成为第三者的原因

disanzheshishenmeyisi？disanzhe，shitongguohulianwangliuxingqilaideyigeci，shiduidisanzhedemiecheng。

 disanzheshishenmeyisi？disanzhezaizhongguofalvshangdehanyishizhibeiqidaodesanguan，pingzijidegerenxihao，siyichazutarendeqingganshenghuo，pohuaiyuanyoufuqidejiatingguanxideren。

 falvshangdisanzheshenmeyisi？disanzhezaifalvshangmeiyoumingwendingyi，danyibanzhihejuyoufadinghunyinduixiang，fashengfadinghunyinzhiwaidepohuaiyuanyoufuqi、jiatingguanxideren。zaifalvshangdisanzhebingbuqinfanrenherendequanli，yebuzuoweifanzuidingyi。chulebushouhunyinfabaohuzhiwai，danjiudisanzhebenshenlaishuo，bingbuweifa，danjutidaoshishixingweishangzeyaojutiwentijutifenxi，liruhunwaitongjujiushuyuweifaxingwei。

 shehuidaodeshangdisanzheshenmeyisi？disanzhebenshenyanzhongweibeizhongguochuantongdaodeguannianyushehuigongde，duigeren、jiatingheshehuidouyoujidadeweihai。shiyigeshifenrangrentoutengdewenti。yixiayuanyinhuiyoufahunwailian。

一、成为第三者的原因

1、生活寂寞单调

 ruguohunhoushenghuorangrengandaoshiwanghebumanzu，henduorenjiuhuixunzhaoqitadefangshihuoshicijilairangzijidexintaihuodemanzuhepingheng。

 biruhunyinshenghuorangrengandaojimo、wuliao，fuqishuangfangqueshaoqinnigan，bunenggoujiduifangdailaishenghuolequ，zheishi，disanzhe、hunwailianjiuyoujikechengle。youqishineizhongzhangqifenjuliangdidefuqi，kandaobierendefuqidouchengshuangchengdui，enaitianmi，xinlinanmianhuichanshengshiluohebupinghengdeganjue，yincirongyiquxunzhaobiede“wenrouxiang”。

 haiyouyizhongqingkuangshihunyinshenghuoguoyudandiao，quefaxinyi，meitiandoushitongyangdeshiqing，tongyangdeshenghuomoshi，zheishiganqingrongyibiandepingdanwuwei，shenghuoyemeiyoushenmelequ。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，hunwailiandexinqicijijiugengrongyituxianchulai，disanzhezhuazhurenmendexin，shiqijuanlianwufaziba。

2、感情不和

fuqideganqingshihunyindejichu，ruguofuqiganqingbuhedehua，jiuhenrongyidaozhihunyinzhonggezhonggeyangdewentichuxian。

 ruguofuqizhijianzhangqiquefagoutong，ganqingbuhe，neimetamenjiuhenrongyijieshouqitadeyinyouhuoshizhaoxunqitadeganqingweijieyixunqiuganqingshangdebuchang。

3、志趣不和

youdefuqizaiganqingshangbenlaihenhao，danshijianzhanglequefaxianbicimeiyougongtongdezhiqu。

 biruqizixihuantiaowu，zhangfuquezhixihuandapai；zhangfuaihaowenxueyishu，qiziqueduishishangchaoliuqingyouduzhong；laopoyouyuandadelixiang，zhangfuqueanyuxianzhuang；zhangfufafentuqiang，qiziquebusijinqu。zheixiexingqu、aihao、zhixiangshangdechayishiliangrenyuelaiyuemeiyougongtongyuyan，budiaoyeyanzhongdebuyizhi。ruguozheishizaiwaiyudao“zhiyin”，jiuhenrongyishirenxianruhunwailianzhongqu。

4、性生活不和谐

zheiyeshidaozhihunwailianxianxiangchanshengdeyuanyinzhiyi。

 ruguohunyinmeiyouhexiedexingshenghuo，shibukenengdeyiweixide。jishishuangfangganqingzaihao，youyouduoshaorennenggouyibeiziguo“bolatu”shideaiqingshenghuoni？zheishifashenghunwailiansihuyijingwufabimianle。