiuqilechuanjiabao：zheimenhaodepengrenjishu。

 “zhujiaowai，nvzhunei”huanshiyoubixudedadaolide。nvrenzaijiazhongkeyizuoyidianerhuanshishouhuanyingde。jiarunanrenquanshenpijuan，huijialejiunenggouchichushuangkoudefanshi，bixushenganwennuan。jishizaileizaikuyehuibucilaokude，ganjueyouneiyangdenvrenqinjianchijiazaijianxinquanshizuigaide。

 jizunanrenqingmian，rangnanrenjuedeanxin，anwen。1gejiazhongdewennuan，tingdashuipingshangshibixunvrenqudazaochude。1gezhishudalidenvren，bidingshimingbaijiejuehaodegongzuojiatinggongzuodejunhengde。dajiachangshuonvrenshijialidefengshui，nvrenjiarukeyishangleketing，shedexiacantingchufang，jialidefengshuijiubixunengxiao，nanrendeqingxuyenengxiao，neimaqishiyeyehuigensuiyuanman。

要快速进入成熟期，取悦自身

 jinguanhunyinduinvrenshifenguanjian，danbingbushinvrendesuoyou。zhenduinvreneryan，jiarubananrenzuoweinirenshengdaoludesuoyou，neimawoyejingbuzhurenshengdaoludefengchuiyuda。

 yaohuochuziji，haiyaochengshuqiqilai，bubi “yikuernaosandiaosi”。nanrenaiqizhinvren，gengaishunv。chengshunvrenmingbaiqianjiunanrendeku，yincishendenanrenxiai。nvrenyitaruhunyinneitiaochuan，haiyaomingbaitongqingdalizhifa，yaodanfuqirenshengdaoludeyiwu。youjuhuajiao“nanrenbixuzhongshi，nvrenbixugaoduzhongshi”，zhongshizishendenanrenwojuedejiushishuozhongshizishen。

 zidanijiata，tashinizuiqinmiwujianderen，bubilaoshuotarendezhangfuzenyanggaizenmeban。tarenzaiduo，genniyemeishier，hekuyuyanzhongjianyizhiqusunhainizhongaiaiderenni?haolaogongquanshizanyanghejilipengchulaide。

 ruguonikeyichengshuqidihetajiaowangneishihou，jianxinniyekeyikaixinzishen。youyukaixinshinenggouchuansongde。nanrenshiren，jiuhuifancuo。keshi，nanrenyexiwangnvrendebaorong，nanrenyoushibingfeinixiangxiangzhongdeneimajianyisiqian，youshijinjinnanyirenshoujiazhongdejiatinglengbaolierzhaozheizhongfaxiefangfa。shijishang，jiarutayouhaodexinshangli，duobanhuifeichanghaodeaizheni。

 nibixujidiantahuixiangbandaolaodezhiliang。henduinvrenzaihunyinzhongyibiansuozuiaiderennulixuduo，quehulvelezishendecunyou，zhongjiuquehuandenanrendeliqi。congmouzhongyiyishangeryannanrendeyiqingbielianshinvrenguanchuqude。yinci，congmingnvrenyizhixiantengxizishen，aihuzishen，rangzishenchengshuqiqilai，rangnanrenduizishenshizhonghenganxingqu。

 renyizhizaiqinshenjinglizhongchengcai，hunyinyeshizheichangdiyu，qinshenjinglileqiqiluoluo，caihuigaoqingchu，quehansuanshirenshengdaolu，quehancaiyoufazhandeshineikongjian。buguannanrenyouwaiyulihunle，huanshiruhe，bixuweichijijidexintai。congjintianqi，haohaodiwanshanziwo，xiulianzishen，rangzishenbianchengnanrenyibeizidepinwei，zhongjiuwufageshe。