夫妻外遇怎么劝

 zuijinyoutebieduoderentidaodangfuqiwaiyuzenmequandewenti，jintian huazhenqinggan xiaobianjiujidajiayixiehelidejianyi，xiwangnenggoubangzhunibayigejiatingzhongxinwanjiuhuilai。

一、当夫妻外遇怎么劝

1、shuliqingxu，dongxineixin

 dangfuqiwaiyuzenmequan？yidingyaorangtamenshuliqingxu，dongxiduifangneixin，zailingyibandewaiyupuguanglezhihou，shoudaoshanghaideyifangwangwangyouzhexuduowuweizachendexintaifanying，erzheixiexintaishangdeganjue，yerang“ruheshanhou”denanti，biandegengjiajishoule。zheixielingrennankandexinjing，baokuo：

2、buyaoshiquduizijidezunzhong

 yinweijiyuwanhuihunyin，yourenyincifaxianzijibuzeshouduan，zuochuleyixie“genbenbuxiangziji”dexingwei，liruchengtianyishenyiguidichaqin，chuanshangbusanbusidexingganyiwu，chengtiankunaozheyaozisha，dengdeng。

 erzheixiezijiyixiangbuchidexingwei，juranhuichuxianzaizijishenshang，zheihuirangrenshiquzunyandeganjue，changchangyoujiashenleduilingyibandeyuanhen：“niyaoshimeiyouduibuqiwo，woyebuhuiluodaozheibanlianzijidoubuchidedibu！”dangfuqiwaiyuzenmequan？niyidingyaorangtamenzhidaobuyaoshiquduizijidezunzhong。

3、gaosutamenbuyaoshiqu“ziworentong”gan

 yuanbendui“ziji”dekanfa，liru“woshiyigeyouzhehemudejiating，yijiaiwodejiarenderen”，“wochenggongdijingyingzheyigelingbierenxianmudehunyin”deng，suizhelingyibandechugui，yegenzhepomiele。“neiwo’daodishisheini？”zheizhongziworentongwanquanbeidianfudewuligan，lingrenbuzhisuocuo。

4、失去“特殊感”

 yiqianlingyibanduizijidehao，yizhirangrenjuedezijishiyuzhongbutongde，suoyitacaihuirendingzijishitadeweiyi：“nimeixuanzexiaohui，yemeikanshangxiaojing，ershitiaozhonglewo，neiyidingshiyinweiwohentebie，bitamendouhao。”

 ranerrujinfajue，zijijingbushitazaishishangqingyouduzhongdeduixiang，yuanxiandeneiyifenjuedeanquanxingfude“teshugan”xiaoshile，liandaibujiandeshizijidezizun：“yuanlaiwoyidianyebutebie，yidianyebutaorenxihuan。”

5、孩子挽留

yuyixingxiangchudeguochengzhong，nishibushiyehuiyudaolingnifannaodenanti？zhuomobudingduifangxinlidaodizaixiangshenme？