婚姻问题心态咨询案例：性格不和，我想离婚

 zaihunyinli，henduorenshuo“womentaibuyiyangle，womenhebulai”，yizhiyuyitianmeidehunyinkaishi，yicanrendelihunshouchang。neime，gexingchayizhendejiushidaozhifuqibuhedeyuanyinma？rangwomenkanyixiahunyinxintaizixunanli，ranhouhunyinxintaizixunshijiwomenfenxiyixia，xiangzhidaogengduodexiaohuogen huazhenqingganxiaobian lailejieyixiaba。

一、婚姻问题心态咨询案例

1、hunyinxintaizixunanli

 mounvshidehunyinwentixintaizixun：wohelaogongxinggebuhe，shenghuofangshichayitaida，meiyousixiangjiaoliu，meiyougongtongyuyanhegongtongdeaihao。hetagoutonghaoduocile，tahaoliangtianjiuyoubuxingle，yizhifanfanfufu，woshizhendeganjuehenleile。ruguoxinggezhendebunenggaibian，zheiyangxiaqu，wozhendexianglihunle。womenhaiyouhaizi，woxianzaiyegujibuleneimeduole，wobuxiangrangzijijiuzheiyangyibeizibuxingfu。zheiyangdehunyin，haiyouwanhuidekenengma？

2、hunyinxintaizixunshifenxi

zaifuqishifouxianghedewentishang，womencunzaiyigecuowuderenshi：shuangfangde“gexing”xianghe, hunyincaihuichenggong。

 shishishang，yiduifuqibixu“juede”xianghe、qinjin, tamendehunyincaihuichenggong。biru，xianshengbuchishourou,taitaibupengfeirou,taitaikeyishuo:“womenhebulai, womenshenzhilianmainakuairoudekanfadoubuyiyang。”yekeyishuo:“womenhenhedelai, renheroudoukeyitongshimanzuwomenlianggeren。”“hubu”he“buhe”qishizhishiduixiangtongqingkuangdebutongquanshi, yizunzhongdetaidulaikanbicidebutongzhichu, shuangfangjiubianchenglehubu;yibumandexintailaikan,tongyangdexiangyichuyehuishishuangfangkanqilaibushiheduifang, suoyishi“xintai”zaochengshiwufazhanfangxiangdebutong。

 zaifuqiguanxizhongxiangxinbicishixianghede，baochizunzhong，zengjiaqinhegan, keyishigexingshangdechayizhuanhuachengfuqiguanxizhongdecaifu, yinweiyizunzhonghexinshangdexintaiqukandaiduifang，caikeyixuerenzhizhangbujizhiduan，shuangfangdouhuicongduifangshenshangxuexidaodongxi, erbuhuichangshixiangyaobaduifanggaibianchengzijideyingzi，shuangfangdouhuiganjiduifangweileweixihunyinguanxisuozuodeyiqie。erbuhedexiangfa，zeshiguanxizhongdezunzhongkaishizouyangdeyigetebiejingxun。

 zhiyaoganqingshangdelianxicunzai, jishiyoubutongdejiazhiguan, huojingjitiaojianbuxiangpei, qishiyemeishenmeguanxi, wennuandeganjuehuishirenjijidizhanwangweilai，bicihuirenweizheixiechayi“henyouqu”huoshi“youyisi”。zhiyoudangaiyixiaoshideshihou, womensuorenweipeiouyingjuyoudetiaojiancaihuibiandezhongyao，womenbuzaixinshangduifang，kaishiduiduifangkeke。suoyi，duifangtiaojiandeduoguaheyaoqiudeqiangruo, jiushizuoweikaoliangguanxizhongxingfugandezhibiao。