老公坚决要离婚最有效的挽回方法是什么

 laogongjianjueyaolihunzuiyouxiaodewanhuifangfashishenme？ruguolaogongjianjueyaolihunhaowuwanhuiyudideshihou，jiuxuyaoganjinxingdongqilaile。laogongjianjueyaolihunchenggongwanhuihunyindeqingkuanghaishiyoude， huazhenqinggandaoshi gaosuni，laogongjianjueyaolihunzuiyouxiaodewanhuifangfashishenme。

一、与你的老公好好交谈

 laogongjianjueyaolihunzuiyouxiaodewanhuifangfashishenme？goutongshizuizhongyaode，fuqideganqing，xuyaobicidexinren。fuqijiandehaohuakeyicujinfuqijiandehejie。ruguowomenzaiyiduanguanxizhong，womengenbenbugoutong，neimewomendeguanxijiuhuibiandehuanmie。ruguofuqibunenghaohaojiaotan，hunyinjiuyaojieshule。youshi，ruguowomenzaigoutongfangmiancunzaiwenti，womenkeyixuanzejishidijinxingjiaoliuhegoutong。bijing，guanxizuixuyaodeshilianghaodegoutonghehudong。

二、不要在夫妻之间发生冷战

如果老公坚决要离婚毫无 挽回  yudidehua，hunyinjiuhuibengkui。womenxuyaozaihunyinzhongchengshixiangchu。renhewentidouxuyaolianghaodegoutong。zainidehunyinzhongyouwentishihenzhengchangde。womenxuyaohuxiangyongbao。womenyinggaixuehuizaihunyinzhongyongbaoxingfu。womenyinggaizhidaoruhechengshouwomendeganqing。

三、夫妻不要分开生活

 zhangfuruhejianchilihun？jirannijiehunle，jiudaizaiyiqiba。buyaozaifenkaishenghuole。ruguonijiehunle，erqiejingchangfenkaishenghuo，nideguanxihuichanshengjiduhecaiyi。ruguonijiehunle，fuqibubifenkaishenghuo。ruguowomenbunengzaiguanxizhongqinmi，neimezheizhonghunyinkenengshiquqiyiyihejiazhi。bijing，aishixuyaobaochihuolidedongxi。

四、认同对方的观点

 qishifuqizhijianhuiyinfamaodunyibandoushiyinweiliangrendeguandianbutong。youyuzaiganqingshenghuozhongshuangfangdoubuzhidaotuoxie，jiuhuiyinfayixiliedezhengchao。danshizaizhengchaoguochengzhongshuangfangdouhuishiqulizhi，daozhiliangrenmanmanshuyuan，zuihounaodaolihundejumian。suoyi，dangnilaogongtichulelihundeqingqiushi，nijiukeyifansiyixiaziji，kankanzijishibushizuocuole，zheiyangnimendehunyinguanxicaibuhuidaobingdiandedibu。laogongjianjueyaolihunchenggongwanhuihunyindeanliyeshiyoude，qianwanbuyaoduizijimeiyouxinxine。

五、表现出宽容体贴

 richangshenghuozhong，xingfuyexubuguoshinidebanlvzaibujingyijiandeyigewenhou、yongbaodengdeng。suoyi，zuoweinvrenjiuyinggaidongdekuanronghelijienanrendenanchu。lailiuzhunidelaogong。

六、审视自身的错误，了解对方的需要

 zhongxinshenshinimendeganqingjingli，nishifouzaixiangchushijindaoleqizidezeren，nishenshangshifouyouduifangwufajieshoudequedian？niyaozhongxinrenshiziji，bingkaishigaibianziji。waixing、xingge、weirenchushidetaidudengdeng，bingqiexuyaolijikaishigaibian。