婚姻那些事儿：身处离婚边缘如何自救

 jintianyelailiaoliaohunyinneixieshier，xingfuhunyinmimasheinengpojie?henduorenbieshuoxingfumeimanle，meiyouyipailiangsanjiuyijingshiqingxingle，shenchulihunbianyuanruhezijiu?

一、身处离婚边缘如何自救

1、遇到矛盾相互体谅

 fuqijianyoumaodunyaohuxiangliangjie，buyaoguoduodekaolvmaodundexijie，bamaodundexijiedougaoqingchuleshimeiyoubiyaode。yaoyoudian“hexini”jingshen。yaoliangjieduifangdegexing，renyibandouhuizheiyang，yishixingqi，huishuoyixieqihua，huasuiranguotou，danbuyaosuoxiejiaoliang。

 xingfuhunyinmimaruhepojie?chaojiadeshihouyaocongzijideshenshangzhaomaodundeqiyin，zaishidangshihou、shidangchanghe、xiangduifangpeigebushiyemeishenmebukeyide。xiangyaowanhuilaogongquantuidisanzhe?lijiyuyuezixunkuaisu wanhuihunyin !

2、肯定对方的长处

 xingfuhunyinmimaruhepojie？hunyinneixieshierhelianaimeiliangyang，gaosunidepeiouniyaoxianshuochuduifangdeyoudian，ganjitasuozuodeyixieshiqing，niyaoxianzanmeiganxieduifang，womenmeigerendouxiwangdedaokendinghezanmei。

 jiexialaitacaiyuanyijieshounisuoshuodexiamiandehua，“yinweinizenmeyang，suoyicaihuihaidewozheiyang”，zheiyangdehuabuyaoshuo，yinweiyidankaiqibaoyuanmoshi，jiexialaitajiuhuibaerduohexinguanqilai，shuozaiduodehuadoutingbujinqu，zheiyangjiumeiyoubanfaxiufubicizhijiandeguanxi。zaoyuqingganweijimianlinfenshou?

3、创造共同语言

 hunyinneixieshiershuodaodishipeiban，erpeibanzongshishaobulejiaoliu。ruguoshuangfangyougongtongdeyuyan，neimekeyiduoduowajue，ruguomeiyou，huozhehenshao，neimeyaoxuehuilejieduifangdeaihao、xiangfa、sanguan，bingqiejijidequlejiezheixie。

 xingfuhunyinmimaruhepojie?youlegongtongdian，caihuiyougongtongyuyan，zaiyiqideshihoucaibuhuichuxian“lengchang”dejiongjing，cainengranghunyinzaigongtongdeaihaozhongjieshoubicidexinshangheguli，ranghunyinxiangzheyigehaodefangxiangfazhan。