婚姻咨询：挽回出轨的他，你必须想清晰的事情

免费 效果怎么样?近期尤为女士挽友寻找我，告诉我：教师，实际上我以前一直感觉婚姻生活衣食住行真幸福的，我俩有一个讨人喜欢的孩子，初恋旧爱新欢的工作中，也有自身的房屋和车，实在太幸福快乐的三口之家，想不到，我丈夫竟然出轨了。

 yikaishideneishihoutahaimanzhewo，shuowotaiduoxinle，zhihouwuyijiandaigezhengzhe，tajiuzhengdaguangmingdegenneinvrenzaiyiqi，fangfowozhaobudaoyiyang。mianfeihunyinzixunxiaoguozenmeyang?hunyinwentixintaizixunzenmeyang?

 zheiyiyiqianlishishuoaiwoyibeizidenanrenweihejiubianweizheiyimoyangle，nandaoshuoyiqianchangshuodehuaquanshijiade，niwozhijiandeganqingdoushijiadema?wojiushizheibandejianxinta，huandedexiachangqueshineiyangde，chuguidenanrenneixinjiujingshiruhexiangdea?

我给她的回应是：

 dajiadeganqingshiqueshi，zheiyidianniwubiyaojianxin，bukeyiyouyutarujinchuguile，jiufourentayiwangwodeai。nikeyilejie，ganqingshihuichixuzhuanbiande，congyikaishideshuirujiaorong，daozuizhonghuijianjiandidexiaochu，quanbudeganqingdoushiqinshenjinglineiyangdequanguocheng，yinciniwuxuneimedefannao。

 yinweiwobukeyilijihuiyingnizhangfuweihechugui?youyusuoyourendezhuangkuangdoubuyiyang，danshi，nenggoupouxinanrenchuguidexintaitedian。

逃出空虚感

nanrendekumenfenliangyibufen，yishichongdongdekumen;ershiduobitongkudekumen。

找寻自尊心

 zaiyishizhuxinghegongzuoshangdaduoshuchuzailieshi，yincigenjuhunwailian，xurongxinbaozeng，tamenduirentongdewubiqipan，zaihunwailianzhongdedaolejidadeduanqineipeichang。

寻找一种刺激性

 youyibufennanrenfenwaidexiaizhengfu2、tiaozhan，tamenzongshizuozhenshidezijidexinli，queqianqueduiganqingxizhiderenzhinengli，yincihuizhaoxun‘hunwailiandecijixing。

juedefengliuyunshishinanrendehuiyuantequan

 zheileixintaizhuangtaijishinenggoushangsushuqiannianqian，naizhizheizhongnanrenhuiyouyizhongqiguailuojixing，jibianzishenfengliuyunshi，doushizongsuanqizide，benzhimeiyouguanniandaotashiyizhongjudadesunhai。

 dangzishendenanrenchuguihou，juedaduoshudenvxingzaizhengtuoyiduanshijianzhihoudianjizhequwanhui。keshijijimangmangquwanhuiquehushilezishenxinlideyaoqiu，yemeidouhaimeifupingzishendewaishang。

yingduichugui，biwanhuilaogonggengbixudeshizhaodaozishen。

yinci，zaiwanhuichuguidezhangfuhewanhuihunyinyiqian，wulunruherenmenyaowenqingzishendexinli：

zheiyinanrenshibushizuigaiwowanhui?

zheiyiduanhunyinshenghuoyeyoumeiyouzaicidebixu?

wowangwangxiangwanhuishiqueshiaitahuanshibugan?

wanhuishixuqinshenjinglidedetongkuzishenshibushinengchengdan?

jiaruzhangfuzhonggui，zishenneixindekanshibushipingpingdandan?

renmenshibushinengzaicichuangjianqinmiwujianganhexinlaigan?

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 youxuduoqianquzixundeqizimendouganjuezishenxiangqingxilezheizhongnanti，keshishuozhendedegangkaishiwanhuishijicaozuodeneishihou，queshi......

xuduorenduiwomenshuo，benrenweizishennengchengdanwanhuizongsuandaodetongkuhechaimo，xiangbudaoquerangzishenshenxianmangran。

youxieren，zhangfushihuijiale，danshizishenneixindezhenzihaiyao，shiriguodehenzaole。

youxieren，benxiangyizhijianchibuxie，ganjuetongkuyousheqile，danhuanshibugan，quanburenjiushenxiandanxinzhong。

 zheihuanshiyouyumeiyouhaohaodidezhenglizishendexinli。jiaruqizimenzaiwanhuiqiangaohaoyigeneixinyugu，neimarenmensuochengdandetongkuyeburongyineimada。

xianbabufajianmandian，haohaodinongqingzishendegousi，xianggaoqingchuzishenyaoxiangnaxie，suihoucongrongbupo、congrongdandingdiquwanhui。

 jiarulijingrenmendeqinfenzuizhongwanhuilechuguidezhangfu，neimajiexiaquyaokaolvdaodeyaoyiruhedefangshigenzhangfuzaicijiaowang，ruheranghunyinshenghuobiandeyuelaiyuejingcai。

 bingqieqianwanbiewangleba“xiulianzishen”zheiyiketianjiadaowanhuizhangfuzheiyiquanguochengzhong，conglierwaidequgaibianxianzhuang，qurangzishenyuelaiyueqiangjingqilai，yidingyaorangzishenyouchongzudegongzuonengliquchengdansuoxuyingduideyiqiejieguo。hunyinwentixintaizixunzenmeyang?