婚姻问题心态咨询:男人这六个心态状态伎俩

免费 效果怎么样?婚姻日常生活当一个男人想再次得到随意，想从这一段婚姻里边摆脱出来时，而她们都不期待因离婚而担负过多的损害。就爱玩一些心态游戏来逃避责任。由于离婚自身 的多元性会涉及共同财产的一些分派难题，这也变成男人争得的一个資源。

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耍无赖——蓄意对家中漠不关心

waiyudeneishihounanrenxuduohuolishijiandoushizhifangdaolianrenshoushang，chuzheiyiwaizaiyaosu。jiarujiazhongzaoyihennanrongdoudexiata。

yifanhuijiazhong，qizijiuduitabaolixiangtong，fumuxiaohaichizelengchaorefengta，tajiugengweibuxiangyaohuijia。

dangtajuexinyaolihundeneishihou，jiuhuixuyibuhuijia。mobuguanxinjiazhongdeshier，bajiazhongzuoweibinguan，qingshiniyuxiaohai。

 yiqiejiawuhuolingsuidoushibeita“yujiwuguan，tingzhirenzhi”，nixiangtahujiu，tadiyijuhuajiushishuo：“nibingbushijialima?zheidianersuoshihaibixuwobangzhu?”

 tazheileiduijiazhongdesanmanhehushidexintai，shijishangshizaibinvxingjijitiaoxuanlihundeyizhongwuxingzhongdewuqizhuangbei，tademudifeichangjiandan，“wolianzheiyijiadouxiangyaole，nisichanlibuleyoushayisini?”

xuduonvxingjiushishuochibuxiaolaogongdezheileijueqinglengdandegerenxingwei，jijijiaoxietoujiang，naizhihaijijinaolihun。

找茬儿——专挑你手上的存在的不足

 jinwuzuchi，renfeishengxian。buguandajiayikaishiwanhundeneishihou，taduijinishizaitaiduodedelingrenmanyihezanyang，keshirujintayanjuannideneishihou，jiuruhekanzhenidouganjuebukanbuguan。

meiridoushikekeni，yuenidechaer。wulunnizairuhetixindiaodan，shenzhongnengjia，tayedouhuiduiniweiman。

 buranjiushishuobawaiyudeyiwutuidaonishoushang，bingbushishuoniqianghan，duitadefumubutaihao。jiushishuoxianniyizhesuqi，daibuxiashou。

huanjuhuashuomudiquanshiyibianrenaoni，jinijuedezaoyipeiduibuletale，jinerjinigentazhengchao。

xuduoqiziquanshizhongjiantadexinkan，zaitadezhaochaerzhongtuoxie，dengyouyitiannishoubule，niyehuijijiyunxuqulihun。

夜不归——导致夫妻不和两地分居的“错觉”

 xuduonanrenzaiwaiyuhoupobudeyigongzuoyali，yibianduopeilianrenyixieshijian。huizaixifuzheierzhaoyixieyebuguideyuanyin，lirujiabanjiadiangongchu，peigukezheixie。

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扮穷——借以离婚时少分、分不清共同财产

 yixienanrenshihenzisizilide，dangtajuexinyaolihundeneishihou，haiyaoweijianglaideyishizhuxingliuhoulu，zuozhunbei。tajiuhuigangkaishibanqiong。

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给花浇水——先释放“夫妻关系早就裂开”的风

 nanrenyaoxianglihun，youbuyuandanfuwangluoyulunshehuidaodedegongzuoyalideneishihou，tamenhuilijizaibicifumujiqixiongmeineibianjihuajiaoshui。

 wohelaoporujinshi“santianyidachao，wutianyidanao”，huoshihezishenfumuguanlianbutaihaozheixie。shijishangjiushishuo，jixuduorenyigeanshizhe，renmenfuqiguanximeifaweichixiaqu，lihunshizhongjiuhuideshier。

 dengnitazhenshimingquetichulihundeneiyitian，quanbuderendoushiganjuedajiafufulihunshizheigezuoqizideyiwu，jueduiyixiangbudaozheizhongyaochuanshitazheiyiwuqingwuyinanrenzaoyitiqianzhunbeihaode，

“糖衣炮弹”——对婚姻做一次详尽刻骨铭心的“反省”

 xuduoqizizaihuozhilaogongchuguile，xintaixianxiangmenglie，huozuochuyixiepianjidegerenxingwei。yidingshuipingshangweihailaogongdegongzuoqiantu。

yixienanrendeqingshangzhishangjiaoweigao，tamenhuilijizhangwozhudaoquan，bahunyinyinxiangzishenyaoxiangdefangweifazhanqushi。

 tamenhuihenzhenxinshiyideduidajiadehunyinliekaizuoyicikegumingxindeziwofansi，fangfaxuduo。liruyuni“jiaoxin”“xianliao”huoshi“jixin”“fasongyoujian”zheixie。

 huibadajiajiehunqiandeyixiemeihaoshiguang，jiehunhouhuoshi，jiqijiehunhoudeyixiemocakaizhanyigetaolun。tamenhuijijifanshengzishendebugou，chengzannidenuliheqinfen。

 erzhenduidajiazhenshilihundeyuangu，jiuyongdaoyixiehenguanfangwangdekeqihualaiwanzhuandehuiying，tajueduiburongyitijilihunyouyudisanzhe。

 zhishiyongyixieliru，“renmendeqingganyidan，hunyinyisi”detuoci。neiyangdongzhiyiqing，xiaozhiyilidezuofa，heduinidezhenxinchengyi，shiyizhiyurangwangritongfangdefufubierbujiande。hunyinwentixintaizixunzenmeyang?