夫妻吵架伤感情：婚姻矛盾如何化干戈为玉帛

 fuqijianjiaowangshijianzhangle，hunyinzhongdeyidianerreqingdouhaofeiwanhou，qudaitadedeshiyongwuxiuzhidezhengzhi。jianjiandidechaodaozuizhong，liangrendoubuxiangshuohuale，suihoumeiduanmeimanxingfude☞ hunyin jiugaoyiduanluo。fuqichaojiashangganqing，hunyinmaodunruhehuagangeweiyubo?hunyinmaodunruheyouxiaohuajie?

一、夫妻吵架伤感情

fuqichaojiashangganqing，hunyinmaodunruhehuagangeweiyubo?

 chaozhechaozhe，jiuwanglegoutongjiaoliudechuxin，yinciwonengxiubuguanlianbingqieweixianghuxunzhaogengqiangdefangshi 。zuizhongbianweilexuanxiexintaideruma，fanzhegezhonggeyangjiuzhang，xiaojiqingxudehuxiangzhuangji。

 zhengzhishiyigebiranxingdeexingshijian，youyurenchangyouxingzi，qiezheileiqingkuangxiarenquanshisangshilixingde。danzhinengxianghuquanshiyongxinderen，nenggoufashengzhengzhi，danglingyifanghaixiangyaopeinizhengzhideneishihou，biaomingguanlianyeyouqidai。tashimianduifenqishi，jiejuekunnandezaiqizhongzheizhongfangfa。neimaruhechaojianenggoubulexianghudeganqing?chaowanyihouyounengzhongguiyuhao?

1.不必偏移表述见解的原意

 liangrenchaojiazuidanxindejiushishuochaozhechaozhe，wangjileshiweiheerzhengzhi。yikaishishixiangxingpingqihehaohaodihelingyifangshuohuade，keshijianjiandidexintaimeishouzishendecaozong，yededabushangfaxie，youzheijianshierzaochenglingzheijianshier，suihoushiqulixing，jiangchuhuaquanshisunhailingyifang。

 duocizhengzhi，zhiqiuchuliyigenanti，yaoqingxizishenshiweiheerchao，bubipianyichuzhong，beixintailazhezou，wangleyuanbendemudi，rangjushiyuelaiyueyifabukeshoushi，xianghudouwuloutinengxia。

2.再多我，少说你

 buguankeguanshishishisha，buguannazhongfangshidechizedoushizaochenglingyifangdefangbeixintaizhuangtai。jiusuanshinishuodehaiyoudadaoli，jiusuantashuodeshikeguanshishi，lingyifangjianghuizuochudefanyingjiushishuobianbonidejianjiehuoshibaochichenmo，yaobujiushishuofuyanleshihuifu。fuqichaojiashangganqing，hunyinmaodunruhehuagangeweiyubo?

 daduoshubingbushiyongxintingquyijiannidejianyi，bingshizhelejie。yincichaojiadeneishihou，yaoshaoshuo“niruhe.......”，zaiduo“woruhe.......”。genjuxushuexingshijian，biaoshuzishentihui，nengranglingyifanggengqingqingsongsongdijienazishendejianyi。

3.要了解吵架并不是以便完毕关联

 hunyinmaodunruheyouxiaohuajie?xiangyaowanhuilaogongquantuidisanzhe?lijiyuyuezixunkuaisu wanhuihunyin !zhongguofanganshizhongjiude：chaojiabingbushiyibiantichufenshou，zhishixunzhaoxianghujiaowangdefangfa。weilefangzhizaichaojiaquanguochengzhongchanshengwujie，ninengbiaoshuzishenduizheixieganqingdegaoduzhongshishuiping，bubiyixindequzeguailingyifang，duobiaoshuzishenyuanyihuanjiezheixieguanliandexinyuan。zhongjiububiyitichufenshouqukankanheweixielingyifangrangbu，biezhuneijuzuijuedehua。

yongxinbenshimeiyoucuode，keshiyixieshierbushihetaiguozhuiqiuwanmei。bieyouyuchaojia，rangyiqiandeyouairen，zuizhongchengweimolu。