怎么正确处理老公的外遇

 dangzaihunyinshangbeizhuangshanglelaogongwaiyudeshiqing，zuoweiqizidenihuizenyangchulilaogongdewaiyu？jintian huazhenqinggan xiaobianjiujidajiajiangjiangguanyuzheigewentideyixiejianjie，xiwangnenggoubangzhudaodajia。

一、怎么正确处理老公的外遇

1、弄清事情真相

 shikongxuelaichaohaishiqueyouqishi,xunongqingchu。ruozhishichuanyaohuowuhui，erzuolaopodepianpiyoudadonggange，qishixiongxiong，zeshiqingkenengzhendejiuxiangzheshuangfangbuxiwangdefangxiangqufazhanle，zheiyangzuojiuzhendeshihuizhiwanyi，yincixianyaonongqingshiqingzhenxiang。

2、遇事先冷静

 yushixianlengjing，wubijizhuzheijuhua。zaifahuozhiqianyidingyaoxiansikaojifenzhong，rangyaoshuochudehuaxianzaishejianshangtingliujimiaozhong。zheiyangbuzhiyushuochurangzijihouhuidehua，yinciwulunyudaoleshenmeshiqingyaoxianlengjing，haohaosikaoxia，huoxunengzhaodaogenghaodejiejuefangan

3、shuangfangkeyihaohaotantan

 zenmechulilaogongdewaiyu？wojuedeyinggaishuangfangkeyihaohaotantan。bijinghaishiyouganqingde，jingguolizhidesikaozhihou，keyihelaogonghaohaotantan，kaichengbugongdejiaotan，xiwangnenggoulejiedaolaogongweishenmehuizaiwaimianyoushiqing，ruguozhendeshizijideyuanyin，zijiyeyaolengjingdejieshou

4、有效试探

 zaicizhihou，keyishitanxialaogong。ruguoganjuelaogongzhishiyishiyiluanqingmi，buxiaoxinmishilehuijiadefangxiang。erqielaogongyizhiduinikeyiyinmandehua，yekeyibutiaoponeicengchuanghuzhi，zhuangzuoshenmedoumeifashengyiyang。zhaoyangliaolijiawu，jiesonghaizi、xiaojingfumu，qiejiabeideduilaogonghao，zheiyangruguotaxinlihaiyounihezheigejia，neimetayidinghuihuitoude，jiranzhuangzuobuzhidaoyejiuyizhichenmoxiaqujiuhaole。

5、改变自己

 suiranzheiyangshuoyoudiancanku。danshilaogonghuoduohuoshaohuihezijiyouguanxi，yaomeshizijipiqitaiguoyubaozao，yaomeshizijizongshizaimangliuhushiletadeyixieganshou，huozheshiyinweichulibuhaoyixieshiqingrangjiatingchanshengmaodun，yinciranglaogongwukenaihezhinengyimeixuanzetaobi，yincicaihuichuxianwenti，yaoshizhegaibianziji。gaibianzijishijiejueguanyuzenmechulilaogongdewaiyuwentideyigehenfangfa。

6、buyaozhuazhexiaobianzibufang

yuyixingxiangchudeguochengzhong，nishibushiyehuiyudaolingnifannaodenanti？zhuomobudingduifangxinlidaodizaixiangshenme？